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Search Results: how to get her be interested
Am I just lazy or is ADHD and burnout hurting my job performance?
I am often told my work is not good enough even though I really try and want to be motivated. I am a custodian at a high school for context. Last year when I first started I caught on quickly. However over this school...
Have you ever missed a cue that someone was trying to kiss you?
In a nutshell, A bunch of us were going to a comedy show organized by one of my friends. I met one of the guys for dinner beforehand -- my idea not his, so not "a date" to me on any level. It was freezing, so he got an...
Did this 40M lose interest, or am I overthinking his slow replies?
31F and anytime there is a shift in the consistency of communication, I assume they’re not interested. That’ll mean either I’ll make sure it’s a slow fade or just stop replying since it’ll be inevitable at one point. This...
Anonymous
(30-35) As we hit our thirties, does physical attraction matter less in dating?
I’ve found this to be true in my thirties, both of myself and of the men I’ve attracted. I am attractive, but I am too fat now to be truly beautiful and I’m starting to age a bit more in the face. Although I still look...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 How can I safely achieve a more femboy-style body shape?
I am really interested in just getting a femboy type of body but have no idea how to get started. and before you say just look it up, I did. I still want opinions from others though on what I should do.
Anonymous
(18-24) Am I wrong for having feelings for a coworker while in a sexless relationship?
So I have a girlfriend of 5 years, she's always been good to me and I love her very much, but we dont get sexual, have not for about 3 years. Its dumb but im too big for her. She ends up bleeding etc and sometimes the...
Zally
Xper 5 Age: 33 She gave me her number but has a boyfriend—should I still text her?
There’s this new girl at my job who I’m kinda interested in. It all started after she randomly started talking to me on two different occasions. I didn’t think too much of it until every time I had to go by her area, she...
Anonymous
(25-29) Was this guy actually flirting with me or just being weird?
I remember a few years ago, I was standing outside and some guy came up to me saying the charm on my lanyard (that I’m wearing as a necklace) is nice. I explained a little about it. It’s just my roommate got it for me. It...
Anonymous
(18-24) How long did it take you to fully date again after a long marriage?
After my ex wife and I parted ways , it was hard for me to feel fully ready to date again , even though I got over my ex for the most part , it has been hard for me to start over again and give myself to someone new...
Is it wrong to be very friendly with a man I’m not interested in?
I’m a very bubbly, chatty person by nature. One of my best friends told me that while it’s understandable to be a social butterfly, I have to be aware of how that might be perceived by men, when we used to be romantically...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Why is it so hard to get a job even when I apply everywhere?
I put in so many applications and only hear back from one hand full of people. I never call to check in applications because usually if they don’t contact me that often means they weren’t interested in interviewing me....
Tonita026
Xper 3 Age: 29 Why do men only see me as a fun friend and never as girlfriend material?
Im constantly in my own head wondering whats wrong with and why guys dont like me or want to be with. Im well travelled, funny and just a genuinely happy person who loves to have fun. I dont have trouble with getting...
Anonymous
(25-29) Have you ever had someone start talking badly about you behind your back just because they couldn’t have you the way they wanted?
I had a coworker who was interested in me for months.. but I told him I didn’t feel the same way, though I was open to being friends. After that, he stopped talking to me completely…later, a close friend told me he’d been...
ElenaSeluna
Xper 6 Age: 31 Why is it this generation of men really struggle to take accountability?
At my work im the only female union rep. I essentially do my normal work but kinda act as a let's say lawyer to my colleagues if they get in any trouble at work i can sit in there meeting and defend them and advice from a...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 Why do some people think there is unconditional love in relationships?
As much as I love my dear husband and he's a great father to our 11 month-old baby boy, there are obvious boundaries and limits that should never be crossed. Loving a partner or spouse unconditionally wouldn't be healthy...
Girls, Would you have a conversation with a stranger?
I don't mind until it gets weird. Had a woman come up to me on the boardwalk down the shore a few years ago. She started putting this teeny tiny animal clip ons. She seems a little spacey. Then she asked if I heard of...
dougeats
Xper 7 Age: 25 Do people lie about dating success just to impress others or spark jealousy?
There's a man I hadn't spoken to in ages. He was not very bright except academically and not very nice in general; but we have to get on okay, because we attend the same Autistic social group. Anyway, he recently said...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Should I change my whole personality and identity just to be loved?
I have worked hard to build to be this character, it worked in a lot of places, getting marks, getting jobs, making my parents proud, getting parents love. I cheaped out on body, outdoor life in many ways. The place it...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should bald men be more normalized and romanticized in mainstream media?
I myself am guilty of making fun out of bald men time to time but only out of banter never being actively cruel. My husband is bald himself and shaved all his hair off during covid when he was 27/28 and has never gone...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 Has anything changed much in 800 years of English history?
I'm just reading some history of Henry III, king of England between 1207-1272. One of Henry's contemporaries, Matthew Paris, describes him below. It got me thinking, if we change the word King to Keir Starmer or some...
Levin
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