Search Results: how to know if he just wants a hook up

The guy I like uses sex workers?

I met this guy when I first moved in to my apartment and he helped me move some furniture in and showed me around the local areas as I was new to the city. I thought it was really sweet of him and I started to crush on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, IIs it wrong if I want to get a girlfriend just to cheat on her?

I'm going to hook up with a girl who has a long term boyfriend. She's so hot. I just think it would be hotter if I had a girlfriend to cheat on also. I don't know do you think?,

Anonymous

(36-45)

My platonic female friend stopped talking to me because she found out I hooked up with someone via Tinder?

She found out though mutual connections. She messaged me saying “I didn’t think you were that type of person” and hasn’t texted me since. I honestly don’t understand what the issue is? I don’t want a relationship, but I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How should I act/behave when I have to see the guy I hooked up with a couple times and has since ghosted me?

I (24f) matched with this guy (29m) on tinder, I recognized him from a social club we participate in. He got my Snapchat and asked what I’m looking for, I said I’m open to see where things go-he said same. We messaged...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I tell his wife?

Just found out the guy I hooked up with (three times) 9 years ago is married and has actually been married for 10 years! He didn’t have social media but I came across his picture on his wife’s social media celebrating...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Just found out the guy I hooked up with (three times) 9 years ago is married and has actually been married for 10 years! He didn’t have social media but I came across his picture on

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Does he care? Am I being an idiot?

So been seeing a younger bloke for nearly 3 years, just a hook up. dont communicate much in between. known each other a long time. neither of us want more. But I’m an over thinker so think the worst. Does he even care...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I haven't seen my man in 11 months, do I tell him I want to hook up with someone else?

I haven't seen my man since 6 months pregnancy. The baby is now born and 8 months. 11 months total of not being in the same country. Most likely more then a year will pass before we are reunited as a family. The distance...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do you feel/think when you see an ex hook up or person you had feelings for the first time after a while?

Backstory to this is a had a hookup up with a ex colleague, we had previously been flirting for months when we had worked together, however it ended a bit awkardlt as he kicked me out right after we had slept together ( I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Thought I was being ghosted?

I recently met a guy and we have been hanging out. We kinda was comfort for eachother after we both lost a parent last year. So last week we hook up for the first time and it seems like the connection strengthened a...

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Guys, Dumped me but still text me back and keeps me on Snapchat?

In April I reconnected with a guy I went to high school with and we hit it off. For the first 6 weeks we talked everyday and snapped each other a lot. When he was drunk he told me he loved me, asked me to date him, move...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Is it normal to feel lost?

I’m moving out of my parents’ home, about to live alone for the first time ever. In my mid thirties, somewhere really quiet, as opposed to the noisy home I’m used to, where it’s so constantly loud and with everyone living...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What should I do about this guy I was seeing for a month who now wants to make our relationship friends with benefits instead of dating?

A month ago, I made a bumbl account & matched w a guy I went to elementary school with. We both had looking for a long term partner on our profiles. We are in our late 20s & haven’t spoken since hs. It seemed to be...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Keep running into the guy I hooked up with how do I handle this?

So about 4 months ago my former roommate and I hooked up, it was incredible, he said he wanted to wait and then we did about a month after I moved out. It was again, incredible. I have reached out and told him my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean if someone breaks up with you and promptly gets on dating apps?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. Sunday at 9pm, he broke up with me, saying that he's struggling with trauma and other things and just wants to be alone while he deals with it. Within 12 hours he got a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I feel like my girlfriend doesn’t understand that some things that you do when you’re single you’re stop doing when you are in a relationship?

Partying, girls trips, clubs. These things are just a turn off for me. I am serious about this relationship and I believe that some things you stop doing when you get into relationship and if I want my girl to be the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Doesn’t want to hurt me?

Hanging out with this guy, we’re both moving away have hooked up a few times and we’ve a beautiful intense emotional bond! I think they’re great, I’m 5 years older and I know this will end. I don’t expect a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is he acting distant lol of a sudden?

He used to flirt with me a lot we used to sext and everything and then we finally hooked up and he doesn’t give me attention anymore it tried to get him to hook up with me again and he’s always making an excuse not to and...

Anonymous

(30-35)