Search Results: in a relationship but love someone else

Past resentment causes me to get the nagging thought that I can find someone better than my current boyfriend?

My current boyfriend and I are both in our early 30s and have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now. Nowadays, he treats me extremely well and does everything a woman would wish for in a partner. He buys me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm AFAB (28) with lifelong disphoria, and after taking birth control, I ruined my relationship, does anyone else understand?

Since childhood, I’ve always felt like I wanted to be a boy, but my sheltered upbringing limited my understanding of options. In my early 20s, I found a way to access testosterone (not through medical means) for almost...

Ar15improvbackup

Xper 1 Age: 30

Is this cheating or otherwise suspicious or am I just overthinking/overreacting?

I can't believe I'm even typing this, but I think my boyfriend may be cheating on me. I don't suspect anything physical yet, but I do suspect emotional cheating in the sense I feel like he is lying about being in touch...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are you honest with your partner about your body count or do you fib it?

I know there are people that cannot handle honesty and will not accept your honesty, and will hold it against you , if they feel it’s too extreme for them to handle , pretty much why people tend to lie about their past in...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

What can I do about it tho?

I met a police officer online on the 20th of December, we started talking and he wanted to meet but I said I wasn't ready for a relationship because I broke up 2 months ago and I don't wanna experience same things again....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

He ended the relationship but is pushing to be friends?

We was friends for many years and somehow the friendship grew into a relationship. We was together 9 years, and out the blue he ends things with me. I say out the blue, but he was distant the 6 months prior, which made me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How to move on from someone who left you for someone else?

Sorry for a long post! My boyfriend broke up with me after one time when I tried to explain myself about my concerns in a relationship. He gave me silent treatment because he didn’t want to discuss it and went out. It all...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why am I not excited to see my girlfriend anymore? Is it me, her, or the relationship?

Lately, when I think about spending time with my girlfriend, I haven’t felt the same spark of excitement that I did when we first started dating. Don’t get me wrong, I care about her a lot and when we’re together, it’s...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is there a right and wrong way to love?

I don’t mean the unhealthy shit but I alway see people out there giving all this dating advice and how traditional relationships are the way to go or that your weird for falling in love with someone you barley know or how...

MLGbreezy

Yoda Age: 27

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Dating someone who grew up in an abusive home, what are the pitfalls and what can I do to help her?

between her lack of communication skills, her lack of confidence, and her lack of knowledge i find it almost impossible to deal with her. i know its because of how she was raised but i dont know how to change any of this....

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a guy says he "cares" about you but gets upset when you move on even if he doesn't want you?

Long story short he broke up with me over me being upset with him for standing me up after knowing each other for over 10 years after treating me like pure trash and has changed ever since I've been trying to get back...

Cherrylicious

Yoda Age: 35

We've been friends for two years and he never mentioned he had a girlfriend. Should I still be friends with him?

I met this guy through a mutual friend in our industry roughly two years ago. Our friendship grew and he turned into one of my best friends. I just recently found out he has a long-term girlfriend (5+ years) through a...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Can he be a person with Narcissistic personality disorder?

My 41 years old boyfriend (I'm 29) who I was dating for 3 years left me over a small argument after we got back together 2 months ago after a 7 months being apart. He asked me for another chance when I came 2 months ago...

anasgm

Xper 3 Age: 30

THE MOST CONFUSING SITUATIONSHIP EVER HELP?

i’ve met this guy through friends and he is not my major or even the same age as me, he is known for being extremely polite and gentle, he is never been in a rs or a situationship. A month later i had a fight with his...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do my friends keep trying to hook me up with guys?

Why can’t my friends understand that I gave up on relationships? I mean don’t get me wrong I appreciate what they’re doing but they need to back off. I know they’re both engaged and they said the need to find me a man and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Is he overreacting? Is this a normal behaviour or a reason to break up with someone? How can he act so cold after all the love and kindness I gave hi?

I am 29 and My 41 years old boyfriend who I was dating for 3 years left me over a small argument after we got back together 2 months ago after a 7 months being apart. He asked me for another chance when I came 2 months...

anasgm

Xper 3 Age: 30

Is this a normal behaviour or a reason to break up with someone? Is he overreacting? How can he act so cold after all the love and kindness I gave hi?

anasgm

Xper 3 Age: 30

Do you think he noticed I was avoiding him?

I was walking through town the other day and I pumped into two colleagues of mine walking home from work together on my day off. I said hello and got a talking a little from the corner of my eye I could see an old...

Anonymous

(25-29)