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30F and I wonder if most women get where I’m coming from. I’ve never been in a real relationship, saw someone very briefly in my early twenties. Haven’t had sex either since then and don’t feel the need to, masturbating doesn’t do anything for me. Also doesn’t help that I’m not the friendliest, the only way I’ve met up with guys over the years were on dating apps. I get attention on them but it just feels off in a way, I’ve always felt like I am going to end up alone. I don’t want kids but like the idea of getting married, over the years people have justified my single status to being picky or shy etc. Those are excuses or cop outs, I feel like compared to the average woman though I likely get less attention from guys in person.

Literally the only attention I’ve gotten from guys I find attractive are on dating apps, in person maybe someone I was outside with would tell me that this guy looked at me etc (on and off throughout the years). But they never make it known to me directly, it makes me second guess things. It’s like I always wonder why I never have a boyfriend if I’m told I’m attractive, I also hear about a lot of introverted/socially awkward women that are in long term relationships. I really wonder if finding the right person is the answer to all my issues, I’ve spoken to guys in the past and tend to find ways to get out of it before I determine if they’re a good fit or not. Something about guys has always felt…different. Since I was in my teens, never got the craze with being boy crazy etc.

In South Africa, fathers have rights to their children that vary depending on their relationship status with the child's mother:

Married fathers

Automatically have full parental rights and responsibilities if they were married to the child's mother at the time of conception, birth, or any time after that.

Unmarried fathers

Can acquire parental rights and responsibilities if they meet certain criteria, such as:

Living with the mother in a permanent life partnership at the time of birth

Agreeing to be identified as the child's father at birth

Applying to be identified as the child's father

Contributing to the child's upbringing

Visitation rights

Fathers have legal rights to visitation with their children, regardless of their relationship status with the mother.

Parental rights surrender

A father can voluntarily surrender his parental rights and responsibilities through legal procedures. This is a serious step that requires careful consideration and legal guidance.