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Search Results: thoughts on first date
Why did guy act so weird during our first date, was he not attracted?
I was talking to a guy for a few weeks online, we matched and couldn’t meet as he was busy but we were vibing well. We finally met in person but I could tell he just wasn’t feeling it, he ordered me a drink (without...
EtherealQueen01
Xper 3 Age: 35 Girls or Guys house/Appt first?
1. Do women feel safer going to a man's house/appt first or her house when it comes to going beyond the dating phase? 2. Does the girls or guys house/appt cleanliness play any roll in any future dates as to who goes to...
LadiesFavoriteToy
Xper 7 Age: 23 Confused 10 years later after my first love?
Back in 8th grade, my first love moved into my school district, and that’s when we met. From the day we met, we instantly clicked—we talked constantly through FaceTime, Snapchat, and texting. That was 10 years ago. We...
Anonymous
(18-24) Does person say harsh words if he/she truly loves someone?
I was his first love, he was mine too. He was the first whom I gave a chance to explore me and talk to me. I am really attractive and the reason of our break up was he stopped texting me when I was abroad. He said that...
Anonymous
(18-24) So I ran into my ex and now I'm having dumb thoughts?
Okay hear me out, hear me out. So we broke up two years because I felt like I wasn't having my emotional needs met, it was first relationship , well my first everything and I felt like I was bending backwards and he was...
Anonymous
(18-24) My Top 5 Marian Hymns
My Top 5 Marian Hymns In light of the complaints I often hear about the current state of popular music these days, and since May 13th, the date of this posting, commemorates Our Lady of Fatima, I thought I’d offer a few...
u Is this guy following em around the gym or am I imagining it?
about a year ago this guy who works as a janitor/cleaner at my gym approached me whilst I was working out and asked me to sign my name up for a class. I wrote my first and last name on a piece of paper he gave me and then...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I even consider him anymore?
I know some of y’all will probably think that seeking advice here might be dumb but whatever. I’m confused and I just want a pov from others so I’ll try my best to explain my situation. So I’ve met this guy in school and...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should special needs people only date each other and give up on dating non disabled people?
Okay guys. Im autistic. I’m just going to be straight up honest with you guys. I don’t think I will EVER find the man of my dreams. Let’s face it, most men that I want and like never like me back. I’ve only had two...
Anonymous
(25-29) Are these positive signs for a first date?
Last night felt less like a first date and more like an entire chapter. We matched on a dating app about two weeks ago. After five days of chatting, he asked for my number, and we moved to texting—exchanging memes,...
Scorpio962016
Xper 7 Age: 29 A woman who's older than I originally thought is enjoying going out with me, is that unusual?
I'm in my 20's and asked out a woman I have a crush on, she looks so young that I assumed she was also in her 20's like me. I found out on our first date that she's actually 36, I thought me being 25 would make her...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, should I tell him I like him or make a different move or just wait?
I've met this guy 2 months ago at an extracurricular activity and immediately thought he was cute and I had the vibe that he liked me too, he even asked for my ig. Around 2 days after that, I couldn't stop thinking about...
Anonymous
(18-24) Does the kind of car matter to women?
In the past I got judged because I never had a flashy car. I had old cars and got turned down for a date because of that. I have 2010 focus. It is old and has over 100k miles on it. So it’s nothing special. But thought...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it too early to ask about past relationships?
We've only been on one date and I didn't think it would be appropriate to ask about his previous relationships on the first date but I kind of want to ask him when his last relationship was and how did it end. And also...
Have you ever told a partner "I love you?" Did you mean it when you said it? Did the relationship succeed?
I have never said "I love you" when I did not consciously mean it, but I have said "I love you" when what I was feeling was some affection and excitement, but not love. In retrospect, I probably should not have said "I...
u Is the reason he ghosted me bad sex?
I was going out on dates with this guy for about a month. He took me to really nice places and we got along really well. He told me that he liked me and he wanted to see me basically everyday. and made it seem like he...
Anonymous
(18-24) How long does it take to build an emotional connection with a guy? Is it good to build emotional connection first or bad?
I never had a real serious boyfriend that is with me daily, meet family, trips, pics, live together , none of that. when I was 18 I met a guy and he was my first kiss, he texted me daily, for some time gave me ride home...
Sugar100
Yoda Age: 29 Did I mess up, or is it a lost cause?
I met this guy through Discord intending to make friends, but he took it to another level (which I don't necessarily mind). I never dated before, but it genuinely felt like those initial dating stages, not a friendship...
Anonymous
(30-35) What are some ways I can test to see if my guy friend has a crush on me without embarrassing the both of us?
What are some ways that I can find out if one of my guy friends has a crush on me? We are both adults but have religious restrictions and aren't really willing to put ourselves in (lusting situations) so we only hang out...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is there really no chance of friendship with this guy I like?
i went on a 1st date with this guy i've thought was cute for like forever. it was going soooo well, but when we got back to his apartment, he tried to hookup with me. i dont get with guys the first time i meet them, so i...
Anonymous
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