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It is very PC and trendy to say that body type doesn't matter, it what's inside that counts, etc., but. . . for most guys, you are either atracted or you aren't, and you can't change what it is that you find attractive. My "ideal" is a petite girl with a slender body, proportionate boobs, and a not-large butt. That isn't a dealbreaker and I have been attracted to, and dated, women with other body types. Just the same, I do have my preference. And I absolutely will not date women who are more than 20 lbs overweight or who have enormous, pendulous boobs.

Is there a body type that is always, automatically disqualified from your consideration? If you wouldn't date two or three of these categories, please explain in a comment.

Would you date or sleep with someone who was unattractive to you in looks
(a 1 to 5 out of 10) but was your ideal mate when it came to personality and demeanor?
(10 out of 10 in personality)

I would, and have, fallen for conventionally "less than attractive" women before, who were a 8 or 9 in personality. My only "10 in personality" was also a redheaded 9 in looks though; no one else can compare to Kaitlyn. But yes, I've been with "4s in looks, 8s in personality" girls before. Looks aren't that important to me.

Say you meet a near-ideal girl or guy who lives nearby or works close to you. She or he is probably a 8 or 8.5 in looks and has 90-95% of what you want in a partner. But you hear she or he is only into people of a certain hair color or hair style. Like, she or he "only likes blondes" or "only dates people with dreadlocks." or "only likes bald guys."

I dated a girl who was like this. She only liked men with my hairstyle; which is a short buzzcut and my natural hair. I didn't have to change it for her, but she was a blonde and I asked her if she'd change her hair to be a redhead, since that's my favorite hair color on women. She didn't text back, but the next day, she showed up as a strawberry blonde, instead of her usual yellow. This didn't mean much though, as she changed her hair every 7 to 10 days anyway.

I've never liked my hair or having to cut it every three weeks anyway, so as long as I didn't have to dye it some SJW color, like green, blue, or pink, I'd be willing to change my hair if it means happily dating a 9 out of 10 lady.

Would you change your hair style or hair color to date someone?