Search Results: should i try again

What should I do about confusing friends with benefits/situationship?

I (26f) met this guy (35m) through mutual friends. We lived nearby each other, got along great, and went on some dates. He would also come over and just talk to me for hours after we both got off work. At the time, he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does she only want me when she can’t have me or is she scared to admit?

I know a girl and we used to openly like eachother but became friends. Over the past couple years i notice that everytime i have a crush or am in like a talking stage or when i made a trip to the states with school for...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Education & Career

Im wanting to be a SEAL again?

Im 26 almost 27. Was obsessed of becoming a seal for years. When I tried my anxiety disorder set in and tbh it makes me feel like a pussy. Im diagnosed which makes me seem even more like some pussy who can't handle his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fix myself or find another man first?

I know what the attitudes are towards single women my age. Please try to keep this nice. I don’t open up to people that easily so this really hurts. I recently got dumped and he was straight with me about everything that...

silvermoon84

Yoda Age: 42

Relationships

I don’t know if I should confront my new girlfriend for being very distant or not?

I started talking to her about 2.5 months ago, we were talking a lot and we had a lot of great dates. I asked her to be my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago and we had sex the first time that night. But since then she has been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Why are my friends pressuring me into doing things I don’t normally do? Am I a prude?

I am autistic and I love my routine but when they ask me to go out like to clubs, or whatever, I say no because that’s not my thing. I don’t like taking risks, I like my old routine and I tend to keep it that way. One of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Profile Picture Analysis (Unserious!!!)

PROFILE PICTURE SAYS A LOT! We'll do men first since majority of profiles here are blue. Call it gender discrimination! In this quite humourous post, I'll interpret whose profile signifies what based on their profile...

fonduegirl

Guru Age: 25

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Girl's Behavior

Can some explain to me the extent of what she said?

So I met this girl, June 17, 2023. Yes, I know, exact date, haha, but, yeah. At the time, she was dating this guy, she has a kid, but, I don't think he's the father, I was never real clear on that, because I didn't want...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What Should You Do When Jealousy Makes You Avoid a Place You Once Enjoyed?

A few weeks ago I met an attractive woman at a kava bar I’ve frequented for years. She’s attractive, around 30, and has a solid career. We had a great first conversation. She smiled a lot, made eye contact, and leaned in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you rebuild intimacy after a broken trust?

Just to be clear, I did not cheat but I did make my boyfriend feel unappreciated and unsafe. Backstory : Saw his ex popped up on his phone, I immediately started accusing him and pointing fingers at him. Cornering him,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should I just back off?

Hi everyone. So my boyfriend and I almost broke up a week ago but we’re trying to make it work. Today he finally texted and asked if he can come over (after a week), I was busy so I took a while to respond back. I was...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Boyfriend won’t treat me well and has his “reasons”?

This is a long story but I’ll try to make it short. So I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 10 years and we have children together. No we aren’t married for several reasons. My boyfriend treats me very badly and I also...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why? What does he want? he is 28? is he gone for good?

we were ok the first trip he was ok 8 months he came back home and after 2 months told me i should have done x, when he said he could be their for me and I didn't do it. 2 weeks later he dumped me via text telling me not...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I called him a bitch and I regret it, should he forgive me since he has hurt me a lot in the past?

This guy I’ve been seeing on and off, has finally decided that he wants to pursue a relationship with me. While we were dating for the past three years on and off, he has been inconsistent, has said and done many hurtful...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I feel bad now. I think he thinks I rejected him?

We don't have each others numbers and he suggested I play music at a festival. He said you should play here and I'll join! It felt like a passing casual comment. I'm also not on social media. So he can't contact me. So I...

Lalalove11

Xper 6 Age: 26

Should I wait it out or move on?

I really like this guy, and he knows I like him. He even admitted that he liked me too, yet he had been cheated on in his last relationship and thinks he still isn't ready for a relationship cause he is worried something...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I have a situationship with an avoidant and I don’t know what to do?

As i already said, i (27) have a situationship with this avoidant guy (29), i define him avoidant because he NEVER texts first, he’s just there telling me that he’s happy to hear from me, but never initiate conversation....

Anonymous

(25-29)