Search Results: first thing a guy notices

Is he just using me or does he have feelings of any sort?

I (F36) recently ended a long-term relationship of 14 years with my boyfriend and one of the causes has been the crush that I have been feeling for the guitarist of my band (N), who I have been knowing for the last 2...

Mufflone

Xper 3 Age: 32

Flirting

Am I wrong to think this guy’s attracted to me, if he stares into my eyes every time we pass?

I work in a hospital and I keep on noticing this very cute Junior Doctor, and he seems to notice me too. To begin with I kept on seeing him in random places and we would just sort of notice each other and make eye...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

How to support a friend who is about to see some devastating news?

I woke up to an engagement notice -- usually a good thing -- and realized that it was a mass message sent to everyone in my (sort of broad) social network. The... female in question was a former client who started dating...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Guy's Behavior

Guys, What's the very first thing you notice about a lady you admire?

Guys, what's the very first thing you notice about a lady you admire?

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Guy's Behavior

What is your opinion?

So there is a guy in my neighborhood that we rent the same apartment units. First, I noticed that whenever his friends see me they would always tell me hi like even if i would be walking with my friends they would always...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

I need advice on how to approach this woman. Help please?

The situation is this: About a month or so ago, I walked into my neighborhood Walmart and noticed a new cashier working there whom I had never seen before. The very first time I saw her, it looked like she was being...

Overandunder89

Xper 4 Age: 36

Guy's Behavior

I think this guy from my gym followed me to the store yesterday. We saw each other and ended up talking for about 30 minutes. Does he like me?

First off I have a boyfriend who never goes to the gym with me because he is a mechanic who has back problems and gets enough of a work out from that on a day to day basis. There is this guy I have been noticing at the...

katelynbrown123

Xper 5 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

Did my crush get jealous of this other guy for bumping into me?

So we were at the gym and this guy accidentally bumped into me. He apologized for it and I said it's ok. My crush was with me and called out to him (he was wearing earphones so he didn't hear him the first time) so my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Is he flirting and interested? I need your opinions?

Hi, I need your opinions on whether you think this guy (a colleague) is/was interested or not. This all started about 6 weeks ago, prior to this we’d just say hello and make casual small talk: - He complimented...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Does the popular class clown like me? Or am I overthinking it?

There’s a guy in my class, he’s one of the 3 class clowns, he’s very popular because he does good in sport and academics, and he’s very proud of his social standing, I find his demeanour towards me strange. He seems to...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Relationships

Are we codependent or does he like me in that way?

I'm concerned with my guy friend because of how invested he is in making me feel well. I understand that he cares about me but there are signs that I cannot miss because it's been two months of him playing the caretaker...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32

Guy's Behavior

Does he really have a lot going on or has he just lost interest?

So I started seeing this guy around 6 months ago. Things started off really good but then I felt him getting a kind of distant. I brought it up and he said he just really had a lot going on. At first I thought he was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Are these signs that your friend is jealous of you?

I’ve been friends with this girl since we were teenagers and we’re now in our mid 20’s. All throughout our friendship, she has never complimented me - but I’ve always complimented her. Sometimes when we talk, she’ll...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is it because he likes me or because im sick?

The past two months, my guy friend has become the strongest emotional support for me and emotionally supports me like a boyfriend does. When I got sick and he visited me in the hospital, he bought my food cravings and...

Ofoceans

Xper 4 Age: 35

Relationships

An introvert guy is sending me mixed signals?

He actually doesn't look me in the eye when talking but glances from time to time and acts normal in person but when we send messages, we are really sweet. I mean he tells me where he went sometimes and also when i...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32

Break Up & Divorce

He unfollowed me then posted a song about a woman, was it about me?

A guy I’ve been dating on and off for a couple years. When we first started dating he wasn’t being consistent and I got tired of it and we went our separate ways. Later, he tried to get me back and I was now in another...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why is he being so weird toward me?

I liked this guy. He knew I liked him and at first, things were good but then I had realized I was putting in more effort in showing interest than he was so I pulled away. He seemed to have liked my attention so he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

I am in a relationship with someone I love but I have fallen for someone else. What is your opinion?

I (27 F) have been with my partner (33 M) for 6 years. The first year and a half was great, I was so in love that I did not notice the wrongs. Throughout the years with my partner I had my doubts and especially the way...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Am I being erratic and irrational?

My sister started seeing this guy that she used to date In college. She dated him briefly in college but they broke up because he was already involved with an acquaintance of hers. He then left the school. They went their...

Unic0rn

Xper 2 Age: 25

Girl's Behavior

Why are people nice, when they should know better [deep question]?

I don't consider myself nice. At the very least I don't prize niceness. I value many other things ahead of it- authenticity, strength, goodness. We're done with this. But there's more. There's more interesting matter...

Private_Property

Xper 4 Age: 44