Search Results: still in relationship

What did you learn from sleeping around?

What Did you learn from sleeping around? I had only one sexual experience that I didn’t like. I want to find boyfriend to feel safe having sex, but I don’t think it will happen soon with my communication skills. But I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Why do some people think women can't be happy and confident single?

I'm truly happy and confident single. Most importantly at peace. Best I've ever looked my entire life and focused and healed. Yet some people think a woman can't be happy if she's not married or in a relationship. Are we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

When in a serious relationship can you trust your partner easily?

Let's say you are fully in a serous committed relationship. do you find that you can trust that partner easily? or even when you are really in it is trusting them still difficult for you?

Still-alive

Master Age: 42

Let's say you are fully in a serous committed relationship. do you find that you can trust that partner easily? or even when you are really in it is trusting them still difficult for

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What does his text response mean?

I texted him and said Good morning. I may sound like a wimp by texting this to you, but I wanted to ask when we were talking on the phone last night and you mentioned wanting more and then got talking about work life...

rach27

Explorer Age: 44

Guys, Do you start talking to "new girl" before you've fully left "old girl"?

I've seen so many guys do this and I don't know why. They feel their current relationship is in a slump and suddenly start calling or chatting with another gal... He'll convince himself "we're just friends" but the way...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Outta the hookup game?

This guy "A" (28m) and I (26F), went on four decent dates a year ago before he called it off on the grounds that he wasn't obsessed with me. I proceeded to get into an 8 month relationship after "A", where "A" could see...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I just a guy?

I have been giving love to each and everyone. May they be positive words of affirmation, telling everyone they are worthy, being there for them at their lowest. But I am at the lowest today. And I find myself...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do some people keep asking when am I going to get a man or start dating again?

Okay so I just turned 36 almost three months ago and I haven’t dated since I was like 21/22 years old back in 2011. The only relationship I’ve had was with a guy that I went to school with. We’ve known each other since we...

MizzArtFreak89

Xper 5 Age: 36

Is this guy serious about me or its just flirt and friendship?

I met a guy at an event in November. We flirted from the very start, mutual interest, good vibe, he was my type. We spent the whole event together, talking, dancing, laughing and before leaving he asked my Instagram, we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend’s not bothered for Valentine’s Day?

I have been inconsistent with jobs. I met him starting one, 2 months later I stopped. I then was unemployed for 2 months, then found another retail job on a Christmas contract. I’ve currently just started a admin 6...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do you deal with losing a colleague you have feelings for?

I talked about this before. I have feelings for a woman I work with but she’s unavailable, being in relationship I was playing a very long game hoping she would one day break up with her boyfriend to ask her out...

Anonymous

(25-29)

When someone you are in a relationship pulls away emotionally, how do you respond?

Lets say you are in a serious committed relationship and your partner has pulled away emotionally. you are unsure if it has anything to do with you or not but you still feel the distance. how do you respond to this? or if...

Still-alive

Master Age: 42

Lets say you are in a serious committed relationship and your partner has pulled away emotionally. you are unsure if it has anything to do with you or not but you still feel the

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Met a walking red flag, hope I can get some advice. How to give up on someone you already have bonds with?

I know it sounds stupid.. and i didn’t make right decisions… no judges.. here’s what happened.. i met a guy from app. I was upset at the moment so i wasn’t aware that he was a red flag. I let him come to pick me up from...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do I feel lonely in my relationship?

We’ve been together for 4 years. Overall the relationship’s been good, we did face a lot of tough times together. My boyfriend is also an avoidant and lacked transparency, he broke an important promise multiple times but...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Education & Career

Are you surprised by how busy some people are?

A woman at my school married in her early 20s and I was surprised by how hard she worked. She had a really difficult job, while going to school full time and getting grade a high enough for grad school, and maintained a...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41

Are weak men the problem in relationships?

A lot of men complain about the way women are today, and I agree. But is it because most men today are weak and don't take the lead? Men have been conditioned by society to see women as the prize and to follow the...

Steve-the-lion

Xper 3 Age: 42

Break Up & Divorce

Is it normal to still dream about your first ex after 5 years of separating?

I was in a long-distance relationship for a couple of years with this guy when I was just graduating high school (he was a year above me, in college then), and now I'm graduating college. We broke it off because we...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do you know why you're drawn to your type? Have your type/taste ever changed, if so why?

As I'm way in deep with therapy, psycological, myself, I'll figure I ask you all, as it would be interesting to know. As for me I have been drawn to guys who've been through some bad stuff which in one way has matured...

Noredcarpet

Xper 5 Age: 46