Search Results: lack of confidence

I know you can't have a stategy that works everytime, but I've always believe that having a step by step plan is good, even if it fails at step 1, it gives you some structure instead of just improvising every time (I'm not saying that is bad, but I feel it's jus not for me)

I usually aproach a girl and begin with some small talk, after a while I guide the conversation toward hobbies because I draw, so I show her my drawings in my phone, also I lift my phone with my tattoed arm so they notice it, from there I grab her by the lower back while showing her my drawings and explaining the meaning of my tattoo, and from there I pull them closer little by little and getting my face closer to theirs until I feel confidence enough to go for the kiss.

I have never flirt a lot, recently I decided to give it a try, and I feel I lack a lot of confidence and knowing if this step by step I came up with is any good would help me a lot

There's one Earth but many worlds. Worlds of education, entertainment, business, politics, and so on. There are comonalities as well as so massive differences between genders that they create worlds of their own. Out of all these infinity worlds we as humans are in, in the end who has it easier as a gender?

For example, on the dating world, its even. Women get rejected for their lack of looks. Guys get rejected for their lack of confidence, self value and esteem.

In the world of politics, men seem to dominate and have more power of influence than women. But overall in life, I would say women have it easier.

What I mean is say a guy finds you attractive. He would ask you out but he figures you're out of his league
I know some are going to say he lacks confidence. But he doesn't. He's quite confident. But that doesn't change the fact that he doesn't ask because he figures there's no point in asking.
Is this
1. a turnoff, deal breaker whatever you want to call it.
Or 2. do you put in more effort to show him you want him to ask you out.
Or 3. Do you just take the bull by the horns and ask him out.