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So i have learned a lot about something called Attachment theory and i may write a mytake on it sometime. so what the Anxious attachment style is specifically is im the type where when i feel like the other person might be pulling away from me i tend to pursue them even harder because of my anxiety over them possible leaving me. and unfortunately this in turn tends to push them away even more because anxiety tends to kill the other persons attraction in my experience. I'm not acting like my authentic self and instead reacting to my own anxiety. the other person can usually pick up on those vibes easily.

Anyone else the anxious attachment types? or can at least relate to these issues

Here are the Symptoms of anxious attachment style as an adult
"- Adults with an anxious/preoccupied attachment style might think highly of others but often suffer from low self-esteem.

- These individuals are sensitive and attuned to their partners’ needs, but are often insecure and anxious about their own worth in a relationship.

- If the loved one rejects them or fails to respond to their needs, they might blame themselves or label themselves as not being worthy of love.

- Generally, adults with anxious attachment need constant reassurance that they are loved, worthy, and good enough.

- The strong fear of abandonment might often cause anxious adults to be intensely jealous or suspicious of their partners.

- This fear might also lead them to become desperate, clingy, and preoccupied with their relationships. Adults with an anxious attachment style are often afraid of or even incapable of being alone.

- They seek intimacy and closeness and are highly emotional and dependent on others. The presence of the loved one appears to be a remedy for their strong emotional needs."

Here's a good picture that demonstrates it well

So im trying to find ways of overcoming my anxiety now that i learned this about myself and become more secure.

Traditional Marriage: In this relationship there is of course both a man and a woman. The guy you with personally believes chivalry isn't dead and that men should be the leader in the household in order to protect his wife and children. He doesn't believe that women should be out working because it is his duty as the man to fetch the money for the family. Now if you are looking for a woman, don't expect your girl to agree with going out and making her own money or earning money for the family. Because with the traditional women she wants to be taking cared of and being the prime homemaker, while you be out and having a long day, your girl might dress really beautiful and present you with a fresh cook dinner and a clean house once you get off of work.

Modern Marriage: Usually in this one there really no strict gender conforming because either the man or woman can take up the role as the breadwinner or homemaker. Or instead of one sticking with the other the two of you can compromise and each switch turns you know do everything 50/50.

Gay Marriage: If you are a man who aren't interested in women than you definitely be more suitable in being married to another man and discussing how you and your partner do responsibilities. The same applies to women who isn't interested in being with a man, you and your future wife can both discuss about how the two of you will take on responsibilities.

Single Life: You are the gentleman or lady who ain't really looking for romance because you prefer to be by yourself and enjoyed the solitude and being able to control literally everything about your house and precious time.

Male Led Relationship (aka traditional relationship) I think everyone knows what this means so I won't bother really defining it.

Female Led Relationship is when women lead men - men who want to be led by them. Of course, this happens every day in all types of situations such as business, education, healthcare and home. The phenomenon is when men want/ask women to lead in their personal lives. Because women already contribute to the leadership of men and men readily accept it, there must be a difference -- the passion men feel about FLR is deep and varied. Imagine a strong man, say a broker who makes 2 times a six-figure income and is otherwise successful in many ways asking his woman to led their relationship. He might ask to participate in pampering her in intimate ways; he might ask to serve her like a butler. Many men want the woman to rule over him, making demands and exacting punishment for any infraction. This scratches the surface of where men want to go for FLR. So FLR to men is deeper and richer than simply being led by a woman or following in a supportive role. It is erotic.

However, both types of relationships aren't just about the man or woman being dominant vice versa it doesn't have to be like that if you both don't want it to be.

Please only answer if you can pick either of the two choices, no people who say they want an equal relationship.

Thank you.

I'm interested in this topic. I'm interested in the history of polygamous relationships. I'm interested in the differences between one man with multiple women and one woman with multiple men. It's fascinating to me how this type of relationship has existed all throughout history. Even today these types of relationships can be found all around the world. Sometimes these relationships can be established legally and other times they cannot be established legally. What are your thoughts on the pros and cons and nuances of poly relationships.