10 signs that you're not a people person

[cl_517]

This myTake is dedicated to the type of people who'd rather spend a night with Netflix than with other humans!!

1. How you feel at the prospect of having NO weekend plans

2. Group asisgnments make your heart sink

3. You hate it when people invade your space

4. Your perfect evening plans look like this

5. You make every excuse not to go out - even the weather might be your best friend

6. You hate loud people with a passion

7. You hate public transport and even sometimes you find yourself thinking

8. You find yourself praying that your plans get cancelled

9. You're not good at complimenting people and you feel awkward when people compliment you

10. People tell you that you need to go out more

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But guess what? You have nothing to worry if you're not a people person, that's why the internet exists!!

[Illusive_Man]

1. How you feel at the prospect of having NO weekend plans
I WISH I DON'T have weekend plans lol , schoolwork pretty much eats up most of my life these days.

2. Group assignments make your heart sink
They are okay. Hell , I prefer group assignments as long as the group carried their weight. I like groupwork , but I don't like groupwork when we have freeriders.

3. You hate it when people invade your space
Eh... it's okay , it depends if I like the other person. Some people I don't mind but some fuckers... ooooh I just want to stab my fork in their fat fucking face.

4. Your perfect evening plans look like this
I don't even have Netflix lol
My perfect evening... would be a drive in the rain.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAgqJnO3kr8

5. You make every excuse not to go out - even the weather might be your best friend
I like going out in rainy weather. Not so much when it's sunny. It's too hot.

6. You hate loud people with a passion
Ah well maybe it's just because I'm a lonesome bastard and can't stand people having fun lol

7. You hate public transport and even sometimes you find yourself thinking
I'll rather walk.

8. You find yourself praying that your plans get cancelled
If I plan for something I fucking go to them so nopeity nope.

9. You're not good at complimenting people and you feel awkward when people compliment you
Not really that big on compliments and I find it a tad weird when people start complimenting me... again maybe because I'm just not used to it yet lol
My family didn't talk much outside of formal business , and with my friends we treated playing as a sort of almost business like seriousness. The sort who think Microsoft Excel is fun and programming tetris into graphing calculators is funny.

10. People tell you that you need to go out more
Yep. Definitely that.
You know... I'm an active person , it's just that I have very particular tastes lol

[cl_517]

ahah I get it you're an active person that likes to be alone lol

[loveisbeautiful]

I'm not sure when people on here write things for humorous purposes or for serious ones, but if this was written out of serious one and you actually feel this way. I have to say I find this to be a kind of judgmental and a little condescending, especially that last part " But guess what? You have nothing to worry if you're not a people person, that's why the internet exists!! ". That sentence comes off like you're mocking people that aren't outgoing or something.

I'm a very live and let live type person and if this is how you truly feel, then that's fine. You're entitled to that and what I say isn't out of angry or to start trouble, but this is an opinion website and I tend to take offense to what was written here and disagree. I could list the points I disagree with here, but I don't want to clutter up your opinions on here with whole bunch of ramblingness lol. So, I might write my own take about what I disagree with here and you are very welcome to read it. Like I said, I'm not trying to start trouble but I would like to express what I feel is not completely accurate about all of the things listed here.

If this was just out of humor and was meant to be fun and I misinterupted that, then I apology for the misunderstanding.

[cl_517]

I respect your opinion, it was just of humor! I'm the one who's sorry.

[loveisbeautiful]

It's okay, nothing to be sorry about. I'm sorry I misunderstood the concept of this take, it's sometimes hard to tell on here. But, it's no big deal either way. Sorry again, for misunderstanding.

[Phoenix98]

1. How you feel at the prospect of having NO weekend plans
I always have plans, they just don't always include people lol.

2. Group asisgnments make your heart sink
ah they don't really bother me that much.

3. You hate it when people invade your space
I absolutely hate it lol

4. Your perfect evening plans look like this
Lol no

5. You make every excuse not to go out - even the weather might be your best friend
Nah I love spending time with my friends but I also relish my alone time as well.

6. You hate loud people with a passion
Soooo much ( unless they are just being happy then it's alright )

7. You hate public transport and even sometimes you find yourself thinking
Haha my town is to small for public transportation

8. You find yourself praying that your plans get cancelled
Nah

9. You're not good at complimenting people and you feel awkward when people compliment you
I love compliments and as certain people know I am great at handing them out.

10. People tell you that you need to go out more
I get out when I can lol.

We'll go 50/50

[cl_517]

you and Illusive are evil xD

okay so overall, you and I will will be great friends because I'm a loud happy person! lmao!!!

and even though you make me read, that nice, not bad!!

[Phoenix98]

Haha yup that's me the recluse/hermit

Lol yeah I can along with you, just not loud people in general, like tweens and teens... so annoying.

Lol well someone has to.

[Anonymous]

Most of this is not true for me, but I've never felt like a people person. Maybe I really am one but I have just been shy my whole life and have poor social skills?

1) I am happy when I don't have to work or do homework on the weekends, but I would be glad to have and kinda prefer at least] the *option* of plans with my friends. Sadly I am the shy type and don't have many friends I would be comfortable drinking with.

2) Group assignments make my heart sink when I get stuck with a group of people I don't like. This happens often since I rarely make friends in my classes. When I do make friends I prefer to work with them.

3) I do hate when people invade my space (specifically when they touch me casually like a pat on the back or bro slap)

4) I like watching Netflix when there's a show or movie I really want to see, otherwise it's not my first choice.

5) I only do this if I'm depressed, otherwise I might not particularly want to go but I'll say "ok sure."

6) I hate obnoxious people, not loud people. I have a loud friend but he's really funny and his loud voice kinda makes his jokes funnier.

7) I've taken public transportation my whole life, the only thing I hate about it is when someone sits next to me or is being obnoxious in public.

8) Never done this. If I really do not want to go I will just tell them no.

9) I used to be this way but working in customer service helped me grow out of it. Now I regularly compliment people almost automatically and accept their compliments in return.

10) I do need to go out more, and I want to. I'm hoping I can find a girl to do this with on a regular basis.

[EmpatheticLady]

Oh, man... every single one of those suits me perfectly. I'm such a homebody, haha.

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[PiuBelloAmante]

Hey! That's not nice lol 😍
Don't worry you won't feel that way after pancakes

[cl_517]

Oh noooo you too?

[EmpatheticLady]

@PiuBelloAmante Nothing against you personally! :P

@Asker All the time! Haha, I'm all chillin' at home in my PJs. :D

[PiuBelloAmante]

@EmpatheticLady i wish i was there! i need to cuddle in Pjs right now!

[EmpatheticLady]

@PiuBelloAmante Put on your comfy clothes then, haha.

[PiuBelloAmante]

I don't know how cuddling in pjs with the guy who was sitting next to me on the bus would have went down lol

[EmpatheticLady]

@PiuBelloAmante He may have enjoyed it! Maybe he wanted a snuggle buddy, too! Or you could've done it with that lady earlier in the day.

[PiuBelloAmante]

Ewww no I would have caught something from that girl she was dirty

[EmpatheticLady]

@PiuBelloAmante Hahaha. You're definitely in some of her selfies.

[KDA20]

That made me laugh - Good take - I'll have to do a breakdown - I am definitely a 2,3,6 and 10 - Sometimes I am a 1,5 and 9 with a caveat on 9 in that I am okay at giving compliments but not receiving them - I am not really a 7, 4 or 8 with a slightly caveat on 8 in maybe I have the odd hope a night out will fall through and a total caveat on 4 as in it could be something else taking my interest. OK I will give myself a 6.5/10

[KDA20]

Am I happy with 6.5 short term I am long term I don't know

[cl_517]

nopee! I don't think so :P

[JohnBhoy94]

"You hate loud people with a passion" and " You hate public transport and even sometimes you find yourself thinking" ... People hate these kind of things "with a passion" regardless if they're a 'people person' or not.

I absolutely loathe obnoxiously loud people and I'm not too fond of public transport.

[iamthenewblack]

For me I just hate group work because people NEVER freaking listen to me and then when we are suppose to turn it the teacher be like this wasn't done right and I'm just turning my head giving them the I told u so look. and they like o well. That's why I work by myself because either I do all the work anyway or when I try to help they tell me that's a bad idea. The only way to get work done is to do it yourself. rant over

[Takada]

If you're not a people person, you will know it even without someone telling you. If you passionately hate being around other people, then welcome to the club.

[cl_517]

Ahha I love people ❤

[FreyaDiermayr]

I'm not a people person, but I would like to be more comfortable around others and have fun in other ways than just sitting on the computer -like i do alll of the time- :D

[cl_517]

well go out more, do something different :D

[FreyaDiermayr]

it's harrddddd

[purpleballoons456]

I so relate to this. My heart really does sink when group projects are assigned. I think augh! You had to go and ruin my day/semester. lol. And I do sometimes wish my plans will get cancelled. lol ^_^

[Ulyss]

I love annoying the crap out of these types of people 😩😂 GOD how it feels so good that there's a lot of them 💕❤️ *I may be one myself but I learned that women don't approach so I had to kick this anti social habit*

[Creole_Flavor]

I've got everything on this list except number 9. I was not always like this I don't know what happened lol. Every blue moon I get the urge to socialize and sometimes it happens but it is usually a small group of like minded people.

[menina]

I can relate to #2, #3,#4,#5,#7 and #9, so I guess I'm not a people person ahaha

[cl_517]

ahaha that's a lot! I thought you were more bubbly!

[menina]

Most of the times I am a bubbly person. But at the same time I'm too shy.

[micheal727jovanie]

#1 got the moves lmao anyways #6 #7 and #9 I can relate so thats 3/10. I get a 70 yay! ^(^-^)^

[cl_517]

not that bad ahha

[ResonantGuy]

I am not people's person and I love it. I'm '7-10 people's person'. For others no access granted... try harder and better luck next time :P

About #10. "People tell you that you need to go out more." I get that a lot. People always assume that I don't go out more and confined in my room in books/computer whole day just because I'm an introvert. In reality, I go out more often on average than most of those -_-

[oddwaffle]

Oh great now I know I am not a people person. There should be a not-a-people person group or something. They would meet once a year, in a room where there is only a note on the table. "If you are reading this then you don't belong in this group"

[SilenRose]

Lol. This was funny. I'm a bit of a mix. I like being around people but when I've had enough I retreat back to my home. But I am definitely the person who prays they're plans get canceled sometimes!

[Pinkbeauty]

nice my take 😎 I can relate to some of those things on the take I'm not a people person ether I'm usually shy and nerves around people sometimes and I'm the kinda girl who likes my alone rum and personal space

[DarkHumorRUs]

Are there really people who never wanna spend time with other people?

I like hanging out with people. I love it. I just hate having to plan it. I dislike all of the details up until the point where I'm hanging out with them.

[ThisDudeHere]

Most of this does apply to me except I don't get the part about bashing someone's head with a baseball bat...

[steveguitar]

Yeah I can relate to most things here lol. though I wish I could balance it, or at least have real freedom with money and stuff