An open letter to my future husband

[Ginnyweasley97]

Don't laugh, I am feeling sappy today and I am a total romantic at heart.

I don't yet know you or how we met. I don't know where we will live or what tv shows we will obsess over. I don't know if you listen to rap or classic rock, or the names of your parents or siblings. I am excited to spend the rest of my life with someone that every time I try to sneak a peek at them, I realize they are already looking.

But I want to know all that and so much more. I want you to know that I am excited to spend my life with someone as geeky as me, will cosplay with me, talk about everything from the weather to politics, and make me look forward to date night. I want you to know that I will never attempt to change you, because I love you the most in this world. I want you to know that I will love your parents, but I swear if they attempt to make our wedding day, their day, or parent our children, I will go berserk. As for our wedding day we need to find a happy medium between flashy and extremely simple. Because we need to invest more work into our marriage instead of the wedding, but our wedding shouldn't feel like an everyday thing.

I know for sure that you will make my life messy, confusing, unfocused, and wonderful. But I am not perfect either, so I also want to say I am sorry. I love reading books. I can read for ten hours straight and during that time, I might forget to do regular things like eat or get some sleep. So you might have to remind me to take a break. I also can be sensitive and I feel things deeply. When I am hurt, I really hurt but when I love, I really love. I am also a total Netflix binge watcher so I might watch a season of whatever show I am into in just a few days. But if it's a show we are both into, I will wait to watch the latest episode so we can watch it together.

I promise to value your decisions even if it's not what I agree with. I promise to co-parent with you. I promise to be there for your highs and your lows. I promise to fiercely love you in all forms. I can't promise you that I will fix all your problems but I promise that you won't face them alone.

Chasing you was the smartest thing I ever did in my life and being chased by you was my greatest joy. I love you my sun and stars.

Also I hope my parents or brothers don't give you too hard of a time.

[stardust101]

That's so sweet. Hope you meet the right guy who likes the same interests as you and doesn't want to change you!

[Waffles731]

Awe this is sweett

[Stitches]

I rarely come to this website. But this happened to be what I clicked on first. From the very little you say, sounds like you're a fun person. The kind I might like to know. I like being a nerd and I often think about these sort of things. That normal? hah

[smahala1991]

Very good! I love this! You should write poetry. I like that you explain that you're a geek and may forget to eat and sleep because you're either reading or binge watching Netflix shows. But, one day you will find your Harry Potter in a crowd of
Voldemorts and Snapes 😊

[matheus_mb]

"My sun and stars", I see clearly a Game of Thrones influence there :D

Nice letter, sounds really truthful ;)

[Ginnyweasley97]

Yes!!! Someone got my reference

[Guysmiles]

Anonymous posts are not allowed? Dammit. :3 Not read but I bet it is awesome... because of the rings picture, hhi. Okay I will read sighs... :(

[Guysmiles]

Yup it's awesome. Great job. :)

[Ginnyweasley97]

Thanks!

[Guysmiles]

You're welcome. :)

[Noxifer626]

I would love to write something like this, but I don't know.
I would really like to be married one day, but I'm scared of being too picky!
I just want someone who stays by my side even if I'm a crazy bastard.
Is that too much to ask?

[Ginnyweasley97]

I have never had a real boyfriend. People are always surprised when they hear that I thought I was too picky but I just want someone who I think is attractive, supports me, and handles my geekiness.

[Noxifer626]

I just want someone who is funny, and caring, and smart. If she's a geek, it's alright too, but I guess she should at least accept my own, haha.

[Notreallyhere]

That's the sappiest shit I've ever read.

What? No I'm not crying. Just something in my eye😢

[Ginnyweasley97]

Aww hugs and tissues all around!

[Jaron29]

You are quite awesome to have written this to your husband-to-be. :)

I do this as well, but on paper and I keep the notes all in a time capscule.

[MyMintFrappe]

That awkward moment when you can't find a compatible guy that is willing to get married...

[apple24]

THIS! lol

[Maxemeister]

I would make a Meghan Trainor joke, but u said no laughing :(

[Ginnyweasley97]

You can go ahead and make a Meghan trainer joke. I despise her and her song dear future husband. It's soooo sexist towards men.

[Maxemeister]

Well now that u know the song it's rather pointless, no?

by the way nice take :P

[Sweetart2]

The last line made me laugh, but the whole thing is beautiful.

[Dred1614]

You should save this for the day you get married and have someone read it.

[TwentySomething]

Found out you were a ho. You couldn't pay me to marry you now.
-Your would be husband

[doodlecake]

Jump in a lake... Full of piranhas... Covered in cuts and bleeding...

[Ginnyweasley97]

@doodlecake and then roll him in salt

[zagor]

Good luck finding your Harry...

[Ginnyweasley97]

Thanks!

[kdizzleforizzle91]

*tears*

[DBAOracle]

*hands you tissues*

[Ginnyweasley97]

*gives you hug*

[kdizzleforizzle91]

Needless to say, this was a beautiful take. I wish I could have come up with something like that.

[doodlecake]

:-)
This is beautiful!

[Phoenix98]

Nice take.

[apple24]

Its alright! lol