From my personal experience, it comes down to where you live. I grew up in the outskirts of Philadelphia then I got stationed in bumblefuck Delaware. My home town was so diverse and no cared who was dating who then in bumblefuck, Jesus Christ it was bad. I went out with this white girl once and on the dance floor two black girls cut in and ruined my night. Also I met this girl who was 50% white, 25% black 25% native American and she explained it like this to me. White people tend to look at dating outside their race as a step down even if their partner is the trashiest of trash
People who have issues with interracial dating are simply racists. There's no justification for it otherwise. We all have more in common than differences, it doesn't matter what skin color you are.
White women just like white men tend to treat minorities as play things overall and a lot of times don't treat them as actual human beings in the sense of thinking of them as serious partners for relationships.
Example: Seal's ex wife above said the majority of her interest in him was because he had a big penis.
For a lot of white women black guys are just a curiosity to see if the grass is greener, fall back if they can't get s white boyfriend, to rebel against social expectations, and to take it off their check list of fucking a black guy.
White men are no different. They tend to treat non-white women as kind of crude masturbation devices if they are on a dry spell, conquest or a fall back woman if they can't get white woman to fuck.
Uncomfortably true. Don't get me wrong, I am not saying this outlook is a correct way of thinking, nor am I saying it's okay, justified or not at all racial. But if you step out of the liberal mainstream, there are very many places in America that this is just an understood way of life.
@Coup-La-La I wish it wasn't this way, it's terrible that children don't get to know family because of something so antiquated. But it doesn't seem to matter to some, even in 2016.
My sister is marrying a white guy and the guy I'm dating right now is white and no one I know cares. I don't know too many people who care about race. I honestly can't think of anyone off of the top of my head.
@EllieLexis513 You're kidding me, right? You asked me why I cared so much to post that question about this same topic, and you didn't ask him why he cared too.
@ManOnFire Um, no, I asked what's your obsession with that topic, not why you asked the question so let's come correct first. I don't follow this Asker and I don't know if they've ever asked a question about this topic.
Second... you're still butt hurt over a comment I made over 2 weeks ago? Could you grow up a bit?
@ManOnFire Well, you are if you felt the need make that statement on this comment when it's irrelevant to the actual question. It's sounds very childish. I've moved past your question. I suggest you move past my comment.
I knew I wasn't the only one who noticed it! I'm black and I got hated for asking the same thing here some weeks ago. There DOES seem to be this issue with white guys hating when white girls date us, and I don't get it. Is it because white guys feel as if they're not desirable just because a white women chooses black men? Everybody likes who they like, so why should it be bad when we come together?
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I've dated black men before and I've honestly never noticed or even thought about this. Maybe I have gotten looks when out with my boyfriend but was oblivious to it lol.
I agree. Black culture is trash, so when a white girl chooses that culture over her own that usually means something went wrong for her (family relationship gone bad or bad media influence) and she isn't thinking right. Its sad, especially since our birth rates are too low as it is. If everyone would stick to their own we would all get along a lot better.
@Bobbyhill1 Look how much racial fighting there is because of race baiting using women. If women just dated their own, there wouldn't be anymore reason to fight over that shit.
whoever fights over women is a dumbass plain and simple lol there are so many damn women out there is literally no reason to fight over them unless of course its your wife and somebody is trying to steal her
I think it has some to do with them being Black and a different culture and as you put it "stealing" White women, but more has to do with the overall quality of Black men.
Statistics don't lie and if you look at the Murder rates in U. S. the amount of Black guys committing serious crimes and in prison is troubling. Most do not go to college or graduate, many do not take care of kids or marry their girlfriend and have a family. Most also make a low income, once again another bad sign for being a future father.
So look at all these factors combined and then you have a better idea of why White guys might not like the idea of their sister or daughter being with a Black guy. The simple reality is there's a lot of bad apples
I had a black girlfriend she was a 10\10 while im like a 2\10 But both her brothers had white girlfriends and both those white girls were tanks, and i mean those T-34 tanks heavy set.. they were so fat that if one more inch in their belly they would have their own gravity orbit system. I dont mean to make fun of but black boys will date anybody
Hey, someone's gotta love the big girls! Maybe some black men are more attracted to the curvy (or overly curvy) type, what is wrong with that? I think white guys are too worried about appearances and care too much about what their friends think! Your insensitive fat girl comments are just another form of prejudice. Black, white, blue, green, fat, skinny... who really cares as long as the people involved are happy?
@lilnell I apologize about those jokes i made. And i do like big big girls but just not too much on the heavy side. But if u saw those couples you'll be like wtf?
People don't give you crap for getting engaged to a black man. People give you crap for asking questions like "Why do black women have tighter vaginas and people guys have larger penises?" You asked those questions multiple times. Don't try to play victim here now.
Regrettably that is how it is and it is far worst than what you think. Throw in the massive crime rate and hate crimes and it gets even worst. If it doesn't end we could end up like one of those fractured war torn nations that eventually gets conquered by Russia or China. We are becoming our worst enemy.
Oh wow! Another racist bigget talking about racism well let me tell you something asshole! All black people don't fall into some stereotype like disolayed above. Secondly alton sterling despite his history was killed for no reason, so don't give me that bullshit, I'm black and my mom and dad had 6 kids! My grandparents had 9!!! 8 girls and one boy. My grandfather was with my grandmother happily for 60 or 70 years! And died in the bed next to her! So no not all black people have dysfunctional families, thats what the media portraits. Also, these, "white men" can go fuck themselves because they don't deserve to be with anyone! They're selfish for thinking they can control other people, lastly black men and even white women for that matter don't date just because of race all kinds of factors play into why their with that particular person. Anyone that worries about race is a racist!
There really isn't it just depends on how old you are my cousin has been dating a black man for about 5 years and nobody seems to make a thing about it except my Granadpa, but to be fair he has brain damage. Anyways it's only older people who didn't grow up when inter gender dating was normal that seem to have a problem with it.
I wouldn't say there is racial hatred, perhaps there is a feeling of bitterness with some blacks and a distrust of the other race by both blacks and whites but I wouldn't say they hate each other. While you made some good points, half of what you said is just incorrect.
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Because mudsharking is the most vile, disgusting thing a White woman can ever do. You spoil yourself and your people. You spit on the graves of your ancestors. You are the lowest form of gutter trash imaginable.
It's because of people like you that racial segregation exists. You shouldn't put emphasis on a person's race when you don't like what they're doing. It's just wrong.
i think its fucked up that this happens in the us. i mean ir dating isn't half as bad in most other places among the world. i just think, as much racial diversity as the us has, the people there are low key racist af ( not all , but many). thats the only logical explanation for this
Since you're a Trump-loving white supremacist with a (barely) room-temperature IQ, your hateful like will always come up with contrived reasons to hate people who engage in interracial dating and marriage. How does it fell being a (likely) fugly incel, lad?
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The black culture paragraphs are utter garbage. Just date whoever you want.
so much wisdom from someone so young.. some of the adults ought to listen to this girl
From my personal experience, it comes down to where you live. I grew up in the outskirts of Philadelphia then I got stationed in bumblefuck Delaware. My home town was so diverse and no cared who was dating who then in bumblefuck, Jesus Christ it was bad. I went out with this white girl once and on the dance floor two black girls cut in and ruined my night.
Also I met this girl who was 50% white, 25% black 25% native American and she explained it like this to me. White people tend to look at dating outside their race as a step down even if their partner is the trashiest of trash
People who have issues with interracial dating are simply racists. There's no justification for it otherwise. We all have more in common than differences, it doesn't matter what skin color you are.
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White women just like white men tend to treat minorities as play things overall and a lot of times don't treat them as actual human beings in the sense of thinking of them as serious partners for relationships.
Example: Seal's ex wife above said the majority of her interest in him was because he had a big penis.
For a lot of white women black guys are just a curiosity to see if the grass is greener, fall back if they can't get s white boyfriend, to rebel against social expectations, and to take it off their check list of fucking a black guy.
White men are no different. They tend to treat non-white women as kind of crude masturbation devices if they are on a dry spell, conquest or a fall back woman if they can't get white woman to fuck.
You couldnt even awnser this publicaly. Try harder troll
@Bobbyhill1 Says the level 1 alt account of a user.
Again you are still a troll im still highly desirble though so it dont bother me!
Uncomfortably true. Don't get me wrong, I am not saying this outlook is a correct way of thinking, nor am I saying it's okay, justified or not at all racial. But if you step out of the liberal mainstream, there are very many places in America that this is just an understood way of life.
True, my cousin's wife was disowned by her family when she married him. the kids have never met their cousins
@Coup-La-La I wish it wasn't this way, it's terrible that children don't get to know family because of something so antiquated. But it doesn't seem to matter to some, even in 2016.
My sister is marrying a white guy and the guy I'm dating right now is white and no one I know cares. I don't know too many people who care about race. I honestly can't think of anyone off of the top of my head.
You didn't ask this guy why it mattered for him to post about it.
@ManOnFire That statement doesn't make sense.
@EllieLexis513 You're kidding me, right? You asked me why I cared so much to post that question about this same topic, and you didn't ask him why he cared too.
@ManOnFire Um, no, I asked what's your obsession with that topic, not why you asked the question so let's come correct first. I don't follow this Asker and I don't know if they've ever asked a question about this topic.
Second... you're still butt hurt over a comment I made over 2 weeks ago? Could you grow up a bit?
@EllieLexis513 I ain't butthurt. I've learned something now since then. I wanted to know why you didn't act the same way with him.
@ManOnFire Well, you are if you felt the need make that statement on this comment when it's irrelevant to the actual question. It's sounds very childish. I've moved past your question. I suggest you move past my comment.
Lol you go Ellie! @ManOnFire gets owned again.
I knew I wasn't the only one who noticed it! I'm black and I got hated for asking the same thing here some weeks ago. There DOES seem to be this issue with white guys hating when white girls date us, and I don't get it. Is it because white guys feel as if they're not desirable just because a white women chooses black men? Everybody likes who they like, so why should it be bad when we come together?
I've dated black men before and I've honestly never noticed or even thought about this. Maybe I have gotten looks when out with my boyfriend but was oblivious to it lol.
I agree. Black culture is trash, so when a white girl chooses that culture over her own that usually means something went wrong for her (family relationship gone bad or bad media influence) and she isn't thinking right. Its sad, especially since our birth rates are too low as it is. If everyone would stick to their own we would all get along a lot better.
No you wouldn't get along better genes tend to get sticky when you mate with the same people over and over again making room for genetic error
@Bobbyhill1 Look how much racial fighting there is because of race baiting using women. If women just dated their own, there wouldn't be anymore reason to fight over that shit.
whoever fights over women is a dumbass plain and simple lol there are so many damn women out there is literally no reason to fight over them unless of course its your wife and somebody is trying to steal her
I think it has some to do with them being Black and a different culture and as you put it "stealing" White women, but more has to do with the overall quality of Black men.
Statistics don't lie and if you look at the Murder rates in U. S. the amount of Black guys committing serious crimes and in prison is troubling. Most do not go to college or graduate, many do not take care of kids or marry their girlfriend and have a family. Most also make a low income, once again another bad sign for being a future father.
So look at all these factors combined and then you have a better idea of why White guys might not like the idea of their sister or daughter being with a Black guy. The simple reality is there's a lot of bad apples
I had a black girlfriend she was a 10\10 while im like a 2\10
But both her brothers had white girlfriends and both those white girls were tanks, and i mean those T-34 tanks heavy set.. they were so fat that if one more inch in their belly they would have their own gravity orbit system. I dont mean to make fun of but black boys will date anybody
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mean boy ! omg and your cute : )
Not 2/10
Your a 9/10 inbox me thoe
Hey, someone's gotta love the big girls! Maybe some black men are more attracted to the curvy (or overly curvy) type, what is wrong with that? I think white guys are too worried about appearances and care too much about what their friends think! Your insensitive fat girl comments are just another form of prejudice. Black, white, blue, green, fat, skinny... who really cares as long as the people involved are happy?
@lilnell
I apologize about those jokes i made. And i do like big big girls but just not too much on the heavy side. But if u saw those couples you'll be like wtf?
@HornyBee
Hornybee was far more insulting & yet i am the one to get shot down because im a dirty Mexican right?
@lilnell "Maybe some black men are more attracted to the curvy (or overly curvy) type, "
Fati is NOT curvy!!
There are like gazillion takes on it.
Lies!, I'm black and I can't put up with fat girls
I'm engaged to a black man and many white family members give me crap for it. But I love him and he loves me. All that matters.
People don't give you crap for getting engaged to a black man. People give you crap for asking questions like "Why do black women have tighter vaginas and people guys have larger penises?" You asked those questions multiple times. Don't try to play victim here now.
Wow. Thank God I don't live in America if this is the way people think.
Be very happy
Regrettably that is how it is and it is far worst than what you think. Throw in the massive crime rate and hate crimes and it gets even worst. If it doesn't end we could end up like one of those fractured war torn nations that eventually gets conquered by Russia or China. We are becoming our worst enemy.
Oh wow! Another racist bigget talking about racism well let me tell you something asshole! All black people don't fall into some stereotype like disolayed above. Secondly alton sterling despite his history was killed for no reason, so don't give me that bullshit, I'm black and my mom and dad had 6 kids! My grandparents had 9!!! 8 girls and one boy. My grandfather was with my grandmother happily for 60 or 70 years! And died in the bed next to her! So no not all black people have dysfunctional families, thats what the media portraits. Also, these, "white men" can go fuck themselves because they don't deserve to be with anyone! They're selfish for thinking they can control other people, lastly black men and even white women for that matter don't date just because of race all kinds of factors play into why their with that particular person. Anyone that worries about race is a racist!
There really isn't it just depends on how old you are my cousin has been dating a black man for about 5 years and nobody seems to make a thing about it except my Granadpa, but to be fair he has brain damage. Anyways it's only older people who didn't grow up when inter gender dating was normal that seem to have a problem with it.
I wouldn't say there is racial hatred, perhaps there is a feeling of bitterness with some blacks and a distrust of the other race by both blacks and whites but I wouldn't say they hate each other. While you made some good points, half of what you said is just incorrect.
Because mudsharking is the most vile, disgusting thing a White woman can ever do. You spoil yourself and your people. You spit on the graves of your ancestors. You are the lowest form of gutter trash imaginable.
Gross
Why can't you show your name? To much of a little bitch? Your not a real man you act like a teenage girl
@Bobbyhill1 --Don't need inbox filled with PM from twerps like you?
@WhaChaChaKing --Exactly! It's horribly gross
No, I mean you're gross.
And every guy that up voted your post is as well. Fucking disgusting.
@WhaChaChaKing You sound super triggered.
@dllucas2015 I get mad when someone is as disgusting as you, yes.
@WhaChaChaKing You get mad when someone disagrees with you.
@dllucas2015 nope. Only when people are needlessly hateful.
It's because of people like you that racial segregation exists. You shouldn't put emphasis on a person's race when you don't like what they're doing. It's just wrong.
i think its fucked up that this happens in the us. i mean ir dating isn't half as bad in most other places among the world. i just think, as much racial diversity as the us has, the people there are low key racist af ( not all , but many). thats the only logical explanation for this
Since you're a Trump-loving white supremacist with a (barely) room-temperature IQ, your hateful like will always come up with contrived reasons to hate people who engage in interracial dating and marriage. How does it fell being a (likely) fugly incel, lad?