I see it all the time especially among young women they just seek to be kind and any situation where they are being kind they declare themselves doing the right thing.....but that's a very short sighted and hedonistic way of thinking. and its always a lie.
the 2nd law of thermodynamics is called entropy: entropy states every action MUST ALWAYS destroy more than it creates. on a social level this means every action must ALWAYS hurt someone....the question then becomes.....who.
If we look hard enough we see every action we take does harm to someone somewhere. this is unavoidable and so "just be kind" is not a complete adult view of the world because we will eventually find we are in a situation where being kind to one person inevitably hurts another...then what do those just be kind people do?
I don't trust or like people whose only view is to just be kind. They will always make the wrong choices and not think about the greater good or the wellbeing of others beyond short sighted interactions.