OnlyFans: A "Simping" Epidemic?

[BruceJender]

Lonely, desperate, isolated men, are the enablers of this epidemic, which, in turn, is leading to the hyper-sexualisation of women who, in droves, commodify their bodies for financial gain and power. This is why OnlyFans is so popular - any woman can start using it, and I don't think many of us know just how much money can be made. For instance, there are already hundreds of OF "models" making more than a CEO of a small business.

Good for them, I guess. We've been wanting women to choose what they want for quite some time now, but is this really the career direction they want or even deserve? There's almost no more incentive for them to go for "proper jobs" that actually demand drive, work, and growth.

It truly is sickening.

Another, and possibly more valid example is Twitch TV.

An industry previously dominated by men, and now women moved in (they had every right to do so) and have now turned it into a shit show of hot tubs and whatever else.

The only good thing is that these examples are stuck in the internet sphere, for the time being, but I can't imagine how things will be in the next, let's say, 5 years.

I'm not trying to assign blame to anyone in particular, because we're all at fault, but it's concerning verging on terrifying, especially if you're considering having children in the future.

What are your thoughts?

Please keep it clean.

[Anonymous]

If you want to watch porn you can see it for free on pornhub and millions of other websites. If you want to have sex you can find an escort. It may be tricky and a (minor) crime in many places of the world. But at least you are getting something tangible for what you pay for.

But OF is the worst of both worlds. You are paying for something you can’t have nor even see in real life. So why do so many simpy pathetic morons sign up for this crap? I guess they are under some sort of twisted delusion that the OF girl is somehow “special” to them or some other nonsense. They figure they are getting some sort of attention legally or some other crap. They also don’t have to deal with the embarrassment of being physically present in a strip club

Anyway much as I hate the women that do OF I REALLY hate the pathetic men who support that crap. It’s disgusting example of men enable shit stain women. These women have absolutely no skin in the game (pun intended).

Anyway the only the reason radical feminism has succeeded is because moron men enabled it. Period. We are so desperate for attention from women that we pick up table scraps while paying for a lobster dinner. Men are responsible for allowing and enabling this scourge.

Im a recovering sex addict by the way. I’ve done lots that I’m not proud of. But signing up for a OF isn’t one of them. I found that once I started abstaining from porn and quit bending over backwards for women I all of the sudden has better legitimate opportunities come MY way. It’s worth it to be lonely at times to keep your self respect. Sex addiction especially OF memberships robs men of their self respect (and many don’t even realize it).

[smahala1991]

From someone who has used Onlyfans, it's all based on gimmicks and personality, like a stripper. Many OF models portray the persona of a goth girlfriend, gamer girl, or even geeky. I think so many guys are into it because it gives the idea of fantasy. No different than women get from reading romance novels about wealthy billionaires, fitness trainers, and even Vikings. Sex sells, but I agree there is so much free porn on the web, but the idea is with OF, you can pay for a fantasy version of a gimmick or persona. That's how I interpret it.

[sunflower00]

1. Most of the people on onlyfans barely make any money
2. I believe people should be allowed to choose whichever career they want - there is actually a lot of hard work that goes into things like only fans and sex work and people who do it should not be disrespected in the way that they are as many of the people are desperate for money and we have no idea how they really are as a person or what they’re going through.
3. I do think there’s an issue with women being encouraged to get into these kind of things. Sex work isn’t for everyone, and it can be really damaging to the way people view women. I think we should be allowed to choose what we do with our bodies and shouldn’t be ridiculed for doing work like this BUT it also shouldn’t be pushed and encouraged over other careers. It IS majorly objectifying, and despite what some people believe it isn’t the ‘feminist girl boss’ move that people think it is at all and causes a lot of harm if it’s taken too far. Especially when girls under 18 are encouraged to start the second they turn 18! Insane.
4. Men can also do what they want with their money. I’m not here to judge. I guess it’s better paying for it and supporting small creators in a way, but if I had a boyfriend and he was paying for a girls onlyfans I would break up with him tbh just because I find it disrespectful. As long as the guys don’t become overly obsessed with the creator (more likely to happen to vulnerable men paying for onlyfans than watching free porn as it’s more personal), don’t harass them and so on then whatever it’s your business not mine

[Red-Blaze]

Here is some splash of cold reality statical water
https://thesmallbusinessblog. net/onlyfans-statistics/

Ya... nooo...

There are supposely 1.5 million creators, some of them are own by the same one, some to many are inactive accounts

There are around 170 million registured users at least some of them likely inactive, or accounts owned by the same one (as well as there part of the 1.5 million creators)

But lets go on what it says about earnings that is what supposely should matter
"The truth is that the best 1% of accounts earned 33% of all money on OnlyFans, while the top 10% of accounts earned 73% of all the money."
Ya sounds like all the smaller creators are doing just great there..
and if we continue

Over all I dont think OF is as big as they and the news try to potry it, in the end most creators there will earn a little only, and the big once most likely could have earn a good amount without it as well, its just the path they taken as it answer the call of the time

But beside all that 3rd or 4th top earner in OF seem to be a man, till he left to make his own platfrom 😅 that is intresting

[Red-Blaze]

Thanks for MHO

[Aerissa_Jade]

Anyone who thinks Onlyfans is easy has never tried to do it. It is a 60 to 80 hour a week job, and for many it is simply a hobby to supplement their regular crappy job. A few hundred extra a month.

I'd bet that if men could make 20k a month doing OF's they'd do it, in fact there are men doing it, but most are women.

Simply cause men pay for it, a lot of the time is because there is the personal experience. The men can request specific poses, and OF's is often 4k, Free porn is often crappy 720 or so.

It also isn't all porn, there are people who simply record the nudist lifestyle, nothing sexual.

I know though, some people think or see naked body and equate that to porn.

[CurrentJohn]

If there is anyone in the comment section that is a onlinfans member then please explain to me something because I just can`t understand it. Why are you paying for porn if the internet is literally 90% made out of free porn you don`t have to pay anything for? Heck you can even watch onlyfans videos for free if you just search for it without paying. So why are there people out there spending thousands of dollars on one onylfans person? What is the appeal?

[Levin]

Well it's tragic, but in some way understandable. It's a lot easier to make a few clicks and get some instant gratification, rather than having to put the effort in to go out and improve yourself.

Having said that, there is one girl I would simp over. Hannahowo. That bird is fit.

[DaveJord]

So, this is the irony of these women that promote their version of feminism. They want to be respected as women, and people, while at the same time they the other half of women are sexualizing themselves for profit. basically, pandering to or taking advantage to the less half of men for profit.

In the end I don't give a shit honestly, I do not do fans only, porn is free and has been for some time. Why would pay for it.

[Haha456]

I'm a feminist, I would make money on onlyfans if I had the looks.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 "if I had the looks" Well you're a feminist so I'm not surprised.

[Haha456]

@Aiko_E_Lara

I've had a lot of men fall in love with me though

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 That's because wrong men falls in love with wrong women

[Haha456]

@Aiko_E_Lara

thats because most men like women who are confident, have good careers and are picky with who they date.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 Lol it's sad how you think that men around you are what you think are "most men" You haven't met most men in the world because you're still alive. So yeah nice story.

[Haha456]

@Aiko_E_Lara

real men want confident women. little boys are scared shitless by a confident woman with a great job.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 And there goes that agenda. Because you don't have the looks, you just wanna shame men for having different standards and calling them "not a real man" And that's what makes one a feminist. Because I don't see any confidence in you, just insecurity. Real confident women don't call themselves ugly to get people attention. But in the end, that's just translates to "real men are simps who let themselves be taken advantage of women"

[Haha456]

@Aiko_E_Lara

since when does being a feminiist mean she is unattractive?

there are attractive feminists just like there are unattractive feminists.

quite funny how you love shaming unattractive people when you look like a transgender homeless guy. clearly you never look in the mirror

[Haha456]

@Aiko_E_Lara

you're not a real man because you're scared of a confident woman. Confident women don't need to pander to men on onlyfans to make a living. Confident women aren't desperate for attention. She doesn't need a man to pay her bills. She can pay them on her own. Men are an option, not a necessity. This is the definition of feminism.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 Since from the start. And you said it yourself. You just said "if I have the looks". But I'd say that's mainly a reason why someone would just be a feminist. It's in fact that you are a feminist that's to be shamed not because you're ugly. There are ugly non feminists who are way worth pursuing. And who do you think took a selfie of me if I never seen myself? Well I don't expect any brain coming from you.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 If that's your idea of a real man, then consider the idea of a real woman being not a feminist.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 And there's a big difference between a feminist and a confident woman. And if you're so confident and independent, why depend on feminism? I thought you're a strong woman

[Haha456]

@Aiko_E_Lara

[But I'd say that's mainly a reason why someone would just be a feminist. It's in fact that you are a feminist that's to be shamed not because you're ugly. ]

I personally don't think i am attractive. but there has been plenty of men who called me beautiful. beauty is in the eye of the beholder. what is ugly to you , may be pretty to someone else. what is pretty to you, may not be pretty to someone else.

you don't know this because you never leave your house nor do you have a social life. NOt surprised after i looked at your pic.

[Haha456]

@Aiko_E_Lara

[And if you're so confident and independent, why depend on feminism? ]

Nobody depends on feminism. feminism is a belief , a life style. If feminists don't exist, there would be no such thing a feminism. If there was no feminism, there will be patriarchy.

I can see you're desperate for a patriarchy to come back again.

[Haha456]

@Aiko_E_Lara

[If that's your idea of a real man, then consider the idea of a real woman being not a feminist.]

I'm a woman regardless if you like it or not. I dont plan on changing my gender or trying to look like a tranny like you.

[Haha456]

a real man is confident and is not intimidated by a confident woman. If a successful woman with a good job scares the shit out of you, it just means you're a little boy.

the type of guy who never wears pink because it will make him look weak.
I want a man who is confident enough in his skin to be able to wear pink and still know that he still looks like a man.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 Then if you like to decide what a real man should be, then so can we. Again real women aren't feminists. Yeah they are indeed confident and successful so they don't feel the need to call themselves feminists also because those has nothing to do with feminism. And of course that movement exist only to cause confusion and inequality that's something real women wouldn't do. And real women don't just give any anecdotes.

[Haha456]

@Aiko_E_Lara

real men don't talk shit about confident women with good careers.

only a little boy with a tiny dick and doesn't have a good job is scared of of a woman like that.

[Haha456]

@Aiko_E_Lara

[Yeah they are indeed confident and successful so they don't feel the need to call themselves feminists also because those has nothing to do with feminism. And of course that movement exist only to cause confusion and inequality that's something real women wouldn't do. ]

historically women have pandered to men for attention, money, food etc. nowadays there are more independent women than ever before. Thanks to feminism.

I am a feminist. I am proud of my career. I am happy with the money i make. I have actual achievements in life instead of just cleaning toilets at home and popping out babies. I enjoy my life regardless of what haters like you have to say. I don't need to go on onlyfans to make a few cents per view.

[Haha456]

@Aiko_E_Lara

i can see why you would be scared shitless of me. you look like you still live with your parents. your parents still feed you every night. and you never leave the house.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

@Haha456 And real women don't judge a guy for having standards. Real women don't put words on people's mouth. Like what I said, having confidence and good careers has nothing to do with a woman being a feminist.

"historically women have pandered to men for attention, money, food etc. nowadays there are more independent women than ever before. Thanks to feminism." <-- no one ever said they don't and women being able to work now has nothing to do with feminism. It just simply means the world is changing and it's easier to get jobs compared to before. And if i was scared shirtless of you, wouldn't it really be the case that I wouldn't just engage in an argument with you in the first place? Because you're a feminist, i expect no brain from you which is why.

[Msputiton]

My thoughts are why are you so concerned with how someone make a legal living.

If someone is okay selling nudes and sex videos for money, and someone is okay buying them.

Who cares.

y'all some weird people. I live everyday and the fact that onlyfans exist has not at all changed my life

[bean2k21]

The sickening thing is that these men allow women to have freedom, with the money they make on OnlyFans: freedom to get more tattoos and piercings, freedom to get lip injections, freedom to make their own content rather than suck off some producer. They should instead submit themselves to Lord Bean2k21 and ask for permission to stimulate their genitals. Only then will they find orgasmic enlightenment when their sexual soul passes to the next world.

[Cassie88]

If you really do hate 'OnlyFans' so much, then just don't use it, but don't judge those who do. After all, it's their personal time and money they're spending, not yours. It's a business, just like any other, so what's your issue here?

[smølf]

The rise of platforms like OnlyFans and Twitch has certainly changed the way some people view and engage with sexuality and gender, and these developments can have negative consequences.

It is important for individuals to consider their own values and make choices that align with their own personal sense of morality and ethics.

[loveslongnails]

Funny, but the women who CHOOSE to do this don't care that they're sexual objects because they make so much money. Not only that, OnlyFans isn't all T & A, there's a lot of fetish stuff on there, like foot, lipstick or even armpit fetishes. If a guy wants to pay for that, let him. Some of the folks who call it "disgusting and sickening" are probably a little envious that no one would pay to sexually objectify them! LOL

[Haha456]

onlyfans exist because men still use it. its not the women's fault that the platform exists. blame your fellow men. when desperate men can't get laid, onlyfans is their only outlet.

[BruceJender]

Read my first phrase.

[Haha456]

its a man's biological need to simp to beautiful young women.

[BruceJender]

I'm a man, I don't simp for women, because I have confidence and simping is tragic.

[Haha456]

why do you think men on here say that women expire by 30?

[BruceJender]

Not sure what that has got to do with my Take? Please tell me.

[Haha456]

Obviously men are obssessed with beautiful young women

[zdfghffncfgnfznzfnzf]

Women are doing better than men in most arenas from school grades to career growth. I don't think you've taken the time to thoroughly research your sexist ranting :-) also, anyone can use OF although, why bother? There's a thousand ways to make money working from home or while travelling that don't involve being a performing monkey.

[Anonymous]

I never understand, with so much free porn, Instagram where so many women post half-naked stuff for free, why some guys wanna pay for only fans?

You can never have sex with those girls, so why not pay for real prostitutes if you want real sex?

[LimitedBenefits101]

Man I cannot understand some men, there are MILLIONS OF FREE PORN out there why the fuck waste your damn earned money on these 304s? no wonder 304s admire these simps

Such men make me sick.

[LiamJHayden]

About the only positive thing I can say about it is that the guys are freely paying and the women are not sucking up tax-payer-funded assistance checks.

[Anonymous]

Camming has gotten so competitive, that many of the models only work for tips. Everyone can see the show for free, but they make their money off the simps.

[Anonymous]

There is something in what you say. I personally get a lot of simping guys and to be honest I've no respect for them.

[Randalama]

I like LonelyFans. It illustrates how the market place works and reveals peoples true intent. Pay attention fellas.

[Anonymous]

What is hilarious is all these men complaining about OnlyFans as if they never watch porn. Give me a break.

[Minahh]

Yeah for real. Things like onlyfans are the reason of what makes society what it is.

[Anonymous]

Isn't OnlyFans more of a whoring epidemic though?