Does Society suffer from 'Loner-Phobia'?

Does Society suffer from 'Loner-Phobia'?


' You are always in your own little world.'


Made with bemusement in my childhood due to my joy of being alone


Looking back, I am certain if I grew up in this, the therapist age. I would have to listen to how wrong I am for behaviour that goes against the norm. All while being heavily medicated for my seeming inability to 'relate'.


Grossly misunderstood, victimised for being me


Years have passed, with judgements more biting, critiques more scurrilous

Making me question why Society struggles to accept Loners, to the point of being phobic about them


Should we apologise for a life choice?


Or, prostitute self by living a lie to be part of the flock?

Is a pretentious life more socially acceptable?


It would spare me of the constant labelling as being 'awkward', or 'antisocial', as well as the rumouring of a 'hidden perversity' or ' mental disorder.'


Why is it often preached that the essence of life is about honesty by being true to self?


But, subtle terms and conditions exist


With Society imposing all to be social beings needing company, acceptance, belonging and love.


Ignorance to diversity, with its irony and associated truth


Being, a loner embraces all this in its purest form


Finding it all in self, life on their watch


Seeking company out of choice, governed by sincerity, rather than desperate need


Why is society so adverse to such principled beings?

Does Society suffer from 'Loner-Phobia'?
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