Why do all white girls hate Indian guys and associate us Indian guys with false stereotypes?

[Ruccy-93]

I am not even from India I am just Indian by race but born in Africa. (I currently live in the u. s)
Plus the u. s media is always portraying white and black men as good and attractive and Indian men as bad, nerdy and weak.
I feel that white men and black men are intimidated by us Indian men and thats why we are negatively portrayed in the media
They think were all hindu but I am not hindu or muslim!
They think all Indian guys are rapists/abusers I am not like that!
They think we all have a indian accent but I have a South African accent and I speak fluent English.

[BradyLames]

the worst part is the amount of cognitive dissonance and mental gymnastics these sad racists use to justify it

Oh its not racist to hate Indians because theyre bad people. Lol can you imagine them saying that about blacks or hispanics? THey would rather die than offend them

And in America they pretty much just copy Indians as well... There are so many yoga studios here its unreal. Plus everyone sips Chai and talks about Karma lol

Americans are sad racists. Try and forget about them, there are some countries who will favour you

[CuriousCatbug]

The same way not all indian men are like that... not all white women think that o_O
generalizations are not your friend

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

What? Not true, I think a large majority of people like Aziz Hansari and Avan Jogia. I'm not white and I don't think all Indian guys are bad. I must say a majority of Indian guys that I have talked to are like really aggressive and always asking for sex, just trying to be friends and some come off as really clingy. Now that's annoying and it happens frequently.

[BradyLames]

your black guys are famous for domestic violence and rape

thats one reason why your race is hated

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

@BradyLames Hahaha right... If anything theyre strong and loving thats what I know of the Moor/indigenous man. Im not going into stereotypes and stigmas that aren't remotely true bc you're probably jealous and insecure. there's only one race and thats the human race so try to come at me when you have facts and not bullshit.

[BradyLames]

yeah strong and loving... Give us a break lol

Black guys dont even look after their kids. They dont have the balls to even work hard for their families... Theyre literally a bunch of spineless cowards. Thats why theyre the laughing stock of America

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

@BradyLames Yeah. I guess thats why Huffington post did a study that Moor men are more present in their children's lives whether theyre married or un-married more than any other ethnic group. So Brady stop being lame and try to argue with someone else thats as ignorant as yourself bc im quite bored you're not entertaining me, bye peasant.

[Slavanna]

Most of the Indian guys I've met were sexually aggressive and spoke terrible English... just my experience though. I'm sure some Indians are very friendly and kind and some are downright assholes, as is the case with many of not all nationalities.

[BradyLames]

you're a horrible racist...

Because we know if a black guy was sexually aggressive you would have no problem with it...

Its because an Indian hit on you, that you took offense

Sad racists like yourself should hurry up and die already... you sad hateful creature

[araina]

I agree with Slavanna. Being an Indian guy, im telling you most indian guys would just wanna bang you as long as they are there.

[SomethingWicked]

All white girls?

Hmmm, and here I thought my boyfriend was Indian... guess I should go tell him I hate him or some shite...

[Part6fam]

Lies lol

[SomethingWicked]

@Part6fam
I know, but us white girls just hate Indian boys! I mean, I must really hate myself to date someone I so obviously hate. Doesn't matter that I think he's one of the sweetest guys I've ever dated and feel so comfortable with him.

[Giuly214]

I had the opposite problem, I was in a long distance relationship with Indian but he was too racist towards white girls, saying they are all cheaters so he constantly fought and doubted me even though I'm the most loyal person he could probably find. I tried to be patient, hoping with time he would see I'm not like that, but time didn't work and I couldn't stand his false accusations, I've been patient for a whole year and nothing changed. So explain me how does this work? I never had any bad thoughts or negativity about Indians but it makes me believe how racist they are towards white women and not all white women are the same...

[rthomas43]

"and Indian men as bad, nerdy and weak"

Not that it's an overly bad thing, but every Indian guy I've known has been nerdy and physically weak. lol

[BradyLames]

they also happen to be smart over achievers who dont do drugs and crime like so many whites and blacks do...

White guys are secretly in love with black guys lol

[rthomas43]

@BradyLames

Eh?

[BradyLames]

leave Indian men alone you sad racist

I bet you wouldn't be racist to black guys huh you coward

[rthomas43]

@BradyLames

Which part of my post is racist?

[BradyLames]

the part where you gave them negative stereotypes of being weak and nerdy

We wouldn't stereotype blacks as being violent and stupid.. So why is it ok to stereotype Indians or others?

[rthomas43]

@BradyLames

Asker asked "Why do all white girls hate Indian guys and associate us Indian guys with false stereotypes?"
A lot of stereotypes come from somewhere. The simple fact of the matter is that the majority of the Indian males in the US are nerdy and a bit on the weak side. I'm not saying all of them, but it's definitely a hefty majority. I'm also not saying it's a bad thing. A sharp mind trumps physical strength when it comes to success in the modern world.
Asker asked why women associate those stereotypes with Indian men, and I told him the truth.

[BradyLames]

Yes I know stereotypes start of as truisms

But in society today we dont say these stereotypes about blacks, so why does society tolerate them with Indians?

Do Americans view Indians as second class like they did blacks before?

Thats the point I was getting at...

[rthomas43]

@BradyLames

"But in society today we dont say these stereotypes about blacks, so why does society tolerate them with Indians?"

Eh, I don't see the issue with being aware of and mentioning stereotypes for any given race, blacks included. It's human nature to notice patterns, and stereotypes are nothing but a pattern.
The problem arises when you treat these patterns as absolutes, which seems to be what the women in OP's scenario were doing.

Racism against Indians in the US is not even close to comparable to the racism against blacks in the US at any point in our history.
Blacks were hated and viewed as lesser beings.
Indians, while they are viewed as different, are also viewed as intelligent, hardworking, successful people. The country as a whole respects Indians.

[BradyLames]

thanks for that last line

for the record I dont live in America... So...

But from what I gather, Americans seem to be in a race for political correctness regarding blacks and have since turned their hatred towards poor old Indians...

[rthomas43]

@BradyLames

"But from what I gather, Americans seem to be in a race for political correctness regarding blacks and have since turned their hatred towards poor old Indians..."

Not at all. Yes, the political correctness regarding blacks in the US has certainly gotten out out of hand, but 90% of the racial tension in the US is still between white and black. Honestly, nothing has changed for the Indians here. They're still swooping up jobs as doctors, software developers, and various types of engineers, at astronomical rates.
People respect Indians as a whole. Women of other races just don't tend to be into Indian men.

[BradyLames]

hehe

That last line is the problem... I think in the grand scheme of things, compaining about the American women hating on Indian men is a small problem, especially when by all accounts Indians are doing fantastic in terms of jobs etc etc

But its important to me... I think there is no reason why an American women should be turned of by an Indian guy... I mean if she trained herself to be nice to black guys, why can't she give an Indian a break...

Maybe Ill only find out when I move to America... Canadian girls are extremely friendly and nice by the way...

American women are famous for being stupid... Maybe somebody told them to hate Indians lol

[rthomas43]

@BradyLames

Most Indians here in the US are immigrants or 1st generation born. As a result, a large part of the Indian community is more in touch with their native culture than they are America's, and have not yet fully assimilated into American society.
The men and women of every culture find different things attractive than the men and women of another culture. Women born and raised in the US tend to value social characteristics in a man, and these aren't necessarily the same characteristics that Indian men are taught that women seek.

Black men born in the US are products of our culture, and as a result, can relate to the women that are born from the same culture.

Ideally, race will one day no longer be an issue. But different cultures will always be attracted to different things.

[abundantlyrich]

You do know India has the second most heavily immigrant population going in the west and people experienced more neg behaviour than the other groups?

[abundantlyrich]

It's not your accent, but your ethnocentricities and cultural attitudes towards women and lack of hygiene maintained at home that puts people off. This is what my south African client told me. She is a coloured.

[BradyLames]

that is utter rubbish

In South Africa the coloured people are looked down upon as dirty, rabid rapists who are lazy and good for nothing...

Every race hates the coloureds... They aren't even a real race, theyre literally the leftovers of Indian and Malaysian migrants in cape town lol

Get a life and STOP the hate against Indian men. It needs to stop especially when you guys make excuses for blacks all the time when they act out

[abundantlyrich]

Fuck off and get a life. Stop trolling in my thread. No wonder you can't get anywhere in life when you perceive to be a victim ad take personally what others say or think. Can't FUCKEN control what other people think
@BradyLames

[abundantlyrich]

the new zealanders whites are also infamous for being racist too.

[abundantlyrich]

They fucken rape a whole town of maori women in the 1800's... go figure why maories stick together fiercely.

[nickstaa]

lol I don't know many white guys who are intimidated by Indian men.

[BradyLames]

He did not mean it in a physical way

He meant in an overall way, in that Indians seem to be taking American jobs and suburbs and have much more influence

For example the idea of Karma is thought to be the most followed religion in the world now... And yoga is massive in popularity

White men are intimidated by other minorities who do well and take a slice of the worlds pie

[Part6fam]

Why are all indian men obsessed with white women!

[SomethingWicked]

Cause they have bigger tits.

[Anonymous]

Creepy and small dicks