Hot bartender added me on Facebook - now what's next ?

[ryanontario]

and this isn't as easy a situation to figure out as some might think as she works at a " seasonal bar " that was really busy during the summer but is now closed for the season , anyways that's where I meet her and only place I ever saw her , but I found her on Facebook a while ago but didn't have the nerve to try and add her , but about a week ago I did try and add her and when I turned on Facebook today it said she added me back and I looked at her profile , it doesn't appear she has a boyfriend and instead has a lot of gf's , but she's from a city 2 hours to the south when not up here at the cottage .

but I'm not really sure what to do as I really do like this girl but of course not sure what she wants or if she only added me as a friend and if she see's the distance as too much now or if she's so good looking that I have no chance anyways ? as she is incredibly beautiful and could be an a list Hollywood actress if she wanted too , mean she's just that pretty . but I want to be careful here and not ruin what little progress I just made by getting her to actually add me as a friend and allow us to learn a bit about each other

[BaseballGurll]

Ya you could try to work with the progress so far, but I know my female bar tenders and well not to make them look bad or anything becuase I love them as friends. But female bartenders work very hard for they're tips. They act overly fllirty and sometimes seem more interested then they are to try and bring you back and leave tips. They will especially do this to good looking 2o somthing guys because because lets face it flirting and makeing small talk with guys if fun. So if you can get paid to talk to a guy that actually you might be kinda interested in to start with that's like win win right. So I don't really know what I'm saying, like she might think your a good guy and not feel like creeped out by you and that's why she added you on Facebook. But on the other harnd being interested in you while she's at work is nearly like her job. So I would say go for it, but don't go after her if she isn't really showing any more interest because chances are she's not interested. Sorry I feel bad saying this to you but that's my oppinion at working at a seasonal bar with may different 20 and 30 somthing waitresses and bartenders.

[ryanontario]

Yeah I know the odds aren't very good but I have made some progress I feel by geting her on Facebook and that also allowed me to get her email which was on her profile . so I now have some communications options outside of the bar that isn't even open at the moment . but its tough to say what see thinks of the whole thing or her intentions with me but I do think she's a bit interested so have to see where it goes .

[BaseballGurll]

Ya for sure its worth a try.. what's the worst thing that could happen right