I think I like 3 guys. What should I do?

[mizzcasual2k9]

I'm in a mix school. I think I like about 3 guys.

This thing each of them is really different. I find it hard to talk to them because I like them. One of them I can talk to a bit more. I'm a kinda shy girl when I don't know someone. But I'm single so I don't think its that bad

Guy A: He was a new guy at the beginning of the year. He sat beside me for a while. An he was always nice to me when I'd talk to him. Once in a free class he started put his feet on my chair while I was sitting with it and was kinda observing me and joining in as I was talking to my friends and stuff. But now its been about 3 weeks we haven't really spoken. I sat with him for 2 classes but I couldn't really talk to him in that class then he sat with someone else after. He look at me often. There was me and a few others in the class he was talking and I was listening kinda focusing on me as he was speaking.

Guy B- He's in only a few of my classes. A bit quiet like me in class. Never really spoken at all apart from when He asked me what something meant in french and he's really good and y friend was right beside him but asked me. In the hall I would give him a bit of eye contact and he look back sometimes look away when I looked over.

Guy C - Probably the one I speak not a lot but the most out of the guys. In a few of my classes. He has joked around with me and stuff.I think he kinda makes excuses total to me . I'm pretty sure this guy had a pen he asked to borrow it twice the the same subject but used it only for a class he would have used it for ll of them if he needed it. He is a lot taller then me when he speak a little bit he smiles as were talking and looks down to talk to me looking me in the eye. Sometimes smiles at me for no reason I normally smile back.

I don't know what to do. I don't really speak any of these guys a lot. Who likes me the most. How can I start talking to them as I am shy. Sometimes others of their friends are around when I see them most of the time. It it OK that I like all o f them I'm not sure who more as I am still getting to know them

[jacquesvol]

I don't really speak any of these guys a lot. " says it all.

Talk more with them, get to know them better and it will be more easy to decide which one you prefer.

"How can I start talking to them as I am shy? "

Talk anyway: shy or not.

You don't have to talk right away about sentiments or body, just start with obvious & neutral subjects like school, school work, -activities, TV-shows, movies, vacations (or isn't Halloween coming up in the US? )

All things hat can be heard by anyone close without making you blush.

Once you're on speaking terms with them you'll find it easier to talk about closer things like family, their problems, your problems, feelings. You'll also find out that there's one you don't like that much or who doesn't like you that much.

Listen and TALK. In that order.

Remember: you don't have to date if you don't feel like it, just because a few others are dating! That would be a stupid reason.

[jacquesvol]

OOPS, I saw too late you're in Ireland, not in the US.

[ArtistBboy]

(I'm in a mix school. I think I like about 3 guys.) and (Age:Under 18)

These are two prominent pieces of information. I think you are not ready to be dating, you are young- go out and experience life. Leading men on will only hurt them and p*ss them off. I suggest you take a break from relationships, dating, etc - and clear your head.

Guy A-Z doesn't matter, if you can't choose one, you should be dating any of them. Get to know them more before you make a decision - which one can YOU live with and be happy?

Best regards,

ArtistBBoy

[mizzcasual2k9]

I'm 16 I think I do know who I like the most but just not sure how to approach what I should do. Probably guy A / B

[ArtistBboy]

Well, maybe you do know - which isn't a problem. I just recommend that you do trial and error, but not with both at the same time - or relatively soon. You could always tell them you are having a hard time deciding between one or the other, and then ask to hang out with them.

It would lead them on, which will make a rabid pit bull out of the guy you don't choose. He will think you broke his heart, blah blah blah...

Try taking a breath, your hormones are raging and you should relax first =)

[ArtistBboy]

I feel like I should have the best answer because the advice I gave was from the heart. If you feel the same way, next to my picture is a box for "best answer" if you check it, I'll know you agree

[gradedgossip]

Okay, Looks like you have quite a bit at the tip of your hands. So I take it like you like all these guys but...you don't know who to like... well something that you have to start off doing is talking to them I mean who wants a friend let alone boyfriend that doesn't even talk to you. So start off by: picking conversations and talk with them. Once you know who will talk to you the most and who is there for you and willing to have a nice conversation that you enjoy. That's one of the ways you can start off by maybe you will find the perfect guy by doing just that !