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As long as it's not seriously over the top most guys that actually leave their houses don't care, mostly because a high percentage of them is promiscuous themselves.
When it comes to the virgin basement dwellers on gag it's a totally different story but these are not the people you meet in real life anyways because well, basements, lmao
I'm not a virgin basement dweller, and I care. lol
@Karōshi are you sure
Does the Pope shit in the woods?
Y'know, G@G is supposed to be a helpful and caring community for all, inferring that guys who prefer a woman who hasn't been promiscuous are virgin basement dwellers is terribly antagonistic.
yeah i agree im not a virgin and i do care if i was ever to go in a relationship with her she can't be a nympho. But if iwas going to have fun... honestly i still would just cause im to sensitive and will try and change her while i fk her on the daily
@Crazybandicoot you obviously can't read, congratulations on your illiteracy.
@Karōshi lol right, you obviously can't read properly - and only people who know what I've said is true for them would get so butthurt over this in the first place. Please do some self reflection.
most girls are nymphos though
@Crazybandicoot lol right, please go outside
dude wth? why are u assuming some kind of negative connotation agaisnt any guy that isn't agreeing with you. There is a big difference between a nympho and a nymphomaniac. Thats why i say most girls are nymphos
@Crazybandicoot no, In fact the only difference is that one is an abbreviation of the other. Please look into a dictionary.
And I've been on this site long enough to know that the majority of guys on here view literally any girl as promiscuous if she isn't a virgin and hold the huge double standard that it's perfectly find for them to sleep around but when women do it it's gross and they are "sluts". Right, talk about hypocrisy. And before you start ranting again please make you're you've actually read and understood what I've just said properly.
can u stop being a smarty pant, you know exactly what i meant!
If a girl has more than 5 sexual partners in my opinion she's a nympho, she gets friendzoned so i can bang and date her nice friends. Why would i want to date someone that is likely to have some sexual relationship issue in the future like getting cheated on. Same thing applies to guys except that number should be risen to 10, and yeah i agree its hypocritcal but you know so is that fact that woman can view men as sexual objects and get away with it but men can't and are looked down upon. life isn't fair for both genders.
@Crazybandicoot I'm sorry but that doesn't happen in my world and I also hope you realise that with your statements you have just proven my point.
woman are the ones that are genetically made to take care of babies, what kind of mother would you be if u fuck another guy every day (common 'warning' behaviours is their past sex life). a guy is the provider, what better way than saying your a man that is highly desired for his traits and skills than a higher count (and hopefully their quality and not just all nymphos). likewise for females u be a valued woman if u get loads of attention but only accept the ones that matter.
@Crazybandicoot "woman are the ones that are genetically made to take care of babies, " what kind of argument is that? Did you totally lose the context or what? Lmao "the sky is blue" "no! You're wrong because bananas are yellow"
Logic?
gender roles are what have driven mankind to exist till this day, if it wasn't logical you, i , anybody on GaG, or whereever else would not exist. You honestly can't be a feminist in this manner, thats absurd.
my point is, woman are meant to be careful, while men take more risks. Its actually in our DNA which make our behaviour so different.
@Crazybandicoot "gender roles are what have driven mankind to exist till this day, if it wasn't logical you, i , anybody on GaG, or whereever else would not exist" lmao did you just link the most outdated social concept to procreation and basic biology?
Okay, that's it - I'm not having a conversation with a retard, no offense in any way, but no..
@Crazybandicoot The reason why she is doing this is simple. She has been with a lot of men already so is defensive about the subject. The shaming attempts i. e basement dweller virgin (very cliche) is a dead giveaway.
@Truthatanycost right 2, 1 voluntarily = a lot! see, that's the basement dweller mentality I find so ridiculous.
You seem to be mentioning this ''basement dweller'' phrase a lot, maybe you are just talking about yourself. You should try getting some sunlight. Staying in the basement is not going to pay the bills!
To be honest I don't really care, it's just an opportunity to illuminate the blatant bias and shit moderation on G@G. I would do some self reflection, but there's not enough light down here. lel
@Karōshi Dude, I think she trolled us. She is a basement dweller and probably hates being that way so is projecting it onto everyone else. That also explains her low number of partners!
@Truthatanycost You may be right!
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@Truthatanycost lol right, so I'm now a basement dweller for having had only 1 partner but I was a slut just 10 seconds earlier? And funny how you keep talking about me being a troll or offended by this when its very VERY obvious that the only one truly butthurt is you lmao try again?
No wait, you've already lost all credibility about 3 posts ago
Most men actually are not as promiscuous as you think.
@TheWaterBear it's not about men being as promiscuous as I think it's the general mentality of male gag users that non virgin = slut, but of course only if the person is a girl, that annoys me.
Calling them basement dwellers is basically a defense mechanism. You are probably a slut and want to defend yourself
@StickStickity13 so me making a rational observation on a majority of male gag users after having been on this site for over a year is a "defense mechanism" but you randomly assuming I'm a slut who want's to defend herself isn't? Nice logic you got there lmao try again?
@Jxpxtxr the truth has been spoken 👍
@Crazybandicoot I don't really care about much else said in this post but five sexual partners really that's not even one a year... okay maybe if it's 18 legal sex age, which I'm guessing it is.
What I don't just get is why it matters past that either partner is clean. What you did as a teen will not define you for life. There were times I used to steal drinks from shops cus I was ultra thirsty and my mother didn't care, but that doesn't mean I'm a thief. You ask people in their 30s how much they drank/how often they drank from 18-24 hell loads start at 15, they're not all alcoholics. So why is it so different for sex.
@19magic the thing is, for those guys it's only different for girls - they are firm believers of the double standard that guys who have had multiple sex partners are "players" and to be admired but girls who have had multiple sex partners are "disgusting" and "sluts". I really wouldn't take it all too seriously for exactly that reason.
I get that a lot nowadays one of my mates is the classic definition of a slut. Before uni I would have slagged her off and called her names. But since then I realised does it really matter she cares about her health more than I do. She gets herself checked every three months without fail. And she doesn't give that much of a shit, one if the guys she was with said he's been with around 30. Her reply was it doesn't matter if I've been with 1 or 100, he then suddenly looked really worried. Especially when she asked the question when we're you last checked and he was like uhh 6/7 months ago.
@19magic yeah I personally don't see an issue with it as long as they're clean either, I most likely wouldn't be with someone who has a rep of cheating or has slept with an acquaintance or even friend of mine but tbh with none of the people I 'dated' and know of Ikr the number question was actually asked at all. That's why I really think this is only an issue for the type of people that never leaves their homes, simply because you never seem to meet those people irl..
*irl not Ikr
yes and no. I care if she's a cheater, that's about all.
if she's had 100+ partners... as long as she's mine now, I could give a fuck.
but promiscuous to me tends to mean - careless about sex... not "has had a lot of partners". so ya, it really depends on her self worth if it affects how i see her... as a low self worth will typically mean cheating, which i'm not interested in. So # of partners doesn't matter, ethics on sex DOES, to put it simply.
Right now i'm dating a girl who was a swinger for 5 years... for example. when a girl who has a lot of dudes in her past compliments your cock or your skills... it means a lot more. Past that, I don't really see how it affects how i see her.
I can't speak for everyone or even generally but I speak for myself
1. I don't really care about how promiscuous a girl is whether she's a booty call, friends with benefits or girlfriend
2. Honestly? I'd love being with a promiscuous bi girl for various reasons
3. The reason is not that she'll get me other girls to have sex with etc, I'm well capable of hunting by and for myself
4. Most guys that probably 'like' promiscuous girls are those that want to 'score' with them and brag about it that's all.
5. Most wouldn't want them as girlfriend etc just cause they can't hold up against the sneer & jibes or their 'fellow guys' apart from the situation that she'd probably have had sex with some or all of them
6. Whichever way how one conducts their life is their personal choice. I don't think anyone should really poke their nose into that.
7. Vote 'A'
To some degrees they care. I think there is a double standard where its ok to do some degree for guys to be able to sleep around but when a girl does it she's a whore, the ones who disagree that it isn't ok for guys to sleep around get a bad name for the ones who do, that being said I think it should go more in depth than just the number of partners. How long ago was it? Just because someone was promiscuous 20-23 doesn't mean that they are now or the same for ages 24-27 when they are the age of 26 or 29 as of now, people change to some point I think that some people need to take in consideration that people do change, values change etc. does it change the past? no but when was the last time you (generally speaking) made a mistake? would you like to be judged for the rest of your life for making a mistake?
Many men will gladly use a promiscuous woman as a cum-dumpster but wouldn't date one.
It's hypocrisy at its finest.
No one man can love a woman who belongs to the world. It's not hypocrisy, sex is a mutual exchange. And would you date a man that has been in love 10 times. You might, but its always in the back of your mind.
As long as she can keep it in her pants *while she's dating you*, I don't see a problem with it. Cheating is the issue, not promiscuity at least to me.
Promiscuity, for me, is a no-no! I've said previously that if she's had 10 previous lovers and I'm number 11, how long before she's moved on to nmber 12.
I voted other, because most guys are perfectly happy to sleep with promiscuous women, but for a relationship, want women who are not promiscuous.
I, personally, disagree with this mind set. It is completely unfair to be willing to sleep around oneself, but want a woman without a promiscuous past for a relationship. That is why I do not sleep around, and I don't want a woman who has either.
"It is completely unfair"
No it isn't. It's called natural selection. The better men will spread their seed in more women. Thus making way for a more evolved species.
But a woman who spreads her legs for any lowlife risks making way for a lousy offspring. Thus according to human nature, she is worthless.
@Homebakedcookies So... the more children a man fathers, the better chance of successful, healthy offspring? But the more children a woman has, the better chance of unhealthy, worthless offspring?
A man wanting to fuck anything with a hole is a better man, but a woman prone to opening her legs only does so for trash?
Your entire view is fucking retarded.
Don't pretend to misunderstand. A woman who spreads her legs for ANYONE due to having low standards or poor judge of character will increase the risk of producing bad offspring.
An intelligent woman with higher standards WILL NOT. It's NOT about how many children a woman has. It's about WHO she has them with.
In a first world country were womens rights are respected, natural selection is very much in play. Obviously it doesn't work the same way in the third world were women don't get to pick their males and who to have offspring with.
It's not retarded. It's nature. We are all here today because the smarter men got the women.
You can also get women by just being a violent fucktard. But that won't leave an intelligent offspring. Just more violent fucktards, as you can see in some parts of the world.
A woman can only have 1 baby every year or so, while a man can tecnically have 365 babies a year. Successful men will make more babies. Unsuccessful men will make less.
@Homebakedcookies
Men have to take care of their children and women , protect and feed them so technically he can't take care of 365 children plus 365 women and please stop finding an excuse for men to be promiscuous just saying it's your nature, only animals live simpmy obeying their instincts, humans were given too much brain for that
@IamFler Who says men have to take care of their offspring? There are two types of men in the world. Those that stick around and those that don't. It's up to the woman to choose which type is best to mate with.
If she is supposed to be with me but screwing others on the side then two conditions or I will be upset: 1. What's okay for her is okay for me too. and 2. If she is not doing that with me then why stay with her? If I am her boyfriend when she needs money or a place to stay but he is her boyfriend when she wants to have fun and fool around sh can just go to him for all of it and leave me out of it all together.
Of course they do. And i agree with the statement that "they just dont talk about it" when in actuality a guy wants to feel like what you have is special and its hard if a women is promiscuous. That's one of my worst fears, if a guy i'm really into asks about my sexual past, he has to macho and pretend it doesn't bother him but deep down it only makes sense that it would bother him. I wouldn't want to lie but i'll probably would exaggerate the truth until he drop.
*drops it
Yeah. I've only ever been with one guy and I'm married but if I wasn't and I was dating I couldn't be with a guy that cared. If he asked me that I wouldn't answer until he could prove that it really doesn't matter aka he assumes it high and accepts me anyway. I rather be alone then with someone who looks for a mate based on that, or thinks that that really matters... I wouldn't be so desperate as to feed into that just to have someone. He can have his preferences but I still have mine as well...
@flypaper i feel sorry for you husband. o the mind games you must play.
@dudeman Haha well I'll let him know. I am sure he'll appreciate it :D
Why not just don't be a slit instead of lying and taking away his freedom.
@dudeman And by over exaggerating to she is taking away his freedom how? Like I said I've only ever had sex with one guy but still wouldn't want to be judged on it, if that's how he is looking for a potential mate I am not interested. He is free to judge people how he sits fit as am I and EmoKate. Everyone is entitled to their preferences... no?
@flypaper if she lowers the number yes she's taking away his freedom.
@flypaper obviously this is just on ewe of many criteria. Would you marry a man who never had an intention on getting a job.
@dudeman but I wasn't talking about lowering numbers and neither was she...
@dudeman I want a guy who is passionate about whatever he chooses to do. I don't want a guy with no drive but I judge that based on what he talks about what his goals and dreams are... not what he's done. I don't ask for previous work history -lol. Everyone is indeed allowed to have their own criteria like everyone is allowed to decide if they want to be subjected to said criteria or not. Freedom is a 2 way street Sir.
@dudeman If he comes from or has a lot of money but wants to make sure she is in it for him and not the money is more then welcome to let her assume what she wants until he knows she is for real then tell her the truth. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion.
@flypaper if you lie you take away a person's choice. There is a huge difference in being modest with money and lying.
@dudeman If you over exaggerate or let him believe what he wants and he stays - it's the same thing. You want to know the person is there for what you view are the right reasons. if he is going to judge me to see if I am a slut... I'll go along with it to see what he does afterwards. I don't want to be judged "or choosen" based on my lack of numbers rather for who I am same as a guy down playing his wealth... no one wants to be used or have a relationship based on that. I am more then my body just like a guy is more then his money. Decide I'm worth it assuming the worst and I'll know your someone that I want to be with. My husband thought my number was way higher and choose to be with ME anyway because at the end of the day it really didn't matter. Body count defines someone as much as money does... and I don't think either should. You are entitled to your own opinions and your own method but so is everyone else. Your obviously not my type nor am I yours. Not everyone fits.
@dudeman At the end of the day everyone is looking for someone who shares their values, wants and goals and it's up to you to find it. I'm not saying there should be this big lie rather it shouldn't be used to gauge relationship goals in the begining FOR ME.
I found my own soulmate... there are things he waited to tell me until we were serious too. He was relieved to know he was my first but I needed to know that he'd still want me even if he wasn't. Who wants to be judged on such petty crap? You can choose to be judged on the money in your wallet or your body count I won't stop you... it's just not for me. To each their own. It obviously worked for us and I wouldn't change a thing. I wouldn't want a guy to be with me because I was a virgin or slept with 1 or 2 people or whatever he deemed appropiate, anymore then you'd want a girl to want to be with you for your wallet. Prove your worth me and I'll prove I'm worth you but like I said your allowed to do whatever you want.
@flypaper she didn't say over she just said. exaggerate. I just think it's silly that the number shouldn't matter.
@flypaper the thing I saga I don't find it petty at all. If she's cheap then I won't pay full price.
@dudeman "Cheap", "Full Price" . in my opinion that says much more about you then it does about her. It says you see a woman as something to be bought.. that's exactly what I want to stay away from. A guy who views woman that way is not a man I'd want anything to do with.
@flypaper you mean I value my time and comments is what you mean. If she's cheap I don't offer full price. Of you don't understand the analogy that says more about you then me.
Time and commitments
I am not a commodity... I am a person and I am not looking to be bought if that's what he's looking to do then I am doing him a favor by overexaggerating so no ones time is wasted. A lot of my friends have done the same thing as well... it's a good way to see someones character and what they are really in it for.
If guy views sex as making the girl cheap, why would she want to have sex with him? So he can see her as less afterwards? No thanks. I don't want him to feel like he ruined me for other men, give him some kind of sorted power... I wouldn't want to be with someone that is into "ruining people". I need to be seen as a person, not an object to be used or cheapened. Sex is a good and beautiful thing, and I want someone who believes that as well... if it ruins people... not good or beautiful... that would make it something to be avoided with no exceptions? Would it not? But I hope you find happiness someday, someone worth your purchase, that sees things as you do and is okay w/it
Yeah I get the analogy but I also get what it stands for... any analogy you use for this will be very unflattering and there is a reason for that.
@flypaper you clearly don't respect men.
@flypaper sex is a wonderful thing between certain people if sho re hands it out like candy it's cheap. How Is wanting a respectable women make a guy in it. for something bad?
I can change the words from bought to chosen but from what you said it sounds like they are more or less one and the same... time and commitments and all. It sounds like you are saying you are choosing an obligation based on her market value. You can word it however you want, make it sound better - that's just the picture I am getting. This is just how I see it, just like you see a woman's worth as what is between her legs... your entitled to your preference and views just as I am... freedom is a beautiful thing.
@flypaper no it's not just between her legs but it is factored in. It's silly to think other wide or to think it shouldn't be
@dudeman Lol. Well alrightly then. Have a good one Sir!
Girl, you're legs are not a virus, but they sure spread like one ;)
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@melme16
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Opps *your legs****
I heard shots fired.
Lol, you give more pussy away than an animal shelter.
I would say the majority of guys do care about that.
And women too.
guys see a difference in sex and relationships. If its just sex they dont seem to care but if its a relationship they seem to want a less promiscuous woman. We girls may bash them over the head for this as it doesn't sit well with feminists or the PC nazis but at the end of the day whether they say it or not a woman's sexual history is a real factor when a guy is deciding if to pursue a relationship.
As I'm not actually a guy so I can't know this for sure but I'd guess it depends on what the guy is looking for. If he's looking to hook up he probably won't care if she's promiscuous, just that he won't catch anything from her. If he's looking to be serious with a woman I doubt he wants to walk down the street and think one of the five guys he's just past has had his dick in his girlfriend.
Most will care if the promiscuous girl wants a relationship. Hell yes. A relationship requires being someone of quality. Promiscuous is not quality. There is always someone better than you. We can find plenty of relationship material girls who are not promiscuous. You aren't the only girl on earth to date.
Guys don't care about promiscuous if they don't have to be in a relationship with you. They don't care if its just a hook up or just to use you for sex then a promiscuous girl is OK.
Also the promiscuous girl is good for a place holder when the guy is in between relationships.
Actually yeah I find that to be true. Guys that love promiscuous girls for the most part is a temporary thing. Very sedolm men want that for their future or see them as wife material.
To most guys promiscuous girls are the kind they play around with and then eventually they settle down and bring home the "right" kind of girl to mom.
Of course it matters to most guys if a girl is/was promiscuous... but i see it as a stereotype.. I personally don't care if a girl is promiscuous... I am, so why can't she.
Following the law of nature, guy/males are "hunters" so i guess it can be a little confounding when the "prey" is making the approach. But we are humans not animals and its supposedly an "equal" world and thats the way i see it. If guys can, i don't see why girls can't.
If a woman chooses you based on certain high standards it means you are special and not many other men have a chance of dating her. If a woman has no standards and sleeps with anyone, would you feel happy to be chosen? Even worse, what if you're married to her and you're not sure your kids are even yours?
@Homebakedcookies thats another way to look at it.
I don't know cause I'm a girl but I feel like guys respect girls who aren't promiscuous more than girls who are cause they see those type of girls as easy. I'm just saying this from what I hear from guy friends. It's kind of a dumb double standard though cause guys don't get bashed for sleeping around but girls do :/
Sex is not the parallel for men, love is.
Would you feel comfortable if a guy you were getting serious with, had been in love 10 times in his past?
@NoFcks2Give no and I wouldn't feel comfortable with a guy who had sex with a bunch of different people either. That's why I don't understand why it's considered cool for guys to sleep with a lot of girls cause to me that's unattractive
Most guys are worried about infection transmission and reputation/ego. Also, girls want stable relationships as much as girls do.
It wouldn't bother me, provided she was clean and attentive. I've had promiscuous girlfriends before and people used to say it should bother me but I didn't care.
You're shocked because a guy doesn't want to sleep with a girl that's "used up"?
I don't date girls that have slept with 2 or 3 or more guys and don't really even put a second thought into girls beyond 25. Of course this will change as I age but I want to stick to this as long as possible.
Haha some of the assumptions girls hold about guys are funny 😁
I can't speak for anyone else, but I care, if I find out a woman is promiscuous, she automatically ceases to be taken seriously by me. Any attraction I have towards her decreases and she is automatically ruled out as being a potential partner. I don't care if it was in the past, she doesn't cut the mustard.