Are there still good women? Meaning, non promiscuous, value and moral-rich, and wanting to establish a family? Your take?

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I feel like the decline in these types of women, have caused the decline of quality men.

fhziljio · Accepted Answer

The number of good women (as in marriage material) is extremely low.

Our generation is losing a cultural-fight, that started before we were born and the generation before us did not good.

Women returned to more natural behaviour, which stand in opposite to
civilisation and its achievements.
promiscuity <-> monogamy
single mothers/childless women <-> family

In my experience women in their early 20s do not want kids.
Women in their mid 20s begin to rethink, but, if they want kids, they want them later.
And later, meaning early 30s or even later than that, they suddenly come up with "where have all the good men gone, who want to marry and start a family".

This is something that women get taught from a young age.
Marriage is bad, men want to enslave you.
Children destroy your life.
Focus on a carrer and show the men that you can everything as good as they can.
This is everywhere in media and academia. Not many can resist constant brain washing.

Yes the decline of women has caused a decline of men in return.
Why would you work hard to be able to have a family, if there are almost no women, who want a family or meet the requirements necessary? Sex is easy to access, you do not have to prove your worth as a man anymore.

Blake0048 · Accepted Answer

Yes there are especially here in the American South and abroad. It is definitely a lot harder to find in 2017 because of toxic liberal ideology. This generation of women were raised to believe that reducing oneself to a sex object and having meaningless sex with strangers is "liberating" because men did it in the past and they weren't shunned so its only fair. They think two wrongs can make a right instead of maybe challenging some of the morally questionable social norms society has expected from men. I think a lot of women falsey believe that feminist values are completely mainstream. These values may be perpetuated by the media but they are far from being universally accepted (although this is rapidly changing ) That is why marraige rates have taken a huge nose dive. All this being said there definitely are some good women left who were raised by a strong father figure who instilled morality and a sense of personal responsibilty. They just aren't very common nowadays. However... to be fair.. some of our men are lacking too... There are plenty of men in 2017 with no sense of honor and drive to succeed or provide or be faithful our generation seems to ansolutely glorify the thug persona. So it goes both ways.
Kind of...

Quintessence · Accepted Answer

I feel like there are less now than, say, 50 years ago--as least, in terms of promiscuity and family-raising goals. Western society's definition of success is somewhat shifting away from that familial American dream ideal (i. e., the white picket fence house filled with soccer-playing children and a golden retriever) to a more individualistic image where success is more about PERSONAL financial independence. Women are becoming less family, more career-oriented. People won't frown upon a woman for not having kids if she's pursuing a formal education--which can be up to a decade in the making. As a result, it's socially acceptable for women to have kids well past their peak fertility. This means that casual sex is more acceptable too--if "the dream" no longer revolves around getting married and establishing a family, then being ideal marriage material is no longer... well, ideal. And this mentality is not exclusive to the ambitious, career-forward woman, but extends to every woman. I'm not going to tackle morality, because that's always been an issue for the human race, and I could argue that, in the past, non-promiscuity wasn't a product of morals, but simply because it coincided with the idea of success and the values required to realize that idea.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

yes, they do exist. They are hard to find because most of them are taken. I've only been with one man my entire life and live for my family. I value my innocence at my age. I have morals, values and take pride in being a woman with substance. It's unfortunate because most men I meet think it's an act. It's not , the women they meet & know nowadays have changed their whole outlook on whether or not good women exist. I have nothing to prove to them, so I focus on my family n I.

MzAsh · Accepted Answer

There are plenty good women, but if a man can't find a single one, what does that say about him?
Women's morals and value are changing. They are less traditional, but that doesn't mean that morals and values aren't there. Women now just know that maybe being a dutiful wife and mom isn't the role they want to fulfill primarily.

Cammy137 · Answer

Id say yes but I do disagree with the idea that if a woman doesn't want to start a family or is sexually promiscuous that she is no longer deserving of the title "good woman". My girlfriend was very open to casual sex when I met her and she shares my opinion of not wanting to get married or have children. Yet she is without a doubt one of the most moral-rich and just decent human beings I've ever met

RJGraveyTrain · Answer

Things are different now. It doesn't mean women are automatically low quality. I mean I've only had sex with one man but I'm not one of those pure Christian girls either.

madhatters4 · Answer

there absolutely are. i know probably about 150 personally and i don't really feel like i have a large social network

topi_tonge · Answer

i invite you to my country.(In future , if you could)

your description matches
to indian girls exactly like the ones who are around me.

( dont go to certain big cities which are v. famous like Mumbai , Delhi)

be careful becoz many many girls here dont have sufficient knowledge about sex

if you talk about sex, then there are chances of you getting slapped!

we can RARELY seen any woman involved in activities like -- pre-marital sex, polyamory , or ANY PROMISCUOUS ACT

there are a lot of such women here (every 2nd girl you meet)

i can rarely seen girls
i grew up in between them.

but parents oppose 'love' at the age of 17-23(i think) , so they will strongly oppose it

but after this age when you become financially independent, they may support you
which can end in arranged marriage With a person you love.

there are many festivals and traditional cultures here make them bit religious, ambitious, moral-rich , valuable, highly cultured

because we (boys and girls) always remain in supervision of our parents

our parents always know where we go, what we do , etc

i invite you and wish that you get a chance in future.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes there are still good women out there, but the problem is they are so rare, that they fail the cost to benefit analysis. In other words, I'm not going to go on the hunt for Gold so I just no longer hunt period.

Another thing to consider. With good women being so rare, if you do finally meet a good one, if it doesn't work out, finding another will be near impossible.

Lelianax2 · Answer

I'm the type of female who waits before things get physical, unless it's just kissing.
It will take me months before I'm willing to trust someone enough to lay in bed with them.
And I haven't had sober sex since I was 16, since then I've only fucked a few times with the same guy high as fuck on pills.

Unfortunately, every single guy I know wants to fuck within the first week or else they want nothing to do with you. Every ex has cheated on me. And I'm assuming it's the same for all the other females who live in my area.

I don't give a shit how much money someone has. Actually me and a guy didn't work out because he thought he could buy a relationship with me.
If a guy looks sexy but he's a cunt then I won't be attracted to him so that wouldn't work out.
And, I also have personal preferences. Be honest, look decent, don't act like an idiot, treat me the way I treat you and we might have a chance.

So in short, I'm probably going to single forever.

brianlynn5750 · Answer

My wife wants nothing more than just family time with our son she is in all a wonderful mother and wife. There are people like that out there still but you have to go through and search for them.

booshlinux · Answer

They still exist. I met a true 'unicorn' as they call it. But they are scarce and hard to come by. I do see a correlation with the decline of quality men as well. A man can only endure so much bullshit from corrupt women until he finally gets mended.

Izumiblu · Answer

Funny that you blame a decline in good men on women. In life we make choices based on values and motivations. If you as a man choose to compromise your values because of a woman. What does that say about the man? He didn't believe in his values to begin with.

Bell44444 · Answer

I can't speak for others but I know I'm not promiscuous. I do very much want to start a family. As far as virtue and morality, everyone has different standards. I am religious, for example. I believe that is virtuous. Now go set up a poll on this site asking if religion is virtuous or evil. You'll see the atheist brigade rant on about how bad it is. I think I am virtuous, but you may disagree. I do think there are still women like you've described. It may just be more rare.

philipph · Answer

What qualities make a women so wonderful?
For me it is pretty simply:
Very Caring for others (also those that are not part of the groupt), trusting vulnerable and still act predicting, taking care of there body and there heart as well as listening to there intuition. All of which I met also had a strong drive for purpose and a vision in life.
My impression is furthermore, that these women are usually very open for several groups of friendship rather than hanging around only in the same ingroup.
Who can find a women like that, pure like an unicorn, tender like silkhair, powerful like a stream of water and passionate like fire?

azzntittiz · Answer

Women can't be traditional because there's nothing in it for us, I was one of those girls. Men are too selfish and uncaring.

AzureGirl · Answer

A lot of people these days seem to prefer fooling around to finding something serious. As someone who has never gotten the appeal of it, I have no idea why.

dipta · Answer

There are, but their number is decreasing exponentially.
That kind of woman isn't really appreciated by the opposite sex though, especially in younger ages.

I don't know, I kinda resent being told that women are ALSO to blame for the decline of quality men. Although I reckon it may well be true, since standards for both men and women have been changing radically in the last decades.

CT_CD · Answer

No. At least not western women. Seems like most of them want to be men. They have no shame and even take pride in being a slut. It's disgusting. Get a foreign woman.

fabulouspancakes · Answer

Values have shifted due to societal changes. Just because a woman has sex or doesn't want to be a stay at home mom doesn't make her lower quality.

"I feel like the decline in these types of women, have caused the decline of quality men."

And why not the other way around?

Dr_Subtle · Answer

There are good women and good men, and they really haven't changed much except more women are not accepting of a misogynistic patriarchal society. Stop blaming women for the problems men have because they were taught poor attitudes towards women. I know many women who "fit" your definition of good women, but wouldn't touch your definition of a quality man.

Grow up, learn to treat women as equals, with respect, and maybe you might actually find what you are looking for.

Yayeet · Answer

Yes, a lot, but it is true that the most notorious ones tend to be cheaters, promiscuous, shitty... but that happens with men too. It's normal for the bad people to stand out, just like a bad apple stands out in a bag of good apples.

JDavid25 · Answer

Yeah, there are still a lot around.. And they really ain't hard to find... I think.. But yeah there are still good/great women around..

Shiba1490 · Answer

I never understood why people cheat on each other or just like to hookup instead of finding someone to love. There are good men and women, but it seems like the bad ones put themselves out there more than the good ones do

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

The more good women disappear the more good men disappear then the cycle continues

anewgirl · Answer

I agree with you. By your definition, I’m “good” lol

Anonymous · Answer

Of course there are. A lot of them just assume that guys don't want that type of woman, because the opposite type of woman seem to always get all the attention.

BoyIfYouDont666 · Answer

They are out there they just dont want your ass lmao 😂

normielover6969xD · Answer

They're really rare these days with the liberal agenda making promiscuity something to be proud of. Really disgusting

CurtisR · Answer

I haven't yet. Once I do though im never going to let her escape, let alone find another guy. Can't help you, sorry! Jk. It really does seem like there is a decline of good quality woman. Maybe we're not looking in the right places? I've never tried out online dating, but I wonder if that could be the answer... 🙉

11110000bbbb · Answer

Yes, there are some good women.
Personally I believe in having morals and I do want a family and I always have wanted a family, specifically a big family.
But I feel like sometimes there won't be someone who believes what I do.
But my boyfriend doesn't want to do anything until marriage and he wants a big family, but Him and I both know that if God doesn't want it to work out then it won't. Cause My boyfriend is a very good person, and him and I both believe in God.

rjroy3 · Answer

I think the only difference today is that what's always gone on behind the scene is more public with the internet and social media. Everything is just out there and more streamline. Tons of girls were promiscuous back in the day, just like a ton of girls are today. That doesn't equate to low character or low moral values. Just talk to men in their 40s, t0s and 60s who actually had a dating life. The story is the same. Just different scenery

Anonymous · Answer

I swear the only people complaining are non promiscuous people; its fine liking a nun & all but you guys act like the world is half ending over it. Its just harder to find a girl who isn't open to that stuff, you just need to look harder & try not to put down people just becouse what you like isn't popular; cocks are not some evil thing that makes people a bad person.

TheTallguy993 · Answer

There are, actually. Plenty of them in my community that I know of; my religion encompasses a strong moral code that lays out effective rewards and punishments based on certain types of behavior. Our women are from amongst the few, though, so yes it's not very common these days

BronzedAdonis · Answer

its not as if most guys nowadays are great catches themselves it's a two way street

TheUglyMonk · Answer

I don't get how sleeping around can make you less of a good woman, if you want sex and the only "acceptable way" to get sex without being labeled any offensive terms is being in a relationship then we'll have tons of people getting in to relationships solely for sex and those type of relationships are bound to fail.

Anonymous · Answer

I believe they still have to exist to an extent but they are rare. I don't think you have a good chance to meet a woman like this. I think there numbers are to low and odds are women like this are already taken. I personally have given up on looking for a woman like this because I honestly don't think I will ever meet one. I mean it would be awesome if I did and I would be so luck to. But it isn't worth putting up with all these other women in hopes of finding something that may not exist.

Alessus · Answer

Sure, if that's your standard of good, then I'd think there are such women still out there, though I do think that their numbers are declining.

dropkicknj13 · Answer

It's gotten really rare, and they're normally picked up quick. I agree though, women do basically set the standard for men so when they let go most men follow suite

Louloubum · Answer

You're right. There are less good women. I don't want a family so I guess I'm bad then.

Anonymous · Answer

Your definition of good isn't the only definition of good that there is. If you want o be loved despite your mistakes or faults, you have to offer that same kind of love.

Anonymous · Answer

There probably are, they just don’t come as expected. Maybe change your way for finding quality women. The problem these days is that everyone wants different things, it’s all about grabbing happiness while you can.

Fancygoldfish · Answer

Yes but she's 40. Lol

ktdec · Answer

Being promiscuous doesn’t make you not a good woman... how is that even remotely related? Can someone explain?

deraz24 · Answer

They're still out here its just hard finding guys to match

Anonymous · Answer

There are, but promiscuous women or women who don't want families are just as good as the ones you describe.

friendlydesihood · Answer

Are there any good men who have the same values? Even in the times of old traditions, men were more promiscuous and morally lacking than women (because of the more freedom they had).

Anonymous · Answer

The short answer is yes but with technology and media I think people have different expectations than they ever had and because so much options I think a lot of people are much more picky now.

DanielKaluuya · Answer

There are none left. Fuck hoes and get money.

QueenBeeJay · Answer

There are plenty of good women, just maybe not by your standards. :)

dwiller943 · Answer

Yes. But they are very rare to find. And the younger you are, the more difficult it is to find them.

Anonymous · Answer

Better abduct a female u get hard for, then wash her brain until she is the obedient little female u crave

NerdInDenial · Answer

Higher possibilities of those women in religious areas

LegateLanius · Answer

Probably. It's unlikely we will ever cross paths when she's available though.

aurorauk · Answer

I am a traditionalist

jacquesvol · Answer

I married one.

kieran0byrne · Answer

There is, somewhere.

culinaryqueen · Answer

Yes there are

Bandit74 · Answer

Yeah, but they are pretty rare.

fauchelevent · Answer

Sure, I imagine so.

Anonymous · Answer

Well of course it's our fault.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Depends on where you are.

cupidkisses · Answer

Yes there are

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