If he chooses it, it's great! If she chose it and he's only doing it so she doesn't divorce him and ruin his life, she should be tortured and killed slowly.
I personally prefer that both partners be working and share the household responsibilities. It's fair that way and it can help to prevent any sort of resentment later on. But that's just me, others can live how they want.
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I think if a couple gets together and decides that's what is best for their family, it's great. It's wonderful for the kids.
I'm all for it. If woman want to work and men stay home then fine. So long as both parties are happy
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Sounds modern but I would want to be the person at home with the kids. I'm not sure I could see my partner as a man if he was a househusband. I could see myself cheating with a guy at work.
@s3dany because we need a solid family income. Don't get me wrong I plan on running a daycare from in the home but that won't be enough to sustain our future family of 5-7
My advise is to give ur only one or two kids all ur interest is better than sperate it for 5 kids and them dad and every one will have his problems.. When they are young maybe will be easier even you will get so tired.. But once they gone to the school you will kill ur self with 5 kids..😂
You can see how babysitter life.. They had a hard day in work for some hours and then they have to rest and when they tired they can quite.. But mothers can't... I am from an Arabian. Country who have a lot of kids. And I see people are not fine this way.. Can't educate them kids well and can't take care of. Them health and parents health too. My mom told me. That her mom was had 20 kid :) most of. Them are died!
@s3dany Not to be offensive you live in a much poorer country then I do. I live in Canada. I come from a family of 3 kids and we turned out great. families of 3 are most common but families of 5 are still no uncommon here. There are no deaths due to amount of children. We have excellent health care and we have public schools for children that every child must go to (if not a school for even better education). My life is Canada is much different than yours and you can't really compare it.
I think it didn't depend on the country. My country is not poor but government problems you know. And there is mindless people who think only about sex with out thinking in their children future. What ever. I mean that it's depend on your time and your 2 hands.. U will feed 2 kids better than 5 ! It's Mathematical ! U can care of 2 more than 5 . I didn't said that u can't do with 5 but with 2 of course will be better. Think about it
I think sharing house duties is good. But if my love would have big opportunities to make a great career that's fine with me to stay home but not forever
I was the houseboyfriend. Really. It felt good. My ex was the teacher. I cleaned the apt. Got the groceries, accessorizes, etc. Being the househusband, great.
I had a friend who had a stay home dad. It was weird because he had a masters degree. But it worked out for his family. so its cool when it works for the family.
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If he chooses it, it's great! If she chose it and he's only doing it so she doesn't divorce him and ruin his life, she should be tortured and killed slowly.
I personally prefer that both partners be working and share the household responsibilities. It's fair that way and it can help to prevent any sort of resentment later on. But that's just me, others can live how they want.
I think if a couple gets together and decides that's what is best for their family, it's great. It's wonderful for the kids.
How is it great and wonderfull for the kids?
@Djaay Having a parent at home to be there for the kids is beneficial. How is it not better to be taken care of by a parent instead of a babysitter?
That answer is only subjective for a person in favor of , not the children welfare
I'm all for it. If woman want to work and men stay home then fine. So long as both parties are happy
Sounds modern but I would want to be the person at home with the kids. I'm not sure I could see my partner as a man if he was a househusband. I could see myself cheating with a guy at work.
I have no problem with it but i dont want that for myself i like a guy that works more
well if they're ok with it i don't see anything wrong with it... their lives.. their choices
would you date a guy like that?
@Toad-1 maybe but in return he has to somewhat contribute to the proper running of things (and am not refering to financial stuffs here)
My brother is a stay at home father. He got bored and went back to work lol!
If a guy wants to stay home to mind the kids and house then great for him and same vice versa on genders.
However house husband and house wife are incredibly stupid names IT SHOULD BE HOUSE SPOUSE IT RYHMES!!!
I think it should stay house wife but house husband should become husband's bad influences.
What does that mean?
Whatever. Different things work for different couples.
Meh. I prefer balance. Both working and sharing household duties.
just fine but I want to be a housewife so it wouldn't work for me
Why do u think that?
@s3dany because we need a solid family income. Don't get me wrong I plan on running a daycare from in the home but that won't be enough to sustain our future family of 5-7
Isn't one son is enough? I think if u have a husband and one son.. And you share responsibility together so you can live well!
@s3dany ummm no... And why would I need a son? I just want 3-5 kids, I don't care what their sexes are...
Why do u need 5 kids :) isn't one is enough? Can you care of 5 kids! It's so much
@s3dany Of course I can care for 5 kids... and no one isn't enough... if one was enough I wouldn't want 3-5 obviously
My advise is to give ur only one or two kids all ur interest is better than sperate it for 5 kids and them dad and every one will have his problems.. When they are young maybe will be easier even you will get so tired.. But once they gone to the school you will kill ur self with 5 kids..😂
@s3dany or maybe you don't know anything about my life and what would work for my family... that's also a possibility.
You can see how babysitter life.. They had a hard day in work for some hours and then they have to rest and when they tired they can quite.. But mothers can't... I am from an Arabian. Country who have a lot of kids. And I see people are not fine this way.. Can't educate them kids well and can't take care of. Them health and parents health too.
My mom told me. That her mom was had 20 kid :) most of. Them are died!
@s3dany Not to be offensive you live in a much poorer country then I do. I live in Canada. I come from a family of 3 kids and we turned out great. families of 3 are most common but families of 5 are still no uncommon here. There are no deaths due to amount of children. We have excellent health care and we have public schools for children that every child must go to (if not a school for even better education). My life is Canada is much different than yours and you can't really compare it.
I think it didn't depend on the country. My country is not poor but government problems you know. And there is mindless people who think only about sex with out thinking in their children future. What ever. I mean that it's depend on your time and your 2 hands.. U will feed 2 kids better than 5 ! It's Mathematical ! U can care of 2 more than 5 . I didn't said that u can't do with 5 but with 2 of course will be better. Think about it
@s3dany I don't remember asking for your opinion. I know what I am capable of. Have a nice night.
Pussy whipped, and extremely unfulfilled is my first impression. Maybe they know something I don't though, so I can't really judge them.
if it works for those involved i have no issues with it
I think sharing house duties is good. But if my love would have big opportunities to make a great career that's fine with me to stay home but not forever
I was the houseboyfriend. Really. It felt good. My ex was the teacher. I cleaned the apt. Got the groceries, accessorizes, etc. Being the househusband, great.
Pathetic
@theFantasticJ Not P, if I can't drive and work. I have Epilepsy.
Don't clean the house then
I had a friend who had a stay home dad. It was weird because he had a masters degree. But it worked out for his family. so its cool when it works for the family.
Yeah, that's cool. It's whatever works for your family.
Honestly, I think I would be a better house-spouse than work a normal 9-5 job.
I would have more time to bake bread!
No I rather be a housewife. I don't care about careers.