Why is a woman’s virginity so important and sought after in many parts of the world? (Page 2)

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Why is a woman’s virginity so important and sought after in many parts of the world?

jiothecat · Answer

It's the primal desire to know your DNA will be passed on. With A Virgin you are more likely to know that you are the father

LuWe22 · Answer

Reading the comment my vagina is being compared to a sex toy, a car, a lock and more. Feeling really good about that. 🙄

Nico63 · Answer

It makes them pure. Untouched. The idea that you will be the first and only man to be sexually intimate with that one women x

Anonymous · Answer

In my opinion, i never masturbated inserting anything so it's already something very serious that someone ELSE put something in there! Is so important because 1st, you are at risk of having a baby,2nd that moment should be perfect for her and she wants the right partner, its very intimate for me. 3 the pain you might get might be intense so she wants to wait more for the right time. (Some girls)
Shorten: its something very private that should be taken serious just like the girl would like.

Harsh_5299 · Answer

Once upon a time, there were no contraceptions or birth control or DANA testing available in the world
Therefore, there was no way for a guy to determine whether or not the child born out of a promiscuous woman would be his or not... hence every guy preferred virgins

cherryphi82 · Answer

It's one way men leverage dominion over a woman's body and social status.

MoonSage · Answer

Just another way to downplay a females sexuality. Virginity isn't something that makes u or beeaks you.

bloodmountain1990 · Answer

Religion and insecurity

That being said, virgin or not, I never ask a girl about her sexual history or lack of. All I care is that she's STD free, doesn't have a kid, and doesn't cheat. I just figure she's had sex with other people before me and leave it at that.

Don't ask questions you don't wanna know the answers to.

Eirletherail · Answer

It's so valuable because it's so often lost before marriage. Your virginity is a gift you can only give one person. Hold onto that gift and know that it is the greatest gift you can give someone. Never throw it away from an hour or two of pleasure.

DiegoO · Answer

Why loosing virginity is only linked to intercourse, when oral and anal sex are part of SEX? Lol, I have to laugh when some girls say here, "we only did oral" ...

Woman's virginity was important in the past, the could have get pregnant easily, and the guy they usually married was for family convenience, so if a woman disproved the family decision she would be seen awfully since the family perceived as a threat to their wealthiness and promising family union.

Babsie1984 · Answer

I think it’s a power thing for men - if they can be the first man that she’s had

Anonymous · Answer

I think they see it and treat it as if women are goods, if they are virgins they are brand new, unused, and if they aren't they're second hand goods, preowned goods. And for some places, people or their cultures, or some other beliefs, they make a big deal over things like this. I really don't give a shit, and besides, if they had already obtained sexual experience beforehand, at least that means I wouldn't have to do all the work by myself most of the time, especially in the beginning.

HereIbe · Answer

Because, in those parts of the world, women are property with one purpose--to produce new men, and those unfortunately necessary new women that have to be used to produce further new men. Thus, men want their prospective property to be free of any possibility of pre-use that might call into question, however remotely, who the new men are the offspring of.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Personally I think its in a man's nature to desire to be the only man that has sexually explored a woman's body.

It can hurt a man's ego and primarily cause jealously knowing his wife at one point in time was sucking and getting pounded by another man's sledgehammer. It's man's biology dude.

ShesAmerican · Answer

because some guys are so insecure that can't accept the fact that women are free beings and can fuck 100's of people not some sex toys or their"territory"

bibi3pu · Answer

It's not, it's her innocence. You will never love like you love a innocent girl. While at the same time you as a woman won't ever love like you love before your first heartbreak.

Now, to be fair, there's cinical virgins and lovely heartwarming sluts. But that's too nuanced to be put into religious law.

peedy · Answer

I think I boils down to religion good bat Heaven and Hell, Jesus have a virgin mother he must be pure, I have to have a peer wife
Bunch of brain washing bullshit
I had a virgin wife the sex sucked she didn't know anything so fuck that I want to marry a pornstar

OpticalIllusion1747 · Answer

When I met my first we were best friends for years and then once I started dating her knowing she was a virgin helped me realize that when she reach that point she was as committed as I was to advancing our relationship to the next level. I knew there was no lingering feeling of love for anyone else because she never reached that point

fay23 · Answer

Because it means purity, since technically men can't prove their virginity. With women you "can". ( I'm aware that not all women bleed or have pain their first time in just stating what most people still believe)

BabyBirdy · Answer

I think it’s the idea of being the first one which isn’t all that spectacular I don’t know anyone who said their first time was the best or most amazing- male or female

chopper1977 · Answer

My first instinct and reaction is to say it's because of some man's perversions. Sorry, but that's my first thought...

Finchie40 · Answer

Cuz a guy likes the fact that he was a girls first , he doesn't like thinking of other dicks being inside her

Cody01 · Answer

Back in the day men could own women. Back in the day and now virginity is viewd as being pure and only meant to be given away to 1 partner. Christians. Back in the day you want to know that dat baby is yours.

oddwaffle · Answer

Because men don't like other men sticking their meat into a woman they are interested in.

Sort of like 1st post as well as 1st claim and conquest feeling.

Other than that, it has no meaning of what so ever.

NerdInDenial · Answer

Similar to why people want a new car: unused and clean

Anonymous · Answer

Because she's never had another dick in her and is more likely to be loyal because she has saved her virginity for one lucky guy. Basically the Soda can rule applies

mistixs · Answer

So you don't get pregnant without a partner there to support you.

Cosytoasty · Answer

Before birth control (and the knowledge of actually using it) sex had a real decent chance of resulting in pregnancy. Sperm is cheap and eggs are expensive.

gbmlevin · Answer

Because a virgin is holy. It is a very huge decision for a woman to allow her first man to enter her. It is holy for one man to be with only one woman.

Noora1 · Answer

Religion, culture/tradition. by the way it's not only women but to men too. But I guess this world dose not care when it comes to males...

carlos583 · Answer

Cuz guys with no skills look for women naive enough to think the guy knows what he is doing and be the first to make her feel pleasure she never felt before. Men know there's always someone better than you out there but we guys always hope we are the best than everyone else but unless u hanging low u know u ain't Mandingo

SuperDude4u · Answer

With all the differences men and women have in a relationship and trying to find someone compatable with you this holds no weight anymore. Its just a fairy tail wish. To be honest I prefer someone with some experience and knows what she wants in the bedroom. Someone new probably just lies there and may not even enjoy it and you have to teach everything to.

Anonymous · Answer

If a lady is still a virgin, in many cases this means that players don't want to mess with her so this says something about her character and air.

manu1980 · Answer

Intimacy is a very special thing and it should only take place in a fixed and strong relationship. So not only the presence of the hymen is important even though it is more important that a even though it is more important that a girl hasn't had petting before. For me it is very precious to have a girlfriend who I want to marry if I am the only man for her for her entire life that we can share something what she didn't share with somebody else.

savalisk · Answer

I dont rightly know. It seems innate and natural to seek someone like that for long term relationship purposes.
I guess it similar to the value girls place on mens sexual experience. The more experienced the more desirable.

HappyWheels · Answer

Sluts don't make good wives. Sorry, but that is the hard truth.

Anonymous · Answer

I dont have a clue why many parts of the world want women like this. I do know many men want to be the first to have sex with a virgin.

For me I want my wife to be virgin dont want her sleeping around with other men. I want to honor my marriage. I want God in my life.
Being a christian want to honor Gods covenant.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, I'm a virgin and I would prefer to have find a woman that is the same in not having had sec with someone, it's special and shouldn't be given easily. That's not to say I wouldn't marry a non-virgin. I would, just brr hat a virgin is preferable.

gavacho2014 · Answer

Because many men when considering marriage would prefer a woman that would be all his and that a woman not be of a promiscuous nature and have very low mileage.

Juxtapose · Answer

You know those fucking retards in the YouTube comments section who scream "FIRST"? Same reason. I'm not even kidding. It is literally that retarded and simple.

bubble_tea · Answer

It's harder to break away from traditional beliefs in those countries.

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

Those places are probably over run with filthy 3rd world hookers with no antibiotics and crabs that can circumsize you... So a virgin has value... Plus Jesus gets people all fucked up with sex

Anonymous · Answer

In my country, there's bad stigma for people who do pre-marital sex. If not for fact that people are gonna talk behind me for not being virgin, i would have had sex now.

Someguynamedbob · Answer

Not me I like em slutty, virgins are awkward and don't know what their doing in the sheets

ou7erspace · Answer

I didn't know that was a thing. Who would want to be with an amateur. Virgins are lame and annoying. I got to teach you everything now?

TRexxx · Answer

I dunno, I tend to view those types of men as deviant abusive, and predatory. Weirdos... or sad sacks

Anonymous · Answer

For me it’s kind of a fantasy for my virginity to be taken. It’s symbolized purity and innocents. While the guy is not and knows what he is doing. It’s kinda one of my dominate submissive fantasies.

DamnMan · Answer

Obviously, because it means she's not having sex, which means all the kids she will have are yours and you can trust that.  It comes from a time before contraception.

taleswapper · Answer

It's a cultural thing. Being a virgin means she's not going to foist some other guy's child off on you, in theory. In practice, she could become pregnant by someone else the day after the wedding.

olderbudweiser · Answer

Some v silly replies here... its a basic anamilistic genetic trait. A pure untouched female in all species means the males sperm is the only sperm to fertilise her... its as simple as that

Anonymous · Answer

Probably because when a woman first has sex she kind of gets "attached" to the first one more than anything... and that pure kind of love is hard to find...

grossgirl19 · Answer

Dunno tbh, i dont know why people make it such a big deal

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t know... I have no experience and I’m scared of doing something stupid my first time... I thought most guys wanted girls who know what they are doing.

monkeynutts · Answer

Men like this must be really bad in bed. They go for these girls because what she does not know won't hurt her. she can't complain if she has nothing to compare her experiences with.

chnapo · Answer

Because when I choose a partner for life, I feel weird if she had other partners before. But now that I already had one girlfriend, I cannot hold onto this anymore.

bladedshard · Answer

Its just sex. As a virgin guy i think having sex with a virgin girl would be more comforting. But otherwise virginity became important because of religion.

blackholeboy · Answer

No idea, couldn't care less if a women's been penetrated before.

Phule · Answer

If she, or he for that matter, is a virgin they will always remember you. You'll always remember your first and you never forget your last.

Anonymous · Answer

Virginity is the sign of loyalty to wife and husband; to me.
Honestly; I don't want to wish a woman as a wife for me soon who isn't virgin. And for that; I am virgin also.

This is my opinion, I hope noone will be rude.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

I guess it's meant for purity... Untouched by society.. she is kept herself for her man.. and I guess men love that.

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