Women with virginity as a deal breaker, why?

[Anonymous]

I've seen that most women are massively turned off or have it as a hard deal breaker if a guy is a virgin (depending on age, but let's say 25+). Why is that? If he's got his life together and is otherwise normal, why would this be a hard deal breaker?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Once they know that sex is actually pretty enjoyable, they are more prone to cheat than the guys who’ve had their fair share of fun in the past.

[silvermoon84]

If that’s really a dealbreaker, that’s not someone who you want to be with anyway. There are still plenty of women who don’t care as much about that.

[Asker]

What percentage do you think

[Screenwriter]

Tradition. A man without sexual experience is considered a loser. It's sexist. Just as a woman who's had any sexual experience is considered a slut. Sexism again.

[Izzy_3991]

Not at all! I think it's wonderful to save yourself for marriage.

[Asker]

... That's not exactly the scenario

[Izzy_3991]

Oh. You want to but no girlfriend?

[Asker]

That's usually the issue you'll come across online, yeah

[Izzy_3991]

I see.
For me, it isn't a turn-off at all nor is it a deal-breaker. It doesn't bother me at all.

[LazerBean]

Because hoes don't like people who make them feel bad about their poor choices.

[sheenagwapa]

deal breaker it's a plus why would i want to be with a man whose been with a lot of vag?

[MilkRoseTea]

Not a deal breaker for me. As long as he isn't desperate for sex. I'm saving myself for marriage.

[Anonymous]

If he had his life together, he wouldn't be a virgin.

[Asker]

Full disclosure, this is asking for me. I have my family and friends, degree, career, my own place, hobbies both physical and not. It took a while to get here, no women really wanted me along the way

[Ckckaka]

Don't get too negative and hard on yourself. Do some introspection, find out the reasons why your life is as it is, accept it, move on and become a person you always wanted to be. Don't get bitter and don't care too much about other people's opinion. The right woman will not find it as a dealbreaker, in my opinion

[RayCrolla123]

Women would want you even when you are broke… I know a bunch of ugly broke guys that get women. It’s just that you sound like you have some shyness or some kind of mental handicap going on… cause in high school why didn’t you date any girls? Money wasn’t a factor in high school… I’m sure there’s a reason, the main thing to do is find the root cause of why you don’t approach women.. get therapy.

And I’m saying this from a female perspective who come from a shitty family and had a shitty childhood and isolated myself and pushed men away for years until I built myself back up.

[RayCrolla123]

Well at least I’m trying to build myself back up.. I’m still stuck and hopeless in some ways! But I’m trying to heal… but I have my doubts about my life as well. That’s why I came here for answers.

[Asker]

@RayCrolla, I did date one in highschool, I didn't date more because there were none that wanted to. She went to a different college shortly afterwards, got bored of me and left. I've asked out people in person, only to get stood up or just rejected. Did online, but mostly just stood up and "no spark"