I think all schools should adopt uniforms. There are several benefits to a uniform. It puts all the students at same level in terms of clothing. One less thing to worry who has what and pointless things ins school. It can satisfy a growing number of individuals who have unrealistic ideas on both male and female bodies including adults shaming students. It can also help removing some forms of clothing bullying.
It is I understand that a v neck down to your belly button is maybe not the best thing to wear but come on.. my shoulders or my collarbones? I don't think my shoulders would distract any guy in class... They're just stupid rules. I'm happy that we dont have these strict dress code rules in the Netherlands.
First of all, EVERYTHINGS SEXIST THESE DAYS. But no, school dress codes are not sexist. They are designed to make all the kids dress modestly, as they will be required to do when they get jobs and usually apply to boys to. Otherwise, you'd have one girl show up in one of these god awful goth outfits and some rich girls come in an evening gown.
If i see a girl wearing slutty dresses and keeps talking why boys hit on her, i'll break the rules and humiliate her, it's not your right to be mostly naked and telling me delete your feelings or don't talk...
Be polite, wear respectful clothes, and we will all respect your body snd treat you a good treatment... don't mention to me why guys and why guys, it's simple facts that men will never be like womeb and vice versa... this is nature and god created us like this
Twice I have seen young women wearing skirts so short the bottom of their arse was showing, they became angry when they were told to go and change to something more respectful.
In all fairness, this isn’t about the difference between men and women. Women are as attracted to men as men are attracted to women. But men don’t have many clothing choices, so it’s impossible for them to be “distracting” towards women. If men could go shirtless to school believe me girls would stare and they would DESIRE. But they’re obviously not allowed to be shirtless, so if that’s the case then why should women be allowed to be semi naked if men can’t? Lel
@latinabutterfly96 rules works on both, but women have boobs which are private sexual parts and women might be attracted to men just like a man attracted to a girl but a girl can hold herself down while a raging testosterone bull cannot 😄
Also the society, culture and history prevents women from acting like men... a girl can be attracted to a man's body to some parts but a man is attracted to the whole package, but i agree that both are equally attracted to sexual parts of each other... that's why there is sex and that's why men need women and women need men
Women are also attracted to the whole package, lol! And no, lots of women can’t control themselves and lots of men can, because if they couldn’t there’d be more rape cases than there currently are. Which sounds kinda disturbing but it’s true.
It’s just nature. If men stopped pursuing women, women would probably be chasing after men. The reason they don’t is bc men make our jobs easier I guess
@latinabutterfly96 i agree with you on this one, but the rape mentality is an illness, because no matter how bad i wanted it, i can always pay a girl to fulfill my instincts, or just get it done by myself, in the end of the road there is nothing like a real marriage where a man and a woman become one and can make sex with each other as much as they want and at anytime they want, real love makes sex so beautiful and if the girl gets. pregnant the couple will. celebrate for god giving them a child made. from. their seed of love...😊
its not about humiliating her or teaching boys that she's not a sexual object, its about teaching kids to wear proper clothing, Kids these days are literally too spoiled and bratty kids, they need a lot of discipline in their lives,14 - 16 year olds getting pregnant, wearing slutty clothes, having sex, doing all the things that they should be doing after the age of 18
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I remember needing to wear a fucking skirt in Winter as apart of the uniform. A SKIRT. WINTER. So fucking dumb. Needless to say i showed up in warm pants anyway. Got a couple detentions, but they started giving up and just letting me do it towards the end, lmao.
No, there is appropriate clothing for schools and there is appropriate clothing for elsewhere.
Dress codes are fine as they are. They only effect women because only women see the need to wear clothes with gaping holes or clothing that doesn't cover half their bodies. Sure this is partly the fault of the clothes manufacturers and them making large amounts of impractical women's clothes but there are practical women's clothes out there.
I live in Europe and I think we don't really have a dress code here, but a classmate went to america for a year and she showed us the dress code of the school she was gonna visit. And is was absolutely ridiculous. Not allowed to show her shoulders? Excuse me? What the fuck? Girls run around in hot pants in summer, so what? Never heard of anyone being "too distracted" to follow. what the teachers say.
So what I think, first regulations suck! Second uniforms are not that great of an answer. But I also get their point, guys look at girls in a difrent way than girls look at guys, ence the difference. I think girls end up benefited from dressing a bit more conservative but I don't like the idea of it being forced, people can think for themselves and decide how they want to dress
No there is a time and place 4 everything. They're looking to keep the students occupied on learning. It hasn't changed since I was in school, a long long time ago. Girls weren't aloud to wear short shorts then. I can can understand I still remember it was Hard enough with some wearing tight jeans especially Levis.
No, this is dumb. The same rules apply to guys evenly, guys just dont try to wear shorts with their ass hanging out or crop tops. If they did, they would also be reprimanded for it
It's in no way biased towards women. I'm pretty sure a boy would be sent home for wearing hot pants and a tube top too. The thing is, they don't. Girls are the only ones who seem to insist on wearing close to nothing.
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I'm strutting around naked, don't sexualise me, you are the problem. (=_= )
There's obviously a line and therefore you can cross it. It's also not up to you if you're attractive or not you can only *try* to be seen a certain way. It's bewildering how people can interpret being seen as attractive as "shaming."
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And no I don't think it's sexist.
Most schools in my country have uniforms so we don't really run into dumb stuff like this.
I knew a guy who was elected school president. The rule was no skirts could be above the knee while kneeling. So after he was elected, he had all the girls kneel in front of him, so he could make sure their skirts weren't above their knees. Needless to say, he wasn't president long.
I just realized... if men didn’t objectify women sexually on some level... how would sex even occur at all. It’s not possible to have sex without objectifying the other person sexually on some level.
I think what a man would call sexual attraction a woman would call objectification or at least a feminist.
At some point both partners have to think either “I want him/her to pleasure me or I want to pleasure him/her or both.” So that’s objectification. In either case you’re looking at each other as the object and intended source for sexual gratification. Right?
I suppose it possible to completely disconnect from that, say in a case where the wife doesn’t want sex, but will do it for the husband, in which case the objectification goes one way only, also to exclude any forms of sexual assault or rape or prostitution/sex worker.
I think girls should be able to wear whatever they want to a limit. As long as they aren't majorly showing their asses and/or boobs, then they should be fine, and guys who have a problem with it either need to not pay attention to them, or learn to deal with it
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I am so sick of this crap. Many girls dress sexually to attract men and then pull this bullshit. You want the freedom to dress how you want without repercussions but there are repercussions in the real world. No amount of education will prevent rape. Dress how you want and deal with the outcome
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I think all schools should adopt uniforms. There are several benefits to a uniform. It puts all the students at same level in terms of clothing. One less thing to worry who has what and pointless things ins school. It can satisfy a growing number of individuals who have unrealistic ideas on both male and female bodies including adults shaming students. It can also help removing some forms of clothing bullying.
For the female who downvoted me I'm curious as to what I may have said to offend you.
You should dress the part.
You're going to school, not the street corner.
Yep, exactly what I think. Thanks for sharing.
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I understand that a v neck down to your belly button is maybe not the best thing to wear but come on.. my shoulders or my collarbones?
I don't think my shoulders would distract any guy in class...
They're just stupid rules.
I'm happy that we dont have these strict dress code rules in the Netherlands.
First of all, EVERYTHINGS SEXIST THESE DAYS. But no, school dress codes are not sexist. They are designed to make all the kids dress modestly, as they will be required to do when they get jobs and usually apply to boys to. Otherwise, you'd have one girl show up in one of these god awful goth outfits and some rich girls come in an evening gown.
If i see a girl wearing slutty dresses and keeps talking why boys hit on her, i'll break the rules and humiliate her, it's not your right to be mostly naked and telling me delete your feelings or don't talk...
Be polite, wear respectful clothes, and we will all respect your body snd treat you a good treatment... don't mention to me why guys and why guys, it's simple facts that men will never be like womeb and vice versa... this is nature and god created us like this
Twice I have seen young women wearing skirts so short the bottom of their arse was showing, they became angry when they were told to go and change to something more respectful.
@Lloyd1985 so what? If they got angry what happens, that's the best they can do unless they want to be humiliated more...
In all fairness, this isn’t about the difference between men and women. Women are as attracted to men as men are attracted to women. But men don’t have many clothing choices, so it’s impossible for them to be “distracting” towards women. If men could go shirtless to school believe me girls would stare and they would DESIRE. But they’re obviously not allowed to be shirtless, so if that’s the case then why should women be allowed to be semi naked if men can’t? Lel
@latinabutterfly96 rules works on both, but women have boobs which are private sexual parts and women might be attracted to men just like a man attracted to a girl but a girl can hold herself down while a raging testosterone bull cannot 😄
Also the society, culture and history prevents women from acting like men... a girl can be attracted to a man's body to some parts but a man is attracted to the whole package, but i agree that both are equally attracted to sexual parts of each other... that's why there is sex and that's why men need women and women need men
Women are also attracted to the whole package, lol! And no, lots of women can’t control themselves and lots of men can, because if they couldn’t there’d be more rape cases than there currently are. Which sounds kinda disturbing but it’s true.
It’s just nature. If men stopped pursuing women, women would probably be chasing after men. The reason they don’t is bc men make our jobs easier I guess
@latinabutterfly96 i agree with you on this one, but the rape mentality is an illness, because no matter how bad i wanted it, i can always pay a girl to fulfill my instincts, or just get it done by myself, in the end of the road there is nothing like a real marriage where a man and a woman become one and can make sex with each other as much as they want and at anytime they want, real love makes sex so beautiful and if the girl gets. pregnant the couple will. celebrate for god giving them a child made. from. their seed of love...😊
its not about humiliating her or teaching boys that she's not a sexual object, its about teaching kids to wear proper clothing, Kids these days are literally too spoiled and bratty kids, they need a lot of discipline in their lives,14 - 16 year olds getting pregnant, wearing slutty clothes, having sex, doing all the things that they should be doing after the age of 18
I remember needing to wear a fucking skirt in Winter as apart of the uniform. A SKIRT. WINTER.
So fucking dumb. Needless to say i showed up in warm pants anyway. Got a couple detentions, but they started giving up and just letting me do it towards the end, lmao.
No, there is appropriate clothing for schools and there is appropriate clothing for elsewhere.
Dress codes are fine as they are. They only effect women because only women see the need to wear clothes with gaping holes or clothing that doesn't cover half their bodies.
Sure this is partly the fault of the clothes manufacturers and them making large amounts of impractical women's clothes but there are practical women's clothes out there.
Men and women are different. And people should understand that and stop screaming sexism at every little thing because it's annoying.
Very disturbing trend
@zellxoxo smart Jaanu :D ❤️
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I live in Europe and I think we don't really have a dress code here, but a classmate went to america for a year and she showed us the dress code of the school she was gonna visit. And is was absolutely ridiculous. Not allowed to show her shoulders? Excuse me? What the fuck? Girls run around in hot pants in summer, so what? Never heard of anyone being "too distracted" to follow. what the teachers say.
So what I think, first regulations suck! Second uniforms are not that great of an answer.
But I also get their point, guys look at girls in a difrent way than girls look at guys, ence the difference. I think girls end up benefited from dressing a bit more conservative but I don't like the idea of it being forced, people can think for themselves and decide how they want to dress
No there is a time and place 4 everything. They're looking to keep the students occupied on learning. It hasn't changed since I was in school, a long long time ago. Girls weren't aloud to wear short shorts then. I can can understand
I still remember it was Hard enough with some wearing tight jeans especially Levis.
No, this is dumb. The same rules apply to guys evenly, guys just dont try to wear shorts with their ass hanging out or crop tops. If they did, they would also be reprimanded for it
It's in no way biased towards women.
I'm pretty sure a boy would be sent home for wearing hot pants and a tube top too.
The thing is, they don't. Girls are the only ones who seem to insist on wearing close to nothing.
I'm strutting around naked, don't sexualise me, you are the problem. (=_= )
There's obviously a line and therefore you can cross it.
It's also not up to you if you're attractive or not you can only *try* to be seen a certain way. It's bewildering how people can interpret being seen as attractive as "shaming."
And no I don't think it's sexist.
Most schools in my country have uniforms so we don't really run into dumb stuff like this.
No. It’s school, not a strip club. It makes sense in every single way
I knew a guy who was elected school president. The rule was no skirts could be above the knee while kneeling. So after he was elected, he had all the girls kneel in front of him, so he could make sure their skirts weren't above their knees. Needless to say, he wasn't president long.
What I dont understand is: Why kneeling? It's the same length either way. If a principal or whoever told me to kneel, I'd tell him to get f*****.
Then I'd call my dad and get mr. Pricipal fired.
Definitely not sex objects... lol
I just realized... if men didn’t objectify women sexually on some level... how would sex even occur at all. It’s not possible to have sex without objectifying the other person sexually on some level.
@Exterminatore what about just sexual attraction?😅 there doesn't need to be objectification
I think what a man would call sexual attraction a woman would call objectification or at least a feminist.
At some point both partners have to think either “I want him/her to pleasure me or I want to pleasure him/her or both.” So that’s objectification. In either case you’re looking at each other as the object and intended source for sexual gratification. Right?
I suppose it possible to completely disconnect from that, say in a case where the wife doesn’t want sex, but will do it for the husband, in which case the objectification goes one way only, also to exclude any forms of sexual assault or rape or prostitution/sex worker.
I mean under typical circumstances.
I think girls should be able to wear whatever they want to a limit. As long as they aren't majorly showing their asses and/or boobs, then they should be fine, and guys who have a problem with it either need to not pay attention to them, or learn to deal with it
I am so sick of this crap. Many girls dress sexually to attract men and then pull this bullshit. You want the freedom to dress how you want without repercussions but there are repercussions in the real world. No amount of education will prevent rape. Dress how you want and deal with the outcome