I don't think they get that much hate.
I do think that if they end up getting short or not-so-tall kids, people are going to be going "hmmm... I wonder who caused that..."
If it's a short daughter, fine. No worries. Life will still be okay.
If it's a short son - he is going to suffer, especially standing next to his very tall Dad. He will be in his own Circle of Hell.
So whenever I see Tall Men + Short Women, I always whisper a little prayer for their kids and hope they end up being as tall like Dad.
They don't, why the hell would you even say that when its patently untrue? The only thing that gets hate is when women, say how they will only date a tall guy and completely reduce him down to that one singular trait. They especially get "hate" when those same women demand that the guy be over six feet tall which is above average height.
Yeah, and that's rather messed up. If that's all that matters that's not particularly good and that's what people, specifically men, have issue with. Its kind of like a guy asking how big your tits are and when you tell him he just tells you never mind he isn't interested. Its really really insulting and demeaning as your saying nothing else matters about them, if the guy for what ever reason shrunk lest say, you would dump him without hesitation, that's what your saying that nothing else matters. Yeah maybe he is a good guy but that's icing on the cake, it really doesn't matter so long as he is tall. Its shallow. So its not about you dating a tall guy, its that you refuse to care about anything else. Again, as an example, its like if your boyfriend tells you he loves you right, but then lets say you have to get a double Mastectomy. He then tells you that he is going to break up with you because your flat chested now and he no longer loves you. Its really messed up and that is precisely the impression a guy gets when a woman refuses to take into account any attribute he has other then height. So like I said, its not liking tall guys that is the issue nor being in a relationship with them, its the fact that it seems like that is all that matters, which is the issue.
@mistixs No, its not. Its a judgment based upon a physical features that you have no control over. We both know that the overwhelming majority of men do not care if a woman is short but we do know that women are constantly bitching about men judging them based upon their looks. I picked an equivalent. Equivalent doesn't mean identical. But then your perfectly aware of that, you just seem to enjoy nitpicking and justifying bad behavior. Don't be shallow, that's the point being made.
Maybe jealousy.
Like, they want a tall boyfriend themselves and therefore get jealous or mad when a short girl has a tall boyfriend. - as a shorter guy might be tall for her as well, and short for the other girl... Did that make sense?
I'm short myself, though I haven't had any hate like that.
Well, because tall women already have fewer options and you just make out life even harder
You only have fewer options because you choose to have fewer options 😂
@SpunkNugget Yeah there's always short guys lol
Yeah, but most girls don't want guys shorter than them
That's your problem not somebody elses
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It makes shorter men feel insecure, and sense men are competitive with each other They want the best mate for themselves. That's why you may see or hear these types of guys bash or shame women for not preferring shorter men or try to make the other guy look less appealing than them.
I noticed this a lot, when ever a bunch of women like a certain type of guy, it makes other men really jealous which is why you hear the "women are shallow or only want to date assholes etc." When the truth is most men like or want a woman who is shorter than them, yes most women are average height and around 5'5 or less but the point is you really don't see shorter or tall dudes really stepping to women who are taller.
Does it never happen? No, there are men out there who like short and tall girls and to them it don't matter but i have asked around and some men have flat out said that if a girl is taller than them they wouldn't feel comfortable with it.
But when it comes down to it all it is, is preferences. And yes generally speaking preferences are shallow, it is what it is but everyone has them but we often don't like it when we're not them and that goes for man and women You don't want to date someone cause of their height-shallow, weight-shallow- skin tone-shallow race-shallow etc. Everyone has a reason to not date or be attracted to someone.
Because they're shallow, these people. I find it out of the ordinary but if they're happy as a couple, I don't care. It's really none of my business. My mother was taller than my father before she passed away. And they would make jokes about it all the time in their marriage. That's just them. *shrugs* I can never find myself to be attracted to shorter guys myself. But I don't respect shaming a person because of what they can't control. But neither am I attracted to guys who is about as tall as a pole either. No more than 5'7 is good for me. I'm not picky. And a lot of them just like coping other people for status. I don't respect that.
I don't see it as cute at all. And I've never heard of them getting any hate or flack. Although that's not my situation. I'd say that women prefer taller men, but think that 5' 5" would be tall enough for someone like you, and you are taking the men that are appropriate for them, not you. And shorter men, who would be tall compared to you, are still bypassed. So they see that as unfair.
I have only seen that hatred here. Some guys here at GaG are emotionally unstable and have very fragile egos. I employed a guy who was like that once.
They project their insecurity onto couples like that. I have seen them argue that they can't get a girl because women only want real tall or big men and they aren't big or some other nonsense.
There just seems to be a growing number of these guys.
Well I wouldn't say that there's NOTHING cuter, but do they get hate? Yeah, because people see the size difference and start thinking "circus freaks" or even "pedophile" (the short girl can look much younger with a tall guy). The sicker people will start to wonder physically how things work. It's not something I would choose, but no hate. You wanted to know why and that's what I've heard.
Well tall girls have less opportunity because guys don’t want their girl to be taller then them. So a short girl (like yourself) with a 6’6” guy has taken someone that they (tall woman) think should be for them. As for guys under 6’ ? I am not sure they would care one way or another.
I'm 5'8 and I prefer guys taller than me. Everyone does. Those girls who are like 4ft should probably get with guys that are 5'5 and leave the 6ft guys to me. It doesn't matter though, I get attention from the short and tall guys. Its nice to have legs to heaven and boobs to match.
I'm 6'5" and i don't care if she's 4'11" or 7 foot tall.
Having said that women 5'5" and show the most interest in me. So it's not an issue of whether i choose them, they choose me.
I can be had but the 5'6" and up women need to step their game up.
People just hate them because they confuse them in terms of their eye line. Any time you see a tiny girl and a huge guy you don't know where to look and you get neck ache trying to have a polite conversation with both of them. Additionally it pisses people off because they don't like seeing all the negative space.
Maybe people just think while it's a nice pair up for two, height-wise if it were more even then more people would have a short/ tall match up even though it's not as drastic? More often than not though it's probably just jealousy same as any couple who someone else wants one of them, and the height difference is what they use against them.
Cause they look ridiculous, I don't get what is cute with having such height different, it look awkward. Personally I think it's better to be around the same height (it don't hurt the neck and you can see your partner face all the time and not their chest all the time).
But maybe that's just cause I prefer good looking men and want to stare at their face all the time (rather than staring at their chest).
I just assume most girls looking at the short girlfriend instantly turn envious and wonder how come she was the "winner" of this grand prize. I am 6' 3'' myself and the one relationship I had was with a 5' girl. We always used to have those looks. In my current search for a soul mate I would prefer a lady with a height of 6' or thereabouts.
While I never really got what was so "cute" about those kinds of couples, I have no problem with it as long as said couple treats taller women or shorter men as human beings instead of treating them spitefully (some of the most vile things said about tall women were from short girls, for example.)
As long as they treat people respectfully, I honestly do not care about their height differences, I tend to prefer taller women myself though.
Most of the time there's no hate but I do think some of the animosity comes from that fact that there are actually very/unusually short women who will only go for dudes who are above average in hight and will not go for another else but that.
Again i'm sorry. . Your assumption is incorrect... Who ever pointed to short girls with tall guys get a lot of hate as a societal norm.
If that exists well the answer is.. Because some people are assholes and can't mind their own business I guess...
That's about it
There is nothing nicer than looking down at so much heart in such a short woman and to have her smile beaming back at you. Love a short Lady over tall.
They do? My fiancee is like 5'6 and I am 6'2. She reaches right under my chin. We never got any jokes from that. I mean I do have to look down and bend my back a little and she has to look up when we kiss, but oh well worth it!
I don't know. Still she looks pretty short next to me.
Well I have heard women prefer men who are taller... Women need men who are strong and who can protect them... I guess in from a lady's point of view a perfect man is tall strong and able to protect himself and her and can make tough decisions... but having said all that I might be wrong too... I have told the above from what I have heard and read in books and stuff... I think being with a tall guy makes a girl feel safe is guess I don't know... Lemme know if u know something I don't
I've never seen much hate, & I'm short. It's just known that women prefer guys taller than them. Science says there's a preferred ratio but from what I've seen female opinion seems to be the taller the better. Taller men are perceived to be better providers, which was true for millions of years. Short guys tend to be meaner because we've had to fight for everything we have & we don't want our women running off with a tall guy, lol.
Actually I'm a short girl around 5'4 and my man is like. 5'8 ..
So actually I love it
It is I think so
But I've seen a lot of tall women.. like 6 ft tall.
I have no idea at all why some people would have a problem with it.
I agree that there's nothing cuter. And those girls are bad asses.
You go, short girl!
Its like this:
Shorter guys feel like short girls should go for them since girls usually want a guy thats taller than them so for you to be with a 6'6 guy is just a 'waste' because he should be with a tall girl who's too tall for the short guys
Thats their logic, i say be with whoever you want to be with
That's weird they would have on u for that, i dont see anything wrong with it , a Girl likes to feel protected and to look up to her man and a guy likes a shorter girl cuz he can feel like he protects her and He likes to dominate her in bed lol
It's mainly jealousy. Tall girls want taller men, short guys want shorter girls, so the way both of them see it is that they could have had a chance with that guy/girl, that somehow they've lost out and that it's unfair. It's a little strange.
Tall women hate because they want the tall men for themselves. Short guys hate because they want the short women for themselves.
@ChiTown33 then why do short men whine all the time
@ChiTown33 a lot of tall guys do want short women
@ChiTown33 and you guys look at boobs and ass first thing.
Why I am invited to question that already chose MHO? 😂😂.. But I honestly have never noticed that.. I mean It's a common thing to see.. Although, maybe sometimes because short girls don't need guys that tall..
I don’t see them getting hate. Maybe online but irl it doesn’t seem to be an issue. My brother is 6’4 and his fiancé is 4’10 and no one has ever said nasty things to them
LOL, no jealousy or hate from me. I prefer tall women anyway!
I'm 5ft and one of my boyfriends was 6'6 girls hated me and guys under 6ft wouldn't stop insulting me if they got the chance. There's no reason other than jealousy.
Didn't know that was an issue. I'm 5'1" and won't date anyone over 6' even for me it just gets physically awkward. That is me personally though never been told that.
"Tall guys and short girls make the cutest couples." Yeah, that's why I'm surrounded with short girls all the time! I'm 6' 9"! Where are MY short girls? Last one I had was 5' 3". That was 18 years ago.
I have yet to see these sorts of couples get any hate. I follow a webcomic called "My Giant Nerd Boyfriend" and it's amazing. I just figured everyone thought they were cute.
The only ‘hate’ I have heard is guys pointing out the hypocrisy of a female who judges a guy’s height but doesn’t think guys have the right to judge her weight, chest size, butt.
Do not care about society. Date him. Because when I was dating my boyfriend I need to show everyone my id because they say I am a kid. I am almost going to police station or people do not believe me. Jeez everyone thinks my parents are my siblings
nah this is cuter.
I've never seen it?
I've only seen one girl that i know of thats like 4’10 and it looks like she's dating her dad, their heigth difference looks odd because he's like a guy in the pics but thats all
I didn't know they got hate? lol. I had a roommate who was like 4'9" and her boyfriend was like 6'. Everyone thought they were cute af.
"So much hate" uh... what hate, where, from who? I don't see any hate at that. Big guy with small girl is normal and what most people want.
... So...
I don't think they get hate but I disagree. If anything its probably much more convenient being closer in height for obvious reasons.
Personally I think large height gaps look awkward. It's not like I care though.
I'm all for it... my boyfriend 6'5 and I'm 5'5 lol. Makes me feel protected I love it and don't care what people think
It's cute but it's not something anyone needs to set as a goal. There are way more important things in a relationship!
For guys under 6 ft, I guess it just confirms what they've heard about "I can't a girl because they're only going after tall guys."
Because women are obsessed with height and even the really short girls want a tall guy. It's annoying when even hobbit-sized women want the guy to be 6ft+.
Most of those guys are like 6'6" lol Every girl is gonna look small
But yeah these couples are adorable. I love the shorties. Never had a girlfriend who was taller than 5'3"
I wasn't aware this was an issue. I think women are just jealous of any other woman with a tall man because ALL women want a tall man.
Then short guys are jealous because they are pretty much starved of love since no woman wants them.
I'm 5'0 & I think pairings with a super tall guy, look kinda weird, but it's not deserving of hate
I’ve never heard of this. So weird. I’m 5’7” and have no problem finding tall guys. I’ve seen shorter girls than with really tall girls and I couldn’t care less.
*tall guys
It's probably they see a tall man with a short woman as more common place than vice versa. They would throw their weight towards a tall man.
I dated a girl that was 6,5 and I'm 6"1. The best part we could fit in each others clothes. A crossdressers dream
They only get hate from short men because they feel they’re missing out 🤣 I’m 5’7” and want 6 feet men! Don’t care what anyone says! 🤣👍
Sucks to be you then. Most 6 foot tall men would think you are too tall to be attractive. 6 foot tall men want petite attractive short girls, not giant ogre women who are nearly as tall as he is.
*sarcasm*
@devilman666 lol okay. 😄
Everyone need love and they tend to look cute, although am average height
Do they? My grandma was 158cm / 5,2 feet and grandad abit over 200cm /6,5 feet.
Short guys with tall girls usually get way more hate tho. My boyfriend is way taller than me and people adore it.
I’d prefer a tall woman. You short girls are a literal pain in the neck from looking down to you and stuff.
Couples like who they like. Fuck outside opinion and scoffing. You chose each other. That is all that matters, StingRayxoxo.
Maybe they are jealous? I haven't noticed these responses when with our daughter who is over a foot shorter than our son-in-law.
I don't hate them, tbh I am reminded of circus clowns when I look at them. Do you hate clowns? I doubt it, it's good that they found each other
Because it gives people the idea that being small as a guy or tall as a girl makes you unworthy of a good relationship or beinf part of a cute couple.
Most people don't care either way, unless the couple is the type to constantly bang on about how great their relationship that gets old really fast.
But I've never seen this happening.
My best friends are this kind of couple.
They're cute, but it's just so typical.
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