I don't think they get that much hate.
I do think that if they end up getting short or not-so-tall kids, people are going to be going "hmmm... I wonder who caused that..."
If it's a short daughter, fine. No worries. Life will still be okay.
If it's a short son - he is going to suffer, especially standing next to his very tall Dad. He will be in his own Circle of Hell.
So whenever I see Tall Men + Short Women, I always whisper a little prayer for their kids and hope they end up being as tall like Dad.
They don't, why the hell would you even say that when its patently untrue? The only thing that gets hate is when women, say how they will only date a tall guy and completely reduce him down to that one singular trait. They especially get "hate" when those same women demand that the guy be over six feet tall which is above average height.
Maybe jealousy.
Like, they want a tall boyfriend themselves and therefore get jealous or mad when a short girl has a tall boyfriend. - as a shorter guy might be tall for her as well, and short for the other girl... Did that make sense?
I'm short myself, though I haven't had any hate like that.
Well, because tall women already have fewer options and you just make out life even harder
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It makes shorter men feel insecure, and sense men are competitive with each other They want the best mate for themselves. That's why you may see or hear these types of guys bash or shame women for not preferring shorter men or try to make the other guy look less appealing than them.
I noticed this a lot, when ever a bunch of women like a certain type of guy, it makes other men really jealous which is why you hear the "women are shallow or only want to date assholes etc." When the truth is most men like or want a woman who is shorter than them, yes most women are average height and around 5'5 or less but the point is you really don't see shorter or tall dudes really stepping to women who are taller.
Does it never happen? No, there are men out there who like short and tall girls and to them it don't matter but i have asked around and some men have flat out said that if a girl is taller than them they wouldn't feel comfortable with it.
But when it comes down to it all it is, is preferences. And yes generally speaking preferences are shallow, it is what it is but everyone has them but we often don't like it when we're not them and that goes for man and women You don't want to date someone cause of their height-shallow, weight-shallow- skin tone-shallow race-shallow etc. Everyone has a reason to not date or be attracted to someone.
Because they're shallow, these people. I find it out of the ordinary but if they're happy as a couple, I don't care. It's really none of my business. My mother was taller than my father before she passed away. And they would make jokes about it all the time in their marriage. That's just them. *shrugs* I can never find myself to be attracted to shorter guys myself. But I don't respect shaming a person because of what they can't control. But neither am I attracted to guys who is about as tall as a pole either. No more than 5'7 is good for me. I'm not picky. And a lot of them just like coping other people for status. I don't respect that.
I don't see it as cute at all. And I've never heard of them getting any hate or flack. Although that's not my situation. I'd say that women prefer taller men, but think that 5' 5" would be tall enough for someone like you, and you are taking the men that are appropriate for them, not you. And shorter men, who would be tall compared to you, are still bypassed. So they see that as unfair.
I have only seen that hatred here. Some guys here at GaG are emotionally unstable and have very fragile egos. I employed a guy who was like that once.
They project their insecurity onto couples like that. I have seen them argue that they can't get a girl because women only want real tall or big men and they aren't big or some other nonsense.
There just seems to be a growing number of these guys.
Well I wouldn't say that there's NOTHING cuter, but do they get hate? Yeah, because people see the size difference and start thinking "circus freaks" or even "pedophile" (the short girl can look much younger with a tall guy). The sicker people will start to wonder physically how things work. It's not something I would choose, but no hate. You wanted to know why and that's what I've heard.
Well tall girls have less opportunity because guys don’t want their girl to be taller then them. So a short girl (like yourself) with a 6’6” guy has taken someone that they (tall woman) think should be for them. As for guys under 6’ ? I am not sure they would care one way or another.
I'm 5'8 and I prefer guys taller than me. Everyone does. Those girls who are like 4ft should probably get with guys that are 5'5 and leave the 6ft guys to me. It doesn't matter though, I get attention from the short and tall guys. Its nice to have legs to heaven and boobs to match.
I'm 6'5" and i don't care if she's 4'11" or 7 foot tall.
Having said that women 5'5" and show the most interest in me. So it's not an issue of whether i choose them, they choose me.
I can be had but the 5'6" and up women need to step their game up.
People just hate them because they confuse them in terms of their eye line. Any time you see a tiny girl and a huge guy you don't know where to look and you get neck ache trying to have a polite conversation with both of them. Additionally it pisses people off because they don't like seeing all the negative space.
Maybe people just think while it's a nice pair up for two, height-wise if it were more even then more people would have a short/ tall match up even though it's not as drastic? More often than not though it's probably just jealousy same as any couple who someone else wants one of them, and the height difference is what they use against them.
I just assume most girls looking at the short girlfriend instantly turn envious and wonder how come she was the "winner" of this grand prize. I am 6' 3'' myself and the one relationship I had was with a 5' girl. We always used to have those looks. In my current search for a soul mate I would prefer a lady with a height of 6' or thereabouts.
While I never really got what was so "cute" about those kinds of couples, I have no problem with it as long as said couple treats taller women or shorter men as human beings instead of treating them spitefully (some of the most vile things said about tall women were from short girls, for example.)
As long as they treat people respectfully, I honestly do not care about their height differences, I tend to prefer taller women myself though.
Most of the time there's no hate but I do think some of the animosity comes from that fact that there are actually very/unusually short women who will only go for dudes who are above average in hight and will not go for another else but that.
Again i'm sorry. . Your assumption is incorrect... Who ever pointed to short girls with tall guys get a lot of hate as a societal norm.
If that exists well the answer is.. Because some people are assholes and can't mind their own business I guess...
That's about it
Cause they look ridiculous, I don't get what is cute with having such height different, it look awkward. Personally I think it's better to be around the same height (it don't hurt the neck and you can see your partner face all the time and not their chest all the time).
But maybe that's just cause I prefer good looking men and want to stare at their face all the time (rather than staring at their chest).
There is nothing nicer than looking down at so much heart in such a short woman and to have her smile beaming back at you. Love a short Lady over tall.
They do? My fiancee is like 5'6 and I am 6'2. She reaches right under my chin. We never got any jokes from that. I mean I do have to look down and bend my back a little and she has to look up when we kiss, but oh well worth it!
Well I have heard women prefer men who are taller... Women need men who are strong and who can protect them... I guess in from a lady's point of view a perfect man is tall strong and able to protect himself and her and can make tough decisions... but having said all that I might be wrong too... I have told the above from what I have heard and read in books and stuff... I think being with a tall guy makes a girl feel safe is guess I don't know... Lemme know if u know something I don't
I've never seen much hate, & I'm short. It's just known that women prefer guys taller than them. Science says there's a preferred ratio but from what I've seen female opinion seems to be the taller the better. Taller men are perceived to be better providers, which was true for millions of years. Short guys tend to be meaner because we've had to fight for everything we have & we don't want our women running off with a tall guy, lol.
Actually I'm a short girl around 5'4 and my man is like. 5'8 ..
So actually I love it
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