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Tough one. Society says to let a woman hit you. Legally I think you can defend yourself. But only enough to get away. If you beat the shit out of a woman you’re going to jail. But all this really doesn’t matter because most violence is men against women.
Unfortunately a woman can injure herself beating the fucking tar out of a guy who does not fight back and because she hurt herself assaulting you, you both still go to jail. She gets leniency... This is one of those areas where women get to enjoy special treatment and that will not likely ever change in spite if a certain 'movement' claiming to desire equality. Uh huh...
No he should allow her to beat him to death otherwise he is a sexist Harvey Weinstein Bill Cosby a******. LOLOLOL! IS THIS REALLY THE WORLD WE LIVE IN? The kindest men towards women in all history are being treated like s*** because the previous generations were assholes. I do not think that is right.
If she is violent then absolutely, having a vagina does not automatically mean you are a fragile creature, if they are aggressive, abusive and violent yo someone else then they can take that and a man should have every right to defend himself to the necessary extent. But naturally violence shouldn't be the answer, but if there's no alternative then everyone has that right to defend themselves, your genitals have no reflection on someone's ability to be violent
I have 2 good friends he's 6'3in good shape , she's 5'3 , she tends to the mouthy side when angry, I've seen her going off and snacking him insulting him, once she hit him hard enough to bruise and one of their kids called the cops, it was a priceless look when the cops realised it wasn't him hitting her, and yes they arrested her. I've seen him restrain her I think you do what you can do to be safe.
A women ones went all nuts on me and was kicking and punching me. I did not hit back. But I lifted her up and trow her in some bushes. She did not get hurt, but she had a hard time getting out of the bushes. By that time I was long gone from that crazy idiot.
Legally, the guy is screwed anyway. If he's gonna do time when she wants to act like a man, might as well treat her like one and a really do something for the judge to send him away for
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I think to try and stop her for sure a little force. But I don't think there's a need to actually hit back. Unless it's so extreme that you can't get away from her for some reason and it's necessary out of self defense. But man or woman, I don't think anyone should hit anyone.
I'll defend myself from anyone, I don't care if it's a 4 year old chemo kid, some buff bodybuilder, and old lady with crippling skeletal fluorosis, a mad space marine, or a blind armed robber, I will certainly TRY to defend myself from all of them, to varying degrees
That would be 100% your call of judgement. If she’s just going HAM on you the hey, do what you have to do to get out. I’m not saying fight her but try to get away from her.
I’m not sure what star your in, but you also have to take in consideration that in MANY states/cities even if the woman hits first the male will always be viewed as a suspect especially if you’re big and she’s small. It’s best that you have cameras and tons of evidence otherwise it’s hard for a grown man to claim self defense especially from a woman.
Idc who it is, if I'm even being chased violently then I'm either using my muscles, or if it's a male then I'm using my taser to warn them to stay away, maybe even both but I'm defending myself one way or another...
God of Thunder pretty much nailed it. Taking care of yourself with reasonable force is fair; punching out a girl half your size is not reasonable. Most guys can easily restrain most girls in whatever circumstances are causing them to go bonkers.
Re update - not really. If you’re a “trained” fighter and still need to hit a girl half your size to protect yourself, you need to find a better trainer
But that right isn't unique to a man, everyone possess that right to self defense. Whether that individual can successfully defend themselves though is a whole other question.
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Tough one. Society says to let a woman hit you. Legally I think you can defend yourself. But only enough to get away. If you beat the shit out of a woman you’re going to jail. But all this really doesn’t matter because most violence is men against women.
Everyone has the right to defend themselves, regardless of the gender of the attacker.
Unfortunately a woman can injure herself beating the fucking tar out of a guy who does not fight back and because she hurt herself assaulting you, you both still go to jail. She gets leniency... This is one of those areas where women get to enjoy special treatment and that will not likely ever change in spite if a certain 'movement' claiming to desire equality. Uh huh...
Anyone being hit should have the right to self defence. That said, it shouldn't be a case of "you hit me I'll beat shit out of you"...
Yes, but only reasonable force.
When she hits you you put her down untill she calms down to prevent injuries to you or herself, if you see that any more coming.
NOT when she hits you once and not intend to hit you anymore or hits you playfully and you brake her jaw for it, for that is very long jail sentence.
No he should allow her to beat him to death otherwise he is a sexist Harvey Weinstein Bill Cosby a******.
LOLOLOL!
IS THIS REALLY THE WORLD WE LIVE IN?
The kindest men towards women in all history are being treated like s*** because the previous generations were assholes. I do not think that is right.
If she is violent then absolutely, having a vagina does not automatically mean you are a fragile creature, if they are aggressive, abusive and violent yo someone else then they can take that and a man should have every right to defend himself to the necessary extent. But naturally violence shouldn't be the answer, but if there's no alternative then everyone has that right to defend themselves, your genitals have no reflection on someone's ability to be violent
If you can avoid it, that'll be optimal.
However, I can't blame you if she started the fight & went berserk on you.
I have 2 good friends he's 6'3in good shape , she's 5'3 , she tends to the mouthy side when angry, I've seen her going off and snacking him insulting him, once she hit him hard enough to bruise and one of their kids called the cops, it was a priceless look when the cops realised it wasn't him hitting her, and yes they arrested her. I've seen him restrain her I think you do what you can do to be safe.
A women ones went all nuts on me and was kicking and punching me. I did not hit back. But I lifted her up and trow her in some bushes. She did not get hurt, but she had a hard time getting out of the bushes. By that time I was long gone from that crazy idiot.
How did you lift a woman with your hands? Who are you? Hulk? 😂
I'm not from America so woman around here thend to be healthy and not big and fat, so it's no problem lifting a woman in Europe
You can defend yourself against anyone. Try not to overdo though or else your martial arts becomes a weapon and you can get charged.
Example: If a weaker dude/average Joe smacks you but your life was never in danger then beating him to a pulp would obviously be excessive.
I think same concept should applied if the other guy is a lot weaker or untrained... not just with women.
Legally, the guy is screwed anyway. If he's gonna do time when she wants to act like a man, might as well treat her like one and a really do something for the judge to send him away for
I think to try and stop her for sure a little force. But I don't think there's a need to actually hit back. Unless it's so extreme that you can't get away from her for some reason and it's necessary out of self defense. But man or woman, I don't think anyone should hit anyone.
Yes they do, but it's sad because I'd still recommend getting out because a lot of times men get blamed for attacking even when it was self defense
I'll defend myself from anyone, I don't care if it's a 4 year old chemo kid, some buff bodybuilder, and old lady with crippling skeletal fluorosis, a mad space marine, or a blind armed robber, I will certainly TRY to defend myself from all of them, to varying degrees
That would be 100% your call of judgement. If she’s just going HAM on you the hey, do what you have to do to get out. I’m not saying fight her but try to get away from her.
I’m not sure what star your in, but you also have to take in consideration that in MANY states/cities even if the woman hits first the male will always be viewed as a suspect especially if you’re big and she’s small. It’s best that you have cameras and tons of evidence otherwise it’s hard for a grown man to claim self defense especially from a woman.
Sorry for the typos I meant STATE not star.
Idc who it is, if I'm even being chased violently then I'm either using my muscles, or if it's a male then I'm using my taser to warn them to stay away, maybe even both but I'm defending myself one way or another...
Yeah definitely, has the right to defend to protect ourselves 💯
God of Thunder pretty much nailed it.
Taking care of yourself with reasonable force is fair; punching out a girl half your size is not reasonable. Most guys can easily restrain most girls in whatever circumstances are causing them to go bonkers.
Re update - not really. If you’re a “trained” fighter and still need to hit a girl half your size to protect yourself, you need to find a better trainer
While she was high, my friend's ex attacked him with a knife while he was asleep in bed. Repeatedly.
He had to actually knock her out. He held her arms down until the cops came, all the while bleeding from his back, legs, and hand.
Yes, I think it's okay to defend yourself by hitting a woman who is attacking you.
Short answer yes.
But that right isn't unique to a man, everyone possess that right to self defense. Whether that individual can successfully defend themselves though is a whole other question.