Is pedophilia/rape worse than murder?

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This is probably a weird question, but yea. explain why or why not you agree or disagree.

Pers I don't think murder is as much of a big deal as people make it out to be. Your life ends. That's it. By force yea. But in the end you don't suffer that long. You just die. And living isn't that much of a big deal. it's not that great. We all die anyway. The only people who suffer are your loved ones. They will grieve you. They will be angry that you were murdered. But that's about it.

But rape and pedophilia (especially pedophilia) are extremely horrible things to live through that break you inside to a point where you can't function normally, likely for years and years. probably decades after. You'll suffer horribly every single day. You'll likely have ptsd, and many other mental disorders at the same time. Maybe even shit like bipolar disorder or DID if you were abused as a kid. Even therapy can't really help you that much. It's hard. It's not just a quick fix. It's ultimately better to be dead than be alive and suffer for your whole life.

worldscolide · Accepted Answer

As a victim of child sexual abuse, i will say that murder is worse. Not only was a life ended, so was all of the contributions to society that that person could have made, the family that person could have raised, the life that person could have impacted. Its not just the end of a life, it takes away everything that the person could have done, good or bad. I especially hate people who murder children.. Mostly mothers that do this by the way..

While i won't say i am over what happened to me as a child, the thing i did learn from Therapy, is that moving past an issue is largely a choice. Living in the past, the way a lot of victims do, is not productive, and its a matter of choice. To live life to the fullest you must live life in the future. One of the things i remember from therapy groups is the people talking about triggers. Things that trigger bad feelings and other things.. I remember thinking to my self "these people almost act like they want to be a victim, like it some how defines them as a person" Suffice it to say i decided that i didn't want to be like them so i chose to move on.

loveslongnails · Accepted Answer

Yeah, it's a weird question. I think murder is worse. Your life is gone.
Rape and being abused as a child is obviously not good, and terribly traumatic. BUT... you are alive and you CAN overcome it, or at least have a shot at it. You "can" learn to deal with it, and live with it. I know two women who were raped. One is a bit closed up, but the other is very affectionate and sexual. She told me "I'm not gonna let that bastard ruin my life. Fuck him and what he did". She's a strong girl. The other not so much when it comes to affection, but both are very successful in their careers. I'm sure they prefer being alive than being raped and murdered.

kyliesz · Accepted Answer

Not everyone thinks that life isn’t worth living. Murder is taking someones life away its an awful thing. You only have one life ONE and someone is taking that away from you taking away all the feelings all the experiences and all your dreams away from you. Taking away the ability to see beautiful places in the world and the nature. Murder is awful and there is no way of turning it back.

flashpoint453 · Accepted Answer

They are both horrible ik a lot of people who have died by murder and I don't think we should be saying one is worse than the other because they are both equally as horrible in my opinion and should both be punished

user66345667 · Answer

Your life ends. That's it. By force yea. But in the end you don't suffer that long" you think that all murder is peaceful? most murders are actually painful and some die after hours of misery. Go to bestgore. com this is full of real killings and accidents, once you see how a lot of deaths occur in gang fights, cartel fights, and just plain normal criminal or accidental killing, you will change your mind about murder. A lot of young people talk like they are brave as fuck about death, yet they are afraid to go up to the cashier to ask for more ketchup. Now to answer your question, both are just as bad, one dies physically through hopefully quick death and all the emotional pain that will be caused for the families. The other also dies but psychologically, they will be scarred for the rest of their life.

AdithyaR · Answer

It's hard to decide cause they are all horrible evils.
But I'd say murder would be worst as you take away everything the person, their future, their life and everything.
Rape, no matter how horrible, the victim can seek justice and hopefully recover.
But still I can't properly choose one to be the worst.

Anonymous · Answer

As someone who found themselves on the receiving end of sexual violence by a much older homosexual male while I was a teenager, being dead would be a lot, lot worse.

But I can't really express that, because the silent majority like me, who simply get over it are crucified by the society for not fitting the image of a permanently psychologically crippled sexual violence victim that the society needs as ammo to justify its crusade against sexual violence.
In the better case you are assumed to be so psychologically crippled that you are in denial about it, in the worse case you are called a liar who is simply trying to defend rapists.

The reality is that the impact of sexual violence is greatly overstated by the society, and people like me (who in reality comprise the statistical majority) never even come out about it, and when they do, they are swept under the rug out of empathy for the few who suffer major issues from it.

Anonymous · Answer

I couldn't disagree more lol. If its a choice between rape and murder please RAPE me now. I actually don't think it'd be all that bad. I'd get over it in an afternoon. I can block out anything. In fact I'd choose rape over something like a punch to the head.

Anonymous · Answer

It's hard to say. I would say my child sexual abuse instance was pretty bad, but i'm glad i didn't die. I went through a years jerking away from people who touched me and to this day feel very uncomfortable with some comments that are usually nbd, but i wouldn't choose death over what i went through.

RustyTinCan · Answer

That's honestly a tough question to answer as all three are extremely reprehensible. I will say this: whereas pedophilia/rape is always wrong, murder can be a little more complicated. We can all agree that murdering without provocation or some sort of just cause is a serious moral transgression, but there are justified cases such as self defense or murdering child molesters.

AngelLily · Answer

You know violent murder exist most Murders are violent? Also I'm pretty shore most logical human beings would rather live with problems then to have everything taken away from them also therapy can definitely help there's many people born with mental disorders and still have a life🙄🤦🏼‍♀️

Anonymous · Answer

No, simply because you can move past and heal from rape and abuse, and you can not move past or rape from murder.

there are countless rape victims who have moved on with their lives and are ding OK. There are people who were victims of pedophiles who have grown up, gotten married, and have happy lives and families.

There has never been a single murder victim in the history of humanity who has gotten over it, moved on, and proceeded to live a calm/peaceful/secure/happy life.

hammeronfire · Answer

i think that it is because of the psychological trauma that will follow the victim for their entire life. i mean, there's times when the victims end up not being able to take it anymore and... well yanno. dont get me wrong they are both terrible, but i think that is worse

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Having been raped as a child as well as having my mothers boyfriend try to kill me, I can safely say I prefer to be raped and alive then be dead. Dead is always worse because their is no coming back from it.

Kaneki05 · Answer

I would rather be killed than for that to happen to me again.
When you die you cease to be, this means you no longer think about anything, that's better than thinking about something that hurt you for your the rest of your life.

adam0 · Answer

they are both equally the worst all and all but if murder was only for a really good reason or for revenge because they killed someone for example, its acceptable. But for pedos, ill have them strangled by a rope, slicing and ripping their skin off and having them rot away in flames and blown away by the winds

DanaeAdam5 · Answer

Yes it is.  As a victim of sexual assault my personal opinion is that I would rather get murdered than get raped.

MeatPuppet · Answer

Yes. You can justify murder in extreme circumstances. But you can never justify rape.

TienShenhan · Answer

It depends. Murdering an innocent is worse than rape, murdering a rapist is neutral.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

I'd say if rape goes into the direction of brutal torture its worse than murder

Hyper2 · Answer

I think murder is worse, but I can see how some would think otherwise.

OddBeMe · Answer

I would say it’s worse for victims psychologically. Dead people don’t get depressed.

Stormdoğan · Answer

Ithink just as bad. By the way Phedophilia alone is not a crime. Child abuse is.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes or at least as worse.  Hard to say: which is worse physical or mental death?

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