I cannot stop thinking about the Junko furuta case. Pleasssseeeee I need help?

[Anonymous]

( for those of you who don't know, junko was a 16 yo japanese girl who was raped and tortured in the most unimaginable way for 44 days... though I wouldn't recommend reading about it as its just too much to bear, if you want, I'd recommend to search google for junko furuta and read the Japanese Insider page and the ranker. com page which shows up in the search results) I read about the junko furuta rape and torture case 2 days ago. Since then, I haven't been able to sleep properly or think about anything else. I know it's senseless, but I feel guilty whenever I'm happy because I'm enjoying my life when a 16 year old girl died in the most horrible way possible. I can't stop thinking about her, and feel like reading about the case again and again, and I cry everytime I read it. What can I do to get it out of my head? Ps: I'm not usually soooo sensitive, but this is really too much for me. Also, no, by the grace of God I've never faced any kind of sexual assault.

[Godofmyownwurld]

You're compassionate and your human empathy is working properly. That's a really great quality and you should never lose that, but at the same time you can't let it rule your life. Remember that bad things happen, but also good things😄

Try donating to a charity for abused women, raise awareness, challenge anyone who tries to sweep sexual abuse under the rug or act like its not a big deal. You should feel grateful and motivated for change✊ not guilty or unworthy. Hugs💞

[Asker]

Thank youuuu so much ♥️
This is very comforting to hear.

[Godofmyownwurld]

Your welcome😊

[iamhere4you]

I know this incident. I was very impressed when I first read it. one can't stop asking where was god when that girl was there

[JimboGB]

It takes a little more depth behind your thoughts.

[iamhere4you]

@JimboGB believe me I thought so much

[Anonymous]

There are all sorts of awful things that have happened, if you dwell on it you will destroy yourself.

You can't change what happened and allowing it to destroy your life just makes it worse and that is a choice you are making.

Do something else, focus on something else.

[Bananaman177]

Rape is a very serious problem in Japan, but it can't be addressed because of the massive racial disparity among perpetrators. Ultimately, racism is a greater taboo than sexism, it would appear.

[pluto1]

I have briefly read about this and it is disturbing, I had to skip over some parts.

Maybe read about some positive stories. You shouldn't read these disturbing stories, but it can be an experience which can make you more aware of your own safety, maybe a good time to exercise, and become more aware of your surroundings

[JimboGB]

You should guard your heart, mind and soul against the outside world and what thoughts and images you allow into your conscious. Images of rape and torture aren't quite accentuating the positive but highlighting the negative emotion, which I suggest is a foolish idea if you don't have solutions.

[Kaneki05]

I mean if your like that probably shouldn't read or look into this stuff it may help. I am desensitized to all this stuff. Was truly awful tho and the worst part is the criminals who did are walking free now apart from 1 he was re arrested i think.

[TienShenhan]

Just focus on positivity for a while. Watch baby animal compilations on youtube. Or "Bob Ross Happy Little Clouds remix." That makes anyone smile

[Asker]

Thank you so much! That really helps to get it out of my mind for a while.

[TienShenhan]

Of course. There is a lot of evil in the world, and a lot of good. You become what you think about often

[SuccessfulHornDog]

You have to take a break from it and distract yourself so it doesn't end up doing damage to you.

Its an awful thing and it can have negative impacts on people who dwell on it

[joeldalton]

Stop reading the case, and start reading some good news.

[Girther10]

One thing that might help distract you is sex, or if not available, porn, and time to distract yourself with it...😎

[Agape93]

Stop reading it and watch baby seal videos

[Anonymous]

Hey forget it, it happened a long time ago.

[Anonymous]

that sounds hot.

[Asker]

People like you should die