
Is it rape if she gets knowingly passed-out drunk?


If a person has to ask these mundane idiotic questions in order to know if they are doing something inappropriate, wrong, or illegal, then being incapable of making a determination of whether or not you have a right to have a certain kind of contact with someone this should be a no-brainer if she's not conscious then you shouldn't be doing anything to her if she didn't ask you or invite you in you shouldn't be in everything you do say think and respond to you is raped because you do not know what rape isn't so I will tell you what rape isn't if she says let's make love let's be intimate let's do this and you go ahead and do it then that's not right because she is giving you her consent if she's not conscious and she has not giving you her cassette so yes, it's rape. anything you do to her body against her will anything you do to her body without her knowledge or her consent that's you got raped and called assault you caught whatever you want but you shouldn't be doing it.
Let's try different approach here anyone who asks the question if it's rape the answer is automatically yes. If you do not know definitively that she wants you to do something to her or with her and you're thinking about doing it anyway it's rape there's no way you can be asking this question without contemplating doing something bad to someone, because no one who has consent to do something is going to be asking this kind of question.
You better dust off the old pitchfork and torch, Because you got a lot of work ahead of you.🖕
Read the file. Here's what actually happened.
He got convicted, appealed, lost the appeal, and then got the appeal over turned by pointing out that the wording of that particular law is poor and says "mental incapacitation" must be involuntary. The file notes that when these definitions were communicated to the jury, they were not conveyed accurately as written, and legally that's considered an error. At the time, the jury ruled against the guy based on how the law should be rather than how it is -- but that still entitles him to a new trial. He was *not* let go or found not guilty, he is being given a new trial and it's specifically stated that the legislature is entitled to correct the wording of the law if felt necessary.
So if the law isn't amended, and he gets the conviction overturned, then you can complain. Otherwise, it seems like a poorly worded law is being fixed because the poor wording was pointed out when someone attempted to exploit it. Mistakes were made, but we have every reason to believe the correct judgement will be arrived at again.
This makes a lot of sense.
Passed out drunk, yes. That is absolutely rape as you're taking advantage of an unconscious person.
A little drunk... Well it depends but I'd say no, I've slept with a guy who I wouldn't have slept with if I had been sober at the time but does that mean he raped me? No. In that moment, at that time, I consented and it would be amoral of me to pursue legal action when:
a) He was just as drunk.
b) He did not deliberately get me drunk.
c) Although I didn't initially invite his advances, I didn't resist them either. I knew what was happening and I let it happen.
Don't stay silent if you're uncomfortable during or before sex and think deeply before accusing someone for something as serious as rape.
Sooo, if you passed out and I shot you to death is it murder? Hell, no one told you to get pissy drunk and say you hate your life, I wish I was dead while under the influence of an intoxicating drink and then pass out. Hell, he said he wanted to die, so I shot the MF! Annd, now, I'm being called a murder instead of psychiatrist (No offense to the Psychiatrist of the world) Just trying to make a point. If someone is not capable of a mutual agreement to do something it is what it is..."Rape" "Murder" "Theft" Whatever!
Exactly!
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I personally do not agree with Minnesota's ruling and think it is wrong, but it is technically a valid ruling. Unfortunately rape is a state by state matter. Most laws are. Each state can define what it legally considers rape. The military always taught us that a drunk/otherwise impaired person cannot give consent and most states hold this to be true, but according to Minnesota Supreme Court, this is not the case. Another thing that sucks is that the U. S. Supreme Court would probably not take this up because this is not a matter of Constitutional Rights. However, whether or not consent can be given is a separate matter from a person having common sense. Yes, it is very wrong for anyone to sexual take advantage of someone who is drunk, but at the same time it is common sense that you lose your wits and ability to defend yourself when you are impaired. That is not a pass to be taken advantage of, but reality is criminals do not care about laws and law enforcement/courts are imperfect and each individual is ultimately responsible for their own personal safety.
irregardless of what hook up culture says NO MEANS NO! Idc if the women that disagree with that say otherwise. We need to live in a society where we take people at their word and move with the information given. The chase game/fantasy being fulfilled for some women is not worth the cost of rape for the ones who didn't want that. The cost is too high. Rape has to be at the top of worst things that can happen to anybody right up there with murder. Some might say they'd rather be murdered than raped. I for one think rape is the most horrible thing anyone could experience. I'm not a woman but as a man I would be broken if I was raped. The idea of getting locked up and raped in prison is a huge fear of mine. I've always stayed on the right side of the law. But I have seen guys who were locked up for one reason or another that didn't belong there and so the idea horrifies me to my bones.
In the old days women took some responsibility... what do I mean by that? Instead of going to hang out with horny men by themselves and then getting 'surprised' if 100% of those men aren't saints, she would go with female FRIENDS who looked out for her and didn't let her be alone with guys. But a lot of modern women believe that every random man is 100% responsible for her and she's not responsible for anything.
Now some read that and will want to claim that I'm saying it's okay to rape somebody. That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying: do stupid things, win stupid prizes.
23 rapists in the house so far. Just because someone gets drunk doesn’t mean you should have the right to rape them. What is someone takes medicine that makes them back out- do they deserve to be raped too? Or what if they are injured and knocked out? Should they be raped?
Just a clarification question,
A guy and a girl goto bar both drink and are semi conscious they decide to have sex and while in the act she passes out now the next day she doesn't remember that she consented for it would that be rape?
@Aakash_Hangargi The moment she passes out you stopped? Or did she wake up with bruised pussy because you kept fucking her?
It's an imaginary question
@Aakash_Hangargi its an ethical question. and a possibility you could be faced with. what would do hypothetically?
Honestly I wouldn't do anything a drunk person. Drop them home if possible thats all.
Who the fuck will take the risk and I don't drink so I am safe 😂🍻.
Yeah I understand its ethical question and could possibly happen
To those (so far) 25 guys who voted A, all I can say is I'm quite certain you've either never had a girlfriend or no longer do. What girls would ever want to be with self-entitled guys like you? Truth be known you all have no sexual lovemaking skills whatsoever, don't know how to please a girl sexually therefore you resort to rape fantasies !
lmao, so these were all clean-cut conservative girls that got forced to drink, kidnapped, and magically end-ed up raped every time. If she passed out before starting I agree it's not consensual. If she passes-out during? not good either. But everyone knows women are more open to sex when drinking. The problem here is a he said vs she said, or get you ant-rape prenup prior.
Next, they'll say that pedophilia isn't a crime. To compare.
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Can a child willingly and knowledgeably give consent? Nope.
Can a woman who has passed out willing & knowledgeably give consent? Nope.
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Some may say that the woman knowingly got drunk. Not necessarily. Some people can hold their liquor far better than others and that's not including date-rape drugs.
Well the ones that would argue pedophilia is a sexual orientation would be the liberals
In Western culture? I doubt that. Liberals should fight the oppressive ideology that they are welcoming in. Conservatives in America are the traditional liberals seeking to preserving the founding liberal principles. "Liberals" in America are more akin to socialist utopians
Nowadays that's called victim blaming and you should educate your son's not to rape because of course they otherwise would.
The court presumably took the view that if you put yourself in harm's way, completely unprotected, bad things may happen to you because the world is a bad place.
I find it highly unlikely that they said or implied she deserved to get raped.
But that’s not what the text from the case says.
https://casetext.com/case/state-v-khalil-6
So which is right, your headline or the court records of the case?
Yeah but they convicted him.
The court were arguing to keep the sentence in place, his lawyers or him, were going down the length of using sentence grammar.
The court charged him at the start, fought the case and won, he remained sentenced
Of course. And even if she talked to you about having sex before she blacked out still and 100% wanted it, it's still rape. Which can cause problems i guess if the woman actaully did it want and was just having sex like people when they go out for a drunk one night stand.
Well I mean in the UK if a girl is under the influence she legally cannot consent to sex so... I personally disagree with this because while it basically gives a clear cut rule regarding drunken sex and date rape etc. It also opens the door for retroactive withdrawal of consent. Such as waking up next to someone you thought was good looking the night before but in hindsight not so much the following morning. Or, situations where a girl sees her friends a few days later and they either make fun of her for going home with a guy that wasn't that attractive to them or basically say she made a bad decision.
While I think that this is definitely raping since there's no consent from the blacked out person and it's a horrible act, why would you get so drunk that you pass out?
It's revolting to me that there's a couple hours passing by while I don't know what's happening to me or what am I doing. Is that just me? Am I the weird one? Turns my stomach upside down just thinking about being so wasted that I'm completely on the whims of someone else (s), friend or stranger.
Definitely not, I'm just wondering why someone would waste themselves that much in the first place.
It's rape because she was knowingly passed out to the people around her. And the accuser used that as an opportunity to to have sex with her when she couldnt say yes or no...
If you can watch a show I recommend it to you, its call I MAY DESTROY YOU!
It's a UK series on the BBC Iplayer but its all about these type of things.
My opinion is kinda split. On one hand no one should ever take advantage of a girl who is passed out drunk because it's wrong on every level.
But on the other hand why was she alone? Was no one looking put for her? How did she get blackout drunk without a friend somewhere to help? Don't drink alone ladies, use the buddy system.
Women should be able to fucking drink alone without men raping them
I know that I don't like whipping around the word rape so I used the term "taking advantage" but more to the actual topic do you at least see what I'm saying though? If girls drink in groups of trusted friend the risk of rape is way lower can we at least agree on that? Because I always tell my cousins to never drink alone always take a trusted friend always plan your ride back before hand always drink water never be afraid to call me if you feel uncomfortable at a party.
Or... wait for it... men could stop taking advantage of drunk women and accept that no means no or maybe wait until she isn’t completely blacked out to see if she’s actually wanting sex? Many men love to say “oh she was drunk, if she wasn’t drunk —“ fuck that. It’s called not taking advantage of a vulnerable woman that you know you’d never get to hook up with if she were sober. I’m sick of the victim blaming narrative.
I’m not mad at you, but this narrative is just unacceptable and “split opinions” don’t work. Is the buddy system important? Absolutely. Should women travel with others because safety in numbers? Absolutely. But not everything is in our control, and there’s no way to know what led to that woman being alone with that man. I’m talking about doing the right thing. And when you have a woman entirely unconscious laying in front of you, too many men resort to rape and it shouldn’t always have to come to that.
I agree no one should ever do anything like that there is no defense of it. I dunno when I hear of women being raped while passed out drunk it makes me remember the parties I've been to where I would check up on people who were passed out and I just immediately think "where was their buddy? Why was no one looking out for them?" And it's not in a defense of rapists kind of way but more of like "why can't we all look out for one another surely someone noticed she over did it at some point, why didn't they say anything"
I do care I just know when I'm at parties I always check on the girls who look like they are about to pass out because I would hate to have that on my conscience that I could have done something but didn't because "oh well she'll be fine" it's just the little I can do to make sure rape doesn't happen
It's rape if someone doesn't expressly consent to sex.
If she blacked out & was unable to consent (willingly or otherwise) that's not "asking for it."
For the guys that voted yes, I hope they put the victim in their shoes.
I will tweaked the question a little.
"Is it rape if he gets knowingly passed-out drunk and was penetrated anally by another guy?"
No because he would wake up
Oh Im sure, but thats some and we need to stop inflating the extremes to justify the means.
A woman deserves to get raped just because she's drunk? I don't get it. I thought anything you do without someone's consent is either an harassment/sexual harassment/rape.
She would have sexed him anyway
Women should utilise an abundance of caution when accompanied by a vagina. Rape is NEVER justified no matter how many risky behaviors a woman partakes in.
Do you due diligence.
This isn't what the Minnesota Supreme Court thinks. The Court interprets the law. The problem is with the law itself. The Minnesota legislature needs to craft a better law.
www.twincities.com/.../
TITLE: Felony rape charge doesn’t apply if victim got drunk on her own, Minnesota Supreme Court rules
SUBTITLE: Lesser charge may have been better fit, attorneys note. Legislature considers bill toughening law
By JOSH VERGES jverges@pioneerpress. com Pioneer Press
PUBLISHED: March 24, 2021 at 5:07 p. m. UPDATED: March 25, 2021 at 3:23 p. m.
The Minnesota Supreme Court on Wednesday overturned a Maple Grove man’s felony conviction for sexual assault because the victim got herself drunk before the incident.
Francois Khalil, then 20, picked up an intoxicated woman outside a Dinkytown bar in 2017, took her back to a North Minneapolis home and raped her after she passed out on a couch, the woman testified, according to court records. A Hennepin County jury in 2019 convicted him of third-degree criminal sexual conduct.
Khalil’s attorney argued the felony charge does not apply because that statute is for cases in which the victim had drugs or alcohol administered to her without her agreement.
A divided Minnesota Court of Appeals affirmed Khalil’s conviction, but the state Supreme Court disagreed, overturning the conviction and granting Khalil a new trial.
Justice Paul Thissen wrote that the prosecution’s interpretation of third-degree assault “unreasonably strains and stretches the plain text of the statute.”
The relevant section of third-degree criminal sexual conduct applies to cases where the victim is “mentally incapacitated” due to drugs or alcohol that was “administered to that person without the person’s agreement.”
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Thissen wrote that the Legislature clearly intended to limit the statute to situations where the victim did not voluntarily drink to intoxication. Rather, it’s for situations where the victim was “given alcohol surreptitiously (for example, when someone ‘spikes’ a punch bowl at a party),” he wrote.
Thissen acknowledged that a “commonsense understanding” of mentally incapacitated could include someone who drank voluntarily yet “cannot exercise judgment sufficiently to express consent” to sex. But that’s not how the statute was written.
In Khalil’s case, his accuser had swallowed one pill of a prescription drug and five shots of vodka before a bouncer refused to let her into the Dinkytown bar.
LEGISLATION
Thissen noted in his opinion that the Legislature has taken a recent interest in the statute.
In 2019, some lawmakers sought to expand the definition of the felony crime to include situations in which the victim voluntarily drank so much that the victim could not give consent. Instead, the Legislature created a working group to recommend changes.
A bill is advancing through the House that would add language to the third-degree statute, making it a felony to have sex with someone who is too intoxicated to consent, no matter how they got that way.
Chief sponsor Rep. Kelly Moller, DFL-Shoreview, issued a statement Wednesday urging the bill’s passage.
“Victims who are intoxicated to the degree that they are unable to give consent are entitled to justice. Our laws must clearly reflect that understanding, and today’s Supreme Court ruling highlights the urgency lawmakers have to close this and other loopholes throughout our (criminal sexual conduct) law,” she said.
Probably not, But I won’t do it, Unless your both drunk as hell and none of you really know what your doing then drunk people will make that mistake but if you have had 1 or 2 beers or shots and she’s had 9+ or whatever can get her passed out drunk. You shouldn’t do it. Give her a comfortable sport to sleep with off,
Of course it’s rape how can she consent while blackout whether self inflicted or not
can't wait see the 45+ year old men and the woman hating men to charge this post and victim blame🙄
Name the specific element of the case on which you base your conclusion. Otherwise you haven't said anything.
Every case is different and depends on the specific evidence.
I don't believe that any court would classify having sex with a woman who was not conscious as not being rape. So you need to be more specific.
Finally. Someone with some common sense. I in no way believe any court would conclude having sex with an unconscious person doesn’t constitute rape either.
It is rape. Because being passed out is not a "heyy, please fuck me".
Is it murder if the person knowingly gets shit faced and asks to you kill them? Yes it is.
if someone isn’t conscious and sober you shouldn’t participate.
If someobe is unconscious just call 911 and run the fuck out of there or make them awake book a cab send them home.
Or just move on who knows where her mouth had been lol or what STDs she has you are risking your life as well.
And its absolutely even wrong Morally!!!
A workmate of mine had a one night stand with a girl that's all he thought it was 2 days later he was arrested for rape released 24hrs later no charges. She told him she would get him charged with rape because she wanted relationship he didn't. Woman have this power but mud sticks and he's now looked in as a rapist. How people have drunken casual sex I dont know single parents on welfare everywhere because of drunken casual sex
I think it's already going too far, when you have to ask it.
What the fuck? Getting drunk does not mean giving consent. In fact, it is impossible to give consent while intoxicated. Yes it's still rape
You can’t legally consent when you’re drunk. Willingly blacked out or not.
The dissent does look reasonable;
"The issue in part III is the meaning of section 609.341, subdivision 7, of the Minnesota Statutes, which defines the term “mentally incapacitated” to mean, for purposes of criminal-sexual-conduct crimes, “that a person under the influence of alcohol, a narcotic,
anesthetic, or any other substance, administered to that person without the person’s agreement, lacks the judgment to give a reasoned consent to sexual contact or sexual
penetration.” Minn. Stat. § 609.341, subd. 7 (2016)"
", administered to that person without the person’s agreement".
Time to urgently update the law.
mn.gov/.../OPa191281-072720%20Revised2.pdf
According to Dr. Mary Koss—a scientist, feminist, and acclaimed expert on the subject of campus sexual assault, one definition of rape is having sex after having alcohol or drugs. That is one the primary definitions used by her and accepted by the media to claim that 25% of college girls are raped. When the definition of rape is using force to sexually penetrate on an unwilling female then there is one rape each year for every two college campuses.
if she doesn't say NO is it rape? maybe she is moaning yes? you can't ask her, she was too drunk to remember
The poll does not just fit the question or the description.
Option A says Oh yeah! She wants it!
Option B says Hell no, that's awful!
The first part of both options fit the question while the last part of both options fit the description.
If a person is drunk they can not legally consent since they are under the influence of alcohol. Anyone who has sex with someone who is drunk can be arrested for rape.
If she is passed out, she didn't consent and therefore it is rape.
With the same logic it must be legal to kill, rob and beat passed out people.
I'm not sure, I might consider it technically non-consensual if she got blacked out and someone also did sexual activity to her while she was blacked out. But let's not kid ourselves about corruption, the definition of rape or harassment has become too broad to the point that flirting in some places fall under the definition.
The guys saying it isn’t rape are the same ones that would cry rape when another dude fucks them in the ass.
How about you tell us what they really ruled. Better yet, link to it. That way people can have an opinion about it instead of responding to your obviously twisted version of it.
You are claiming that a court ruled that she "deserves to get raped". Do I really need to look this up?
In truth, they didn't rule at all whether she was raped or not. They only ruled on jury instructions, which MAY HAVE influenced the ruling.
No.
The only thing that you should do with a drunk person is make sure that they are ok.
I've seen this story and it's horrific.
I can not get my head around what would be so good about doing this to someone who can not respond.
Absolutely. Sorry but drunk folks literally cannot consent because they’re literally in an altered state of mind, or are even unconscious.
Doesn't matter what she is in. If she doesn't consent. It's considered RAPE.
PERIOD!
Isn't anybody else concerned how women pass out next to people who'll rape them? I mean don't they see the red flags? And if they do, and still ignore them, how can we say they're not asking for it? No rapist is a gentleman all the time and only when you pass out does he become a monster. Unless he is the most wanted con artist.
Wtf.
And women should be able to control whom they intoxicated around. It's like y'all want to get raped
Then get drunk at home. Not in a bar with strangers around and no one you know. And don't say "y'all think this way", I'm literally telling you how not to get raped
21 GUYS VOTED YES? SO MUCH FKNING DISGUSTING RAPIST GUYS ON THIS SITE
Notice the question asked "Is it rape..." and you're complaining about the guys that voted for the answer with "yes" in it. Should they have said "no" as in it's not rape? It was a loaded question. Chill out.
I also voted yes, because is had "yeah" in it. But furthermore this is not a respectable question. Asker isn't representing the case accurately, so he deserves the joke answer which is "she asked for it."
This poll is a joke and means nothing. Chill out.
Not just this site, this site is representative of the population at large. Roughly 20% or so of women get raped and who do you think does the raping? The 24% of men who voted yes and the 24% of men who would vote yes if they were on G@G and saw this question. They would be commenting anonymously. of course.
Now down to 17% but you get the idea. Around 20% of women raped, around 20% of men feeling justified in raping.
It's not 20% of women who get raped.
And it's less than 1% of men who rape.
Just stop.
@AllThatSweetJazz facts mate, you've got them wrong. Most likely more than 20%. and who knows where you pulled 1% from but that's flat wrong. behavioralscientist.org/.../
www.nsvrc.org/.../...s-about-sexual-violence_0.pdf
www.ons.gov.uk/.../yearendingmarch2020
@zeitgeist057 Did you read any of those before posting?
The latter two support what I said, and the Koss one has the problem of referencing Mary Koss. The article tries to defend her and does a shit job of it, as expected. She has been torn down for how shit that study was for years. It was shit 34 years ago and it's shit now -- as indicated by your other two sources if nothing else, since they don't agree with Koss's findings either.
@AllThatSweetJazz Did YOU read them? It sounds like you did, but missed or were unable to comprehend the data. From the Statistics About Sexual Violence article that supposedly "support what (you) said...", right in the top line (s) it says "One in five women".
1 divided by 5 (1/5)= .20, a. k. a. 20%, a. k. a. 1 in five is the same as 5 out of 25 or 20 out of 100 or 20%.
Regardless of the accuracy of the 1 in 5 number, it's pretty damn high and even if it were half of that it's still fucked up. I live in this culture and from the men's locker room , bar room observations, and more than a half a dozen of my own lovers confiding in me that they were sexually assaulted, these figures seem reasonably accurate. Add to that our own informal poll here on gag and we can see there are a significant percentage of males and even a couple females who align themselves with justifying rape culture.
@zeitgeist057 “From the Statistics About Sexual Violence article that supposedly "support what (you) said...", right in the top line (s) it says "One in five women".”
Yes, I saw that. And I read through the reference for it.
I said it’s not 20% of women that are raped and yes, this doesn’t challenge my assertion.
And no, this is not some trick where the real number is actually 19.9%. I fully intend to mean that the real number is significantly less than 20%. And that’s not even the worst example in there of the references not supporting the claims. Once that is recognized, we should take the time to appreciate that all the numbers you hear thrown around by activists and in the media are usually trash.
“Add to that our own informal poll here on gag and we can see there are a significant percentage of males and even a couple females who align themselves with justifying rape culture.”
No. They’re not justifying rape culture. You’ve just decided that’s what they’re doing. In reality, it’s a total junk poll and junk question as I explained in this thread and in my own comment thread. It’s nonsense to draw any conclusion from it.
@AllThatSweetJazz okay to use your "logic". No, it's not a junk poll, that's just what you've decided. You've closed your mind, obviously, but for this poll and others people give their views, that's the point. There may be some people who said yes and felt no, but on the flip side there may also be people who said no and felt yes. Those are simple statistical deviations that are more or less accounted for and do not discredit the majority or the trend demonstrated.
@Ryfyle I don't think so. I think this as well as most issues we have and have had in the past can be overcome by exhorting social pressure and changing the norm. Right now we are still coming out of dark ages where not everyone is treated with respect. Women, black people, etc, just got the vote and rights to own property not that long ago in the grand scheme of things.
If we go back a couple hundred years, even though people thought they were sophisticated then, they acted in ways we consider savage now. I think in a couple hundred years hopefully humans will make even more progress and these times we live in now will be looked on as primitive and savage. But I don't think killing individuals is the answer, it's about shifting our society and changing the underlying values that allow these patterns of thought to lead to these reprehensible actions.
@zeitgeist057 Replies like that are why we still have rapists. You can't reason with animals.
@Ryfyle we're all animals. Social animals that respond to social pressure, environmental factors, and can be trained. People didn't own slaves and hang black people, burn witches, feed Christians to lions, etc, etc, because they were bad people or "animals" as you put it. They did so because it was normalized in their society. Values shift over time and as society becomes more enlightened, its people behave better.
@zeitgeist057 Would you prefer if I used the term Backwards Barbarian? Nothing socially pressures like a fast metal slug through some pink goo. For a majority of the worlds cultures, lethal Violence is the only thing they understand.
@zeitgeist057 “okay to use your "logic". No, it's not a junk poll, that's just what you've decided.”
I’m the one that did. The context of the framing of the original question, the discrepancies with the topic case and poll questions, and the internet magnifying that absurdity. *Logic* would dictate that any conclusions are bunk.
“You've closed your mind, obviously, but for this poll and others people give their views, that's the point.”
The point is the views are multitude and your assertion is narrow and specific – the mark of a narrative.
“There may be some people who said yes and felt no, but on the flip side there may also be people who said no and felt yes.”
And if you actually read the poll choices you’d know that “yes” and “no” have no context and are rendered meaningless unless you’re someone keen to push a narrative.
“Those are simple statistical deviations that are more or less accounted for and do not discredit the majority or the trend demonstrated.”
You just utterly embarrassed yourself trying to clap back at me with a bunch of references which don't undermine me at all. Something tells me you don’t have much experience with statistics or drawing meaningful conclusions from them.
People who drink are 👎 to me. But that doesn't mean they should get raped. It is her fault though. We all know men are rapist. If you don't wanna get bit don't pet a dog while it's eating. It's not fair and not right but you gotta look out for yourself because nobody in this world cares at the end of the day. Sad sad world we live in.
Confusing options: Yes, it's rape, no that's awful. Yes, the law, as written is rubbish.
Wow. It’s awful that 33 people here voted yes, including women!
Of course it is rape, if she can’t consent, it’s rape. No matter if she’s awake or passed out.
Hell yes!! 😂 Just joking. Too many people take life seriously these days. Most people seem to have their inner child murdered at a young age and their excuse is that they grew up. That is one of the worst excuses I've ever heard, because life is a big joke.
Like who votes for this people really?
What we gooing for legalization now? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 So human indeed. Yo hit that ww3 earth needs to reboot.
I think people should stop knowingly putting themselves in vulnerable situations. If you're old enough to drink then you're supposed to be a responsible adult and responsible people don't put themselves in situations like that.
To the guys that voted A, if you pass out drunk and another dude fucks your ass is not rape. According to you it isn't!
Well brain cells would tell you it’s rape since they can’t consent. They’re obviously lacking capacity so my normal person would act in their best interests and make sure they are safe, not exploited! 🙄
*any normal person
If someone is incapacitated and cannot consent, it is rape.
Basic common sense 🙂
i suppose there are certain circumstances that would apply to this scenario. i've been in a few but i let them all sleep instead. it's no fun if she isn't there with you
I think if she got unconscious or unable to control her actions then yes it’s rape. Having sex with a drunk girl is not rape though
I can be. Doesn't mean it is. Depends if there was consent or not.
Of course not.
Two drunk people can have consensual sex. If one passes out then one can't consent.
"deserves" not really. But anyone have the responsibility not to get drunk in situations where you can get vulnerable. If she's drunk but she also gave consent, that's 50/50.
For this specific case scenario:
Men don't rape.
Alcohol does :D
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Dumb people do dumb things. I don't know why tax money is spent on their trial efforts.
@doopayo: I am aware that my response is not conform with the trendy intellectual masturbation of ''wokeness''.
So, for the juvenile minds: Don't get too drunk; don't be around (male) sicko's.
If 'you' get into trouble because of own wrong decisions, then these troubles are indeed partly 'your' fault. Not trying to excuse a rapist - he's the same kind of idiot as the 'victim' in this question scenario.
@doopayo You can always drink at home safely; or with people you can trust.
People are not ENTITLED for safety. You need to learn (again) how to take responsibilities, make the right decisions.
Your wish that all people must be 'good' is a nice dream - but reality is ugly.
If we are aware of that, we'll survive.
If we aren't: we get raped.
Apparently we have 20 (or potential) rapists who voted. Look at them. Identifying themselves 😂
You look like someone who accuses men of rape to destroy careers
My thot exactly
but remaining anonymous when they give their answer and justification of course.
@zeitgeist057 I love how the asker posed the question. I noticed it's loaded. However it makes me question what else they are doing with thier free time.
The answer is pretty much obvious. She's drunk and she's passed-out!
That is 100% rape and these judges should be locked up in prison in the same cell with the rapist!!
Still rape.
If she/he is passed out drunk, she/he is not capable of giving consent.
Even if they're drunk to a point where they cannot make proper decisions, consent is not proper there.
This is one stupid law. Who in their right mind thinks this is a good thing. If they are drunk they have no control, so it is rape anyway you look at it.
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