Honestly, I'd much rather be in a room with a ratio of 3/4 women, 1 man, even if I was single and on the prowl. There's just something instinctually unsafe, about being on a dance floor with your girlfriends and having packs of horny, drunk, frustrated, physically domineering men eye you from ever corner and wall of the bar.
I don't even stay out past 12 anymore because thats when the probability that one or them 'breaks' or compiles every rejection they've gotten that night onto you for saying, thanks but no thanks.
Lesbian night (little different than ladies night) is honestly the best thing ever. There's very few straight men there and everyone's just there to dance, have fun, and I don't feel like a piece of chopped ass.
Without ridiculously drunk single men, you don't have to worry about being grabbed, or anyone calling you a bitch because he thinks you're stiffing him for a free drink when in fact, you were more interested in his looks before hearing the thoughts in his head. Some people really be identifying as weird shit these days.
Lots of women will start touching guys at clubs too without being invited, especially if they've had a few drinks and the average girl going to a club isn't getting all dressed up in order to avoid attention, so go figure
I agree with you , and Im a man , but I know exactly what you mean.. High female ratios , are safer , cleaner , friendly etc.. And Im not saying that bcoz of more opportunity. I've always hated " blokey " things ( football trips etc ) , plus I like to dance , guys get jealous , always have. As a guy in my 20 s , kinghit on a few occasions. Girls dancing together , not only getting hassled , you have the handbag issue , and the drink spike issue , hence my opinion welcome. Blokey stuff around booze is horrendous , give me girls night any time.
It’s a logical business practice. If there are more girls there, more guys will come. If girls don’t have an incentive to go there will be less customers, meaning less profit.
As an ex venue owner , and although technically I disagree , I was very very good at promoting the female element always , you have to get the mix right or your venue dies , so I was always good at getting the " right " people , men respond really poorly " man on man " , males are just the worst , so you always walk a fine line. So " ladies night " is generally a girls night out , it matters not if married etc , you want in " go zone " age , and you want them flowing in , couples are okey , but not like groups of women , free door , and one free drink we used to give ( Wine / beer ) , women can't drink much , so you need to be careful with that element , as the blokes come like moth to a flame. We also had a fun promo , skirt at least 10 in above the knee and receive free entry and one mixed drink. It also allowed you to cut back some male visitors , and gave a better chance of hooks up etc , you want em saying " Ohhh , I dont normally do this BUT.." And thats what happens all the time.
It's wrong, but somehow the woke have chosen to overlook this, unlike they did with innocent cartoon characters.
This is what guys should do:
A bunch of you guys get together for your boys' night out. One of you dresses up in a nice suit and carrying a brief case. The guy with the suit and brief case will not only be your designated driver, he will also be your designated ACLU attorney. Then when you approach the bouncer, all the guys say they're transgender, butch, lesbian women. Once the bouncer is done shitting himself, you'll all get in for free and the boss will stop this unfair practice the following week.
And if the club owners were really smart, they'd advertise 50% off on all Simp juice on Ladies Night!\
The Simps would LOVE it. They could bask in the glory of women smiling at them and using them for free drinks all nighrt, and in the end, the girls would leave with the bad boy in the corner that never spent a dime on them! But at least the Simps would get their reduced-priced Simp drinks. LOL
What I like about a question like this, is that it makes people lose all track of common sense and what they believe to be right and wrong. I've read most of the replies and overwhelming people say it's a good business decision. Really? Cool.
What about this guy who decided it was against his principles to create a gay wedding cake? Does he have the right as a private business owner to decide what cakes he wants to make and doesn't want to make? I guess it's his right, but it wasn't an easy battle. He had to take it to the supreme court. LOL
Oh, well, I don't give a shit. I hate bars. I've tried to tell guys on sites like this to not go to bars to meet women, but that's a waste of time.
Free entry to nightclubs is another example of female privilege, but I do not mind. It is good business. People in the nightclub industry have told me that it was dying slowly, because every week more men realised that it was a rip-off and that they were wasting their time. Go to a nightclub, pay insane prices, be rejected by every girl he approaches, go home with blue balls, an empty wallet and feeling to lonely that he wants to die. Men figure out that if they stay home they can have the same blue balls and a full wallet. Or, spend the same (perhaps less) on a full-service prostitute, or a massage that has a happy ending. Either way, nightclubs are a bad place for most young men.
Very well said! This is why I save my money for true experiences such as traveling and skydiving. Far better than a nightclub where people are just desperate to get laid and women are desperate for free validation.
Amen brother! Is funny though how so many people here in America believe that strip clubs have the same exact outcome that you just explained. But I don’t think so because after all at least I get to watch and touch a the strip clubs without worrying about competition
It's unfair, but life isn't fair. It's done because it's good business, but it's one of many, many advantages that women enjoy. But that's okay, because men have their advantages too, in other areas at other times.
I think it's important for everyone to acknowledge their own advantages just as much as the worry about the advantages of others. Things are not always fair or equal, and it's unreasonable to expect otherwise. But, on balance, most people end up close to even, and so there's not a huge reason to complain.
My only complaint is when people want it both ways, or more correctly, when the want ALL of the privilege but none of the responsibility. That's wrong no matter who it is.
In my opinion, a tradition or practice that gives exception to one demographic, should be counterbalanced by another, with the obvious answer being men's night/gentleman's night or something along those lines. Keeping it on the basis of sex is easy since there's only two, so a venue could do it as often as every week if they wanted. If they tried to pull the same card with race, that would very quickly spiral out of control.
Personally I almost never go to bars or clubs so I don't really have any stake in this at all and it doesn't affect me regardless.
This has been going on since I first became old enough to drink. Ladies Night.
They do it because if you can get the girls to come, the guys will pay anything to get in. No girls... no guys. It's all about getting the girls in. So they get a discount or pay nothing. They are bait. You don't make the bait pay, you encourage it.
It's illegal to do, but as long as they are discriminating against guys and not girls, nobody cares and they don't get prosecuted. It's part of the systemic sexism against guys... very similar to the systemic racism against whites that gives black people all these freebies and perks that are denied to whites.
It's been like that for YEARS. Ladies get in for free and guys pay like 20 bucks for entry. It depends on the location. Vegas was 2 to 1 ratio. Now, it might be different since e writhing is slowly coming back to normal and every single place is going to makeup for the loss.
Well, it's the usual discrimination I mean, I don't complain about girls being treated well and me working for money - but it does get tough when you are in a high pressure office environment and she gets unhappy with you for not coming home all relaxed and with a smile (and goes to cheat on you because you are boring, not entertaining her 24x7) There are women capable of running a business with their guy - the whole 'let's socialise girls to be weak lying leeches and men to be hard working donkeys' thing strikes me as utterly stupid.
It is as if (western) parents prepare girls for sale (but then to get kickbacks from them after they marry them out) - and boys to be their ploughing horses.
Women are "cheap" in terms of how they choose to spend money. Guys just throw it away on stupid shit, well more often anyway. Not many women would show up. Then no guys would show up to this sausage fest.
Still goes out of business if nobody pays, so it's up to guys to keep the party going.
Privilege is invisible to those that have it. As someone mentions it's not fair but life is not fair. Everyone knows more women = more men that are willing to pay to come in to have the golden opportunity to talk to these girls. More men = fewer people because nobody wants to go to a club full of men. Men don't get that kind of privilege women get so if it's unfair or not women won't complain so it will never change.
They're private companies so they can do whatever they want with their money if they believe it will bring female customers in -> and by extension men.
If I disagree with it then I won't go. It could only be a problem if some kind of government organization did this.
If men don't like it then maybe they should go on strike & not go to the bars until it changes. It'll change really fast if half the population doesn't tolerate it.
I don't ever pay to go into bars or clubs, but it hasn't seemed to change the way they operate. I've got no complaints about my life, either; I don't feel I'm missing out on anything. Plenty of things to do in life for free that are more fun than a club.
The reason they do the Ladies Nights is that in general, more women = more men = more money for them. If Ladies Nights became detrimental to their business, with far fewer men coming, then they would put an end to it.
So the ball is in men's court. If men don't like it, they have the power to change it.
As you said, there are plenty of other things to do instead of going to a club.
I think there are plenty of men (and women) who enjoy it. On the men's side, they go pay some money to get in and purchase drugs for women, who are then more likely to sleep with them with their impaired judgement. On the women's side, they get in for free, then free drugs, and plenty of excuses the next day if they have any regrets. XD everybody wins XD lol
Well if you are a guy wouldn’t this be good for you? It attracts more women to the club. As without incentives like this significantly less women go than men. I’m guessing most men go to a club to chat to a woman etc.
Only works because men are willing to pay for access to women. Or enough men for them to continue. Personally I'll only pay for high end shit like in vegas. If I'm in dc, Atlanta, or somewhere trying too hard I'll pass it up for a dive bar.
The place is a business & wants to make money. How to achieve this? Bar across the roads giving women free drinks & other one isn't. I think you'd find one empty bar & the other packed. I'd say it's an interesting mix of biology & capitalism. Guys should be thanking the nightclub for funneling women :) The woman can stick it to the man so to speak by buying us drinks instead :)
Makes total sense from a business perspective- guys don't want to go to sausage parties and lots of women expect not to have to pay for their night out, or at least not most of it. The clubs kill two birds with one stone by letting them in for free- they'll more than make the money back from guys paying admission and buying the women drinks, plus the create a positive image in the eyes of women.
In a nutshell, if women don't go to a club, neither do guys
Definitely at one sight it is biased for man but It may b their strategy to attract womens for their business because after some time they may have rights to charged and also entry is free not drinks.
finally it is business strategy what they are doing
Tbe nightclub industry's worst kept secret is that the men go wherever the highest concentration of attractive women go.
Whether you like or dislike the practise of giving free entry to women, nightclub owners only do it because its clearly more profitable to do so. The "girls get in for free" strategy is essentially a loss leader that's made up for in drink sales, especially in higher end clubs with table service.
Business practice to extract male money , the typical bar & alcohol oriented sticky floor " nite club " nearly always has a sausage fest ratio of around 10 males to every female anyway. Used to work on the doors , much the same even on a " ladies night ". Far more women prefer a girls night in , women do not really go out to meet men , they are already sick of male attention as it is.
Just making a note in my nightclub ownership file Makes sound business sense
Nightclubs aren't my vibe but if you can get idiots to pay a fee on the door and still pay a 300% surcharge on every drink in the building it must be good for the old net worth
Lots of things are unfair in life, men and women aren't the same. Women are given free entry so that men stand in line and pay cover charge. Pure economics. The day men stop doing that, the business model will collapse.
It's marketing and smart business. Women actually spend more at a bar than guys. I should specify. Women bring in more money on drinks whether they are paying of it themselves or a guy is paying the bill. The bar/nightclub doesn't lose out on the entry cover. Rememeber a cocktail cost more than a beer. Lol
How else will they get in? ... jokes But seriously I don’t care as a man but it’s probably unfair for other women. And I can see some developing insecurities behind being weeded out based on looks. I say that because I’ve seen how differently women that meet society’s beauty standards verses ones who don’t in Atlanta.
Well, they lose on the entrance but gain of the booze.
It's very easy to offer a fake privilege to women as a marketing gimmick, they love it. Either it's a party that mostly women would go anyway, and it's just basically a free entrance to increase attendance. Or it's a way to get maximum attendance with maximum profit. (IE, women wouldn't go as much without the lie)
Reno Nevada it's a 24-hour gambling Town Party Town clubbing down so they always have things for women free. That way they come in and then the guys follow so it's fine by me I don't really care because I'm used to going to buy a girl a drink anyway
It’s marketing and brings people in. Some bars and clubs also have veterans night, first responders night, etc. I don’t have a problem with any of it. Businesses can do as they please.
Well I look at it like this, when a black attempts to purchase something from me, I tell them it's not available. When a jew attempts to purchase something from me, I immediately multiply the price by 10 and in the end it's very profitable for me.
It is a business decision. In business, what is fair is what is profitable whether giving women free entry, charging families less for what their children eat, or lower ticket prices for children under 12.
a bit sexist, I mean trans sexuele who then count to women or if I wear a dress as a gag I can get in for free. Bar owners can quickly run into problems with other guests. For me personly it ist okay. If woman are came in for free.
It’s a marketing tactic. Just like ladies night, think about this for a sec… who spends more? Women or men? The government and businesses will always favor the women. This is a very extensive topic.
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Never actually been to a club or bar offering this, but it's good business. You can guarantee girls will turn up, and drink the bar dry - which is around 70% of a nightclub/bars, revenue.
Obviously sexist but then again men don't really care about this one, there are other issues that are more important like custody bias when it comes to children and divorce law.
Obviously it's biased. But I don't go to clubs so it doesn't affect me. Plus usually if a woman is getting moved to by a guy in the club & he wants to successfully chat her up she usually gets a free drink as far as I know
I was a barman for a few years... I mean whilst I can see why the practice was unfair I can't deny I gave a few free drinks out to certain people every now and then lol
these are 2 of the reasons why I always hated nightclubs. these proof even further that nightclubs are met to please women and exploit men in every way possible
but you'll be surprised how more than 90% of these men that go there "to have sex" end up going home all alone with no other choices but to beat their meat to porn and those hot girls he saw dancing at the club because after all men go for the sex but NOT WOMEN. women go to clubs to...
show off their asses get free drinks as (@wowwgirl said in her post) meet people (or at least that's what they say) find men they can use for future references start drama but most of all... to feel VALIDATION and have something to brag about in life
@higirlypops you dont need a psychology degree to know what I speak off, its called EXPERIENCE. and just because I dont keep my hopes up or live in a fantasy world going to clubs expecting to get laid (which I already have numerous of times when I was younger either way) does not mean "unfucked and bitter." I just know better places to go to where I know the sex will be not just promised but GOOD and worth the effort as well
@higirlypops "and nothing i said was false either... so that was pointless."
what you said might not be false, men do go to these places hoping they're gonna find a sex partner. but does that mean they're going to? I dont think so
"It doesn't matter because i don't like loud places, drunk people, or dancing with others"
but I bet you do love showing off and feeling validated dont you?
yeah you will find lots of these homo erectus losers at the club yourself 6 years from now when you bite your own words and finally decide to go to the club yourself in order to avoid being called a "boring loser" by your friends who will constantly pressure to go to these places with them. when you do I really hope these homo erectus won't turn your world upside down
I don't drink retard, if anyone tries to pressure me into anything i block them or yell at them, it's simple. There is nothing a club has that I want, it's like begging me to go on a roller coaster, it's fucking terrifying. Have a nice day, touch some grass sometime babe. bye <33
I support ladies night cause there are plenty of times that men go to bars and clubs and I'm sure the lady bartenders give them free drinks, free beers yes I do believe this happens
These are the places that do not invest in the quality of the offer and where the product sold is the girls who go there. They attract men who are usually sex-starved and who don't get it right on time. Personally, I consider them a place to avoid.
cool, back in my day, best places to meet girls was gay clubs, a lot of girls just looking for a night out, not a pick-up, even got bought drinks a couple of times lol,,,
I think that depends on whether or not there's a "Gentleman's Night", and if men get free entry then. Unless, there are differences in guys and girls, in which case "gender equality" can never be truly had, and it depends on the reason.
Common occurrence where I live. Women have no dress code and free cover. Men have a very strict dress code and $10 to $20 cover charge. Having women in a club brings in men.
Ladies night is supposed to attract more easy women with free drinks for more guys to come and get laid then they'll want to comeback to their hunting grounds again and again.
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