And in viewing ourselves as such, we end up with a society that's based not on behavioral archetypes, but rather, one based on a linear scale of "who is most unconstrained". To be rich and powerful and successful and beautiful, is to be the ultimate "alpha", free not only of nature's constraints, but of all the constraints civilisation itself imposes on the "rest of us". In such a facile and narcissistic construct lf reality, it's no wonder we reduce everyone around us to either "more than" or "less than". Hunter gatherers don't have such delusions. They only want each member to pull their weight, doing the role for which they're optimally attuned. Nature won't afford them much freedoms beyond that. Only modern civilisation can afford such lofty riches, and so, it's engagement with modern civilisation that produces the desire for excess. Which is another way of saying "a desire to dominate, to render all others submissive at the foot of one's self-made throne".
We live in an age where we can decide what that looks like.But I don't think it was ever about dominance and submission. That's an unequal mindset, because we all bring different things to the table.
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I meant matriarchal.
No one hunts anymore for their food; they go to the supermarket instead. We've made some progress over the last 40,000 years you know.
@Rachelspiks You're telling me you don't COMPARISON SHOP (aka 'hunt' ) for the best quality & value?Must be NICE to have THAT MUCH disposable income? The LESS I spend in one place the MORE I have available to invest elsewhere for my interests. I don't NEED a $$$ Rolex if the clock app on my cell does the same thing for me. If I'm wearing it for prestige, whom is 'worthy' of my trying to impress them with such superficialities? (Such 'flash' is merely 'bait'!) 'Youth' & 'Beauty' are perishable commodities. "Best, if 'used' by..."
Shopping is nothing like hunting, and I have no idea how you could ever have confused the two.
@Rachelspiks Apparently you've never shopped a 'black Friday' sale with limited quantities, LOL!
What do you as a man want?
Submissiveness is kinda spectrum with boundaries.
Yeah, I don't want a woman who can't stand up for herself, but I don't want a bitch who constantly get on my head either. Most guys would like an upper hand when it comes to relationships.
Elaborate on your preference alone.
You're being vague.
Okay, if I consider a serious relationship, I don't want a full time housewife, but I don't want a woman obsessed with career. If she chooses to have a family, she should be able to spend a lot of time with her family. Same way, I'd like a woman who would like me to accompany her, to do shopping together
What if she's passionate about career and refused to build a family with you?
Then there's no relationship between us, so why should I bother?
She did agree to marry you.Also, funny how your mind works.
I'm confused, if she doesn't want to build a family with me, then why would she agree to marry me? 🤔By the way, what's funny about it? I'm curious 🤨
How you evaluate matters of the heart in terms of investment like a businessman... It's funnyBecause she wants to live with you forever, but childfree.
😂, well I'm a guy, and I think that's how generally guys think. I don't mind being childfree, but I can't accept a wife who will be away or busy with her work most of them l time, unless we are working together
Your second point in second para is very valid.
Yeah, relationship requires being together. Otherwise it is mostly pointless, in my opinion
What about my first point? 🤨
What about you? What if your working hours dont let you have together time?
Time for a new job. Or if it's the job I love, I won't get married in the first place
The first point made me roll eyes so far that I could see my brain.
Would you date a woman who loves her job and hence won't marry you?
What's wrong with first point. We need to weight pros and cons, right? And yeah i would date her casually, for sex. Won't pursue a relationship with her
The problem with patriarchy is, dear damarcus, that it has different rules for both gender resulting into inequality when both have same goals
Work and sex and a man is set. But if a woman does that, society will crush her.
I don't care about patriarchy. My world follow damarcusarchy.
But you didn't respond to my assumption
Block me, bitch
Lol I love dominating women, I am your bitch.
Whatever. Fuck off, buddy.
Yes ma'am absolutely
But still it isn't 1950's anymore there are more dominant women than men (as you can tell)
Yes, only I'm yet to meet one.
Am I not one?
I meant dominant women. So no.
YesMostly girls don't like submissive guys
:( :( :(
Why you sad lolDo you like submissive guys?
Sounds interesting.I love to be submissive for you and you can do anything with me
No thanks, bae
Right now I'm under a lot of stress about upcoming exams so some other time
You are student?Which exams?
Really awesome...Best of luck for your exams.
Main bhi submissive hun but you never like me and dominate me...By the way all the best
Dominate offline, but thank you
Nice talking with you.We can talk after your exams if you like to talk