Do you think that the men who are constantly complaining about and hating on women do so because it’s easier than taking responsibility? (Page 2)

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Do you think that the men who are constantly complaining and hating on women do so because it’s easier to blame someone else then it is to take accountability for their own shortcomings? Just a thought after interacting with so many men on here.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I get that some things are harder for women, some are harder for men but hating others for it, accomplishes nothing.

I believe it is because it is easier to hate than to do anything else. Yet even those that want to take responsibility and do better, often find themselves stuck so they start the cycle over and blame the system or anything but themselves.

hahahmm · Answer

If their life is 100% about complaining, sure. I think what usually happens is that a guy makes a comment that women don't like and then they call him an "incel" and claim that his life is all about women when it probably isn't. Meanwhile women have been complaining about men in magazines, tv shows, video blogs and so on for ages and until VERY recently there was no push back at all.

fjh80 · Answer

I think it’s really about venting. At least most of the time. It’s also some of the things you said.

If you want a more honest understanding, try switching “men” and “women” around in you post.

This is something that goes both ways. In fact, you could switch out “men” and “women” and replace those words with “people.”

jshm2 · Answer

Those are called "incels," deary. Being born is the nearest they ever get to touching pussy.

But it's the narcissists and "players" you really need to worry about. You are nothing but a "game" to them. They are the type who put you in a shitty relationship and kill/beat you to end it.

lightbulb27 · Answer

yes. there's responsibility to acknowledge reality rather than fit reality into what one wants to believe is true.

In a way, they are "Thomas Edison's", whom after several attempts says..."this just isn't worth it, I got a candle, that's good enough"... until the hormonal drivers throw them back into the dream one more time...

Novacane · Answer

Then that also would also mean that women also are just avoiding accountability so they do it just as equally if not more. So at that point, why does anybody complain? everyone just wants to protect themselves so they try to put blame on others to make them feel better.

normalice · Answer

For probably all of human history men have dominated women because the rules of nature were mostly physical rules (might is right), but for only the last century or so we have begun to shift towards an intellect-driven civilization. All those instincts both men and women have developed over the prior millions of years to appreciate male domnaince (and be appreciated) are just not taking it well.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

I think both men and women do this to be fair... Just because a person's been hurt or burned by someone is no reason to blame or attack the whole gender. And when relationships fail, it's usually the actions of inactions of both parties, but it's far easier for people to put the blame on the other person then to take any responsibility or to admit they have faults of their own... Bad enough, but to label all women or all men as bad is just stupid and immature...

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

It's a multifaceted issue. On one hand, some gals are despicable creatures. On the other, finding a partner you're compatible with is hard work. Some are natural learners of the art. Some are not. And some just have unbelievable bad luck. Mine is the sort of bad luck you normally only see in superhero movies. But I seldom find dates anyway. Don't know where to look, what to say, who's worth trying to talk to.

shaysh87 · Answer

hun you do not need to care about these men. These men are permanently rejected by women and also by society which is why tehy are so bitter, hateful and disgusting. None of these men are datable, a lot of them are sexist, misogynistic, want to design their own wife, judges a woman's worth solely based on her looks.

These simply are not men that are marriage material. There is a reason why they are permanently rejected by society. Nobody wants or loves them.

Joeshamo · Answer

You may think you don’t. And I understand why you think you don’t. A baby can die if no one gives it love or attention. Social isolation is really bad for your mental health. There’s a woman that will love. The ones using you for money are the ones telling you this BS about women.

Msputiton · Answer

Usually the case. But tbh i can't stand it when people constantly complain and whine, so i usually ignore or tune them out. So I really don't know fashoo, because idc what they are sayin

t-8900 · Answer

It's apart of the problem. Let me break down how I see it:
25% Men avoiding Responsibility
25% Women avoiding Responsibility
50% Ignorance (usually willful) of learning the plights of the other side

as I often say on this site and others. Weather we talk gender, race, religion, politics, people always need a boogieman so they can justify their shitty attitudes.

spearheadbt · Answer

I agree 100%. And part of the reason is, that a lot of guys have over-inflated egos. They think all the girls should be flocking to them, and if it doesn't happen, then they are the ones having problems.

Petermorgan34 · Answer

Depends on the guy some yes, some its like dude your a loser and need to take charge of your life… Same goes for women who do tue opposite to men, But for the most part both genders expect to much from the other we are humans and we are perfectly imperfect beings

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

There are good men and women. But over the years you can see patterns develop in human behavior. On here people can voice their opinion, so there's always a conflict. I talk to nice girls all time and avoid bitches. There's good and bad on both sides, black and white, night and day, yin and yang. Notice how you blocked anon answers? Why would that be? There are haters on both sides.

Tarzann · Answer

NOO because women suck sometimes. Women use men, they see us success objects that’s how they discover our value. Many women do suck. Like most women these days are NOT wifey material. What do you expect? Don’t take it as an attack on yourself.
Maybe some blame women. But women are ‘cut throat’ when it comes to dating. They are the ones to blame. But a lot of men online are desperate but forget about them

Guanfei · Answer

Funny considering that's what modern feminists, and women following them, do all the time. Not taking responsibilities, no accountability, anything bad in the world happens because of men, even all the things they're making up to pretend they're fighting something.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

A man who wishes to provide for a woman and his family can easily become his wife’s slave. Held responsible for all of her actions and required by the law to support and obey her. We disallow men to be leaders and place upon them all of the blame. I’ll never fucking marry myself into slavery again. But it’s my own dumbass fault for believing the fairytale… I own up to that much

pass_the_celery98 · Answer

Trust me I have heard women and girls say vulgar,
Stupid and rude things. Let’s call a spade of spade here both genders bitch, cheat, manipulate each other based on emotion and experience. Let’s all stop pointing the damn finger at one gender and take some accountability both men/women, guys/girls, end of story.

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