Men, do you have any stories of a woman falsely accusing you of something or getting thrown under the bus at the accusation of a woman?

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Now that the Johnny Depp trial has exonerated his name, it can possibly set a precedent for all the other innocent men who were accused of wrongdoing by a vindictive female, as well. This happens everyday and it goes largely unpunished under the IDIOTIC idea of "believe all women."

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN TROUBLE MERELY BASED ON THE WORD OF A WOMAN?

I told this story before on GAG, but when I was in undergraduate school in 2015, I had this awful 19 year old "sexually free," white, rich, suburban feminist named Nella in my class report me to the school because my mere presence, being the only black male in her class, made her "uncomfortable" and she didn't like (masculine) men being around her.

She was a pampered, rich, snotty, out-of-touch Communications major and most of her classmates were female and the few male ones there were, were VERY clearly flamboyantly gay. Me being black and masculine, as well as "large," intimidated her and she assumed I'd "rape her" or "assault her" or something, "like from the news." Her being in Philadelphia proper, and not the suburbs, was also new to her.

The school investigated her false claims and filed it under "stalking." I was told I wasn't allowed to have a lawyer (not that I could afford one). We were all interviewed and zero evidence was found that I was "stalking her" (because I wasn't), but the school added a new late charge to it, "Harassment of Gender," which essentially meant whatever they wanted it to, and that I was "wrong anyway" because "she was a woman made to feel unsafe." I was wrongfully expelled, and was furious over it.

I managed to find a lawyer willing to take the case and get paid only if he won. I spent three years in a lawsuit with the university. It was settled out-of-court because "they had more lawyers than us." They only just refunded my tuition and cleared my name of the false charge, but I still had three years of my life wasted! All on a false charge some dumb racist cunt made up about me.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

6th grade... I had a female friend named Kat and we were bullshitting and I told her she needs to get neutered (get it? her name is Kat and I was referencing her to a cat). There was no beef between me and her. We kept talking and joking around... this is where the problem came.

The teacher was listening in and overheard what we were saying. I got expelled and she (the teacher) tried to press charges against me for saying neutered instead of spayed... and I had no fucking idea what the difference was at the time... I guess one word is for male cats and the other is for female cats. I had to talk to the police and the police were rolling their eyes at it because it was just such bullshit. The principal talked her into dropping the criminal charges, but shit didn't get better. Almost my entire 6th-grade year I was not allowed recesses. I was not allowed to talk to anyone in class... like ever. I remember close to the end of the school year I was finally allowed on the playground because there was a substitute teacher and I couldn't do anything but sit down and watch the other kids play... I have no friends and I'm not a part of the playground anymore.

All because she had to be an over-the-top Karen bitch of a teacher. Me and Kat were fine and just playing with each other and she had to try and destroy me as best as she could. Just because she was just so fucking offended that I said neutered instead of spayed in my dialog with Kat.

I have more stories just like that one if you want to hear them... but I'm going to STFU for now.

worldscolide · Accepted Answer

I personally have not. But my best friend lost his children and his family because of false accusations of abuse as well as child molestation by his ex wife, which resulted in him killing him self.

Basically he caught her cheating on him and started divorce proceedings.. Her lawyer advised her to use the silver bullet in court, where false accusations of abuse sexual assault, and child abuse/molestation result in automatic win for moms.. Look it up sometime it's a real thing.. My best friend was ordered to pay child support and alimony to the tune of $6000 per month, as well as give her his home (a home which his grandfather built and left to him by the way, and never had ner name on it), keep in mind he only makes about 3800 per month. He fought it, appealed, and did what he could to reverse the decision, and the court literally told him (I was there I heard it my self) you're male, you need to pay or you go to prison. 6 months later he was found in his apartment with a self inflicted bullet wound to the head. She is still living in his home with her drug addictied, registered sex offender (child rapist) boyfriend.

Anonymous · Answer

Sort of, yes. I had a woman (who was technically “my boss”) suddenly assume I did something illegal to someone else (or a few people, actually (I could never really narrow that part down)) and that I was repeatedly doing these things. I won’t get into too many details.

Coincidentally, I had gotten a similar job part of the time I was volunteering; this job required tests and government /police background checks - I’d like to think I proved myself as an honest person.

I even had a few meetings with some higher up staff when the lady started causing issues to try to get to the bottom of this, and the “lady” was too chicken to be bothered to show up to any of these meetings (which is pretty contemptible). The rest of the staff handled it poorly, too.

As things progressed, I saw the writing on the wall, and I quit before she got some other assumption in her head that could make my life worse. By the way… no warnings, no accusations from anyone else. Just her.

Then, we find out she’s leaving for a cushier job… right after I leave, as a final “f&$@ you” to me, she asks a family member to take on my role, because they were desperate for volunteers. This was not unusual behavior. This lady burned bridges with other volunteers, though in less horrible ways.

I will never volunteer like that again, which is sad, because for years many people have said I was great at this job, but it was just too much.

I also had a girl I dated (briefly) who would “jokingly” tell me she was going to tell all her friends I was “seducing her against her will”, and I “overpowered her,” etc. I stopped dating her. That’s not funny; she (and others who “joke” like that) created a (possibly permanent) seed of doubt as to them being trustworthy. Any hint that any woman might accuse me of taking advantage (especially as a joke or manipulative threat), I am out. I’m done. She can’t be trusted. It’s no longer a worthwhile relationship. It’s like telling your man you cheated with his best friend or “you lost the baby” or “the baby isn’t yours.” Those aren’t jokes. It’s just sick manipulative garbage.

Now, in both cases, I wasn’t ”officially” accused of anything, but they were still able to cause some problems. And I left before it got more serious… but even a whiff of being accused is enough to cause serious damage to some guys.

TruthBringer · Answer

Holy shit. I never knew you went through this shit. I know how it is to have dealt with racism, but definitely have not dealt with the shit you went through. I honestly felt mad by just reading your take. This goes to show this whole fucking "believe all women" garbage mentality is clearly being taken advantage of by malignant narcissistic pieces of shit to destroy men's lives. Glad you still managed to deal with the issue, despite the loss of time and resources. This shit seems to be getting out of hand so much that real victims aren't being taken seriously anymore. Because now every bitch seems to be claiming she got (sexually) abused. Now we don't know who to take seriously... This is why I'm hell-bent on staying away from girls who show signs of damage control, party girls or anyone who claims to be a feminist. Next thing you'll know, you got a false (rape) accusation on your ass.

I personally have not dealt with something on your level or anything court-related. And I sure hope I never have to deal with any of that shit. The worst thing I've dealt with are just racial prejudice during a relationship I very much invested in, and was dealing with a bunch of emotional abuse from a narcissistic partner and her mother. I've had to deal with the emotional and mental damage that took me a couple of years to recover from just enough to start dating and enjoy the things I used to enjoy prior to the emotional abuse.

lightbulb27 · Answer

For sure, at a young age I was accused at the gym of stealing a womans purse and dumping it out. These two women who worked there, I still remember one of their names, had a "bead" on me and wouldn't let it go even in the face of evidence it wasn't me. Why they targeted me... I suspect... because I looked like a scum bag at the time. Scum bag in my definition is basically like white trailer trash, messy hair, messy outfit, not well kept nor smelling good. No offence to people who live in trailers... my relatives used to and they were fine.

I was a good nice kid, I wouldn't take a pen.

The truth is though... these women were young female/hormonally deceived idiots and I learned a great lesson not to trust women although took years to get it. A young kid who looked like me, but better looking, manipulative as F... we'll... they had the "hots" for him. They couldn't POSSIBLY see that he could be the criminal. Their horomonal blindness! He was the criminal.

I so wish I could find those women and talk them up on that issue.

People can be wrong... totally wrong... but believe they are totally right. So we have to be careful with our judgements.

I also had false accusation at work but was fired under it. It was policy of our company to lie in order to justify termination... aka "gas lighting".

Anonymous · Answer

Wow man you got screwed!

I've only had one instance that was blatant b. s. I was in high school in gym class we were running laps in the gym. Some people run, some jog, some walk, but everyone in their own little cliques I was jogging by myself and this group of girls I jogged past. One of them broke off and she was pacing right beside me I turned my head when I noticed her and she smiled. She started asking me seemingly bizarre, random questions and just then as we were passing her friends again. One of them yells to her "what are you doing talking to him"? She laughed and said "I'm talking to my friend". As she broke off the jog and joined her group of friends again. And that was the end of it. No big deal. Till a few weeks later I'm in gym class again. We were in the pool for gym that day. And since a friend of mine and I were on the swim team we decided to use the gym period to get in some extra laps (most the gym class just plays around) well we swam past her and her friends and I didn't even notice the commotion till I got to the end of the pool. But she was yelling to the gym coach that when I swam by I grabbed her crotch. Understandably the gym coach had me get out of the pool and questioned me. I wasn't even close enough to do it had I wanted to touch her. And I was so oblivious I didn't even know it was the same girl from gym class weeks before. Nothing more came of it. I don't think the gym coach believed her. But I couldn't understand why a person would do such a thing. later I came to the conclusion that she was trying to tease me on the running track but I didn't take the bait. So she was going to make me pay for it. It was my first introduction to how devious the female mind can be.

Zenit93 · Answer

I had a girl accuse me of fondling her while she was drunk when I was working as a bouncer. I saw that guys were escalating on her and trying to take her home when she was plastered. I asked her for her address, finally got it out, and got her an uber home. She couldn't walk, so I picked her up and carried her to the car. Put her seat belt on and everything. She ended up coming in the next day and telling the club owner that I was groping her. I was furious. Here I went above and beyond to protect her and do the right thing as I would want someone to do for a woman I care about in my life... then she pulls this shit. Maybe she thought I genuinely did, and mistook me as one of the other guys? Either way, there was no evidence and I had a lot of witnesses.

TexasRed95 · Answer

Yes shortly after highschool. I went on a date with this girl we were not a good match we found out. But her friend HATED me for some reason. All of our mutual friends didn't understand why. But a month or so after the date she claimed I tried to rape her. This was very quickly shut down because I brought up 2 points immediately. First she was smaller than 5ft and probably around 80-90lbs. I was 5'10" 190lbs with almost no body fat. I worked out like crazy, was in martial arts, and gymnastics. And she had an issue in her leg she was born with and couldn't move fat at all. I simply told everyone that if I wanted to rape her there wouldn't be any trying. It would happen. How would she get away? And everyone immediately came to their senses when I mentioned that.

Anonymous · Answer

Went to a gas station and parked at the next to the building where all customers walk in and when I walked out with my food and stuff there was a woman sitting on the hood of my ride I asked her nicely to get off my car cause I was leaving she said she didn't want to or had to spent like 15mins telling her to get off then she started bitching making a scene and called the cops on me telling the 911operator that I was chasing after her with a knife when the cops arrived theyve checked the security cameras and found no evidence of me chasing her with a knife karma got her well at the end

Texaskid1 · Answer

May this cunt of a woman that did this to you suffer eternal diarrhea and may she never , ever find a man for the rest of her life.

What a fucking cunt. I am sorry that you went through such shit. I have had bad experiences with women but not to this level.

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

I had to resign from a position because my direct superior, a woman, had gotten me into partaking in "side business" with her.
When we got found out, she dumped all responsibility on me, claiming I had pressured her into it.
It caused me to resign but it was clear we had equal faults, and after two days she literally copied my resignation letter, putting her name instead of mine because without me to share the blame with, she was still being investigated as the sole culprit.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah my batshit crazy ex went off the deep end when broke up with her. She tried to get me to change my mind and when I wouldn't she told me she was pregnant. When I pointed out how that was impossible she said she would accuse me of rape and that's exactly what she did. Thankfully it didn't take long for the detective to find inconsistencies in her account of what happened so the charges were dropped the next day, but that was fucking scary.

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