Are attractive people social slugs?

[Anonymous]

Group of hot girls at a party

Is it true that people who are attractive often don't have to try being social because people will always go out of their to ask them out to social events?

Also, it true that hot people often can't carry a conversation and tend to have rather boring personalities but will still have large circle of friends and people wanting to befriend them because of their looks?

Yes

No

[Starlight007]

I think its true to an an extent but there is a thing called pretty privilege whereby attractive people attain special treatment just because they look great.

Also the halo effect is real, us humans have a tendency to attribute great qualities to attractive people and bad qualities to unattractive ones, and that's disheartening.

Most of the attractive people that I have spoken to had either terrible personalities in that they were rude, unkind, cruel or they were just boring people, and usually they were shallow. But I have met very few good looking people who were absolutely amazing personality wise.

Many people want to befriend people for their looks look at social media eg. Instagram and tik tok, that's the place where only attractive people get friends and the unattractive ones are just cast aside and cyber bullied.

Even in the celebrity world it's the same all the unattractive celebrities get made fun of like a lot!, I just wish we could be normal and treat each other with fairly with respect, regardless of how we look, Looks fade, and beauty can be subjective even though there may be a large group of people you see you as attractive there will always be another large group that sees you as being average or straight up unattractive.

[jennifer_bloom]

I always found your popularity was determined by your personality and not your appearance cause I’ve been beautiful and friendless when my personality was bad, I had low confidence in my youth and that caused people to hate me.

[Asker]

yeah that's fairy tale talk.

[NathanDavis]

not necessarily, no... my friends are very attractive, and they're not like you described, but I've definitely seen a few others that were just like you described... lol

[Marianna546]

Lol i am attractive but people at school rarely do that... I guess they are weird lol