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Let's settle the debate: who faces a lot more struggles in life, men or women? (Page 2)
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Neither.
Kids, the sick and the elderly do.
C.- inadequate douchebags... and mostly because of their putrid mindsets
Everything you said here is what I thought, well said sir
men always have to initiate and approach, while females just passively got to choose yes or no
Imagine being bitter about being less wanted so you have to approach. What a troll,
Blocked.
Men struggle more but we do get the end game enjoyment of watching women suffer after 40. It isn’t even worth lying anymore, women are not equal to men. And we deserve to get some enjoyment from your inferiority.
What Struggle?
The grass is always greener on the other side. I can only speak for myself because I haven't tried being a girl and being another man. There are just some pros and cons to everything
I posted a very similar question a week or so ago. I made a poll question and that has more statistical votes than comments.
Check it out from my questions.
Bud, life doesn't discriminate based on gender who is going to suffer more or less.
Life is going to cause pain regardless of what gender you are born in.
Men.
And lets not forget it is a lot harder for a guy to get sex.
Both face struggles. It doesn’t have to be a competition.
Agreed. And if we really play that game, women have it worse overall when you include developing countries.
Yea, I was watching a video of this guy visiting another country and it was hard for him there. It made me appreciate the country I live in.
I think men and women both have struggled in life. We have different types of struggles but I think the pain is equal between all of us
Who fucking cares? Those are two GIANT groups of people. Any interesting problems to be solved need to be parsed out at a MUCH higher resolution than "half the population," "other half of the population."
I think that it is about even, but the struggles are different.
Honestly this is a tough ass question I want to see where this goes lol
I would say men but the sheer amount of women who I see traumatized by past molestations leave me to believe women have a more miserable lot in life.
Both, just in different ways, many of us are unknowing slaves to our biology.
In the US: prob pretty equal.
in Iraq: women
In Africa: women
in china: women
in myanmar: women
in indonesia: women
People with good heart struggle the most in today's toxic world. Whether men or women.
I think social class plays a bigger role. But if I had to pick, I'd say women.
I think it can be much more similar than advertised.
I am a man, I have NO idea what women endure... so I cannot "Judge"
Women's. I say so because I haven't heard a "men's right movement."
Male suicide is much higher than women. Take that as you will.
Next time say in (general) because now people are going to tell you it depends on the person blah blah blah
men tend to get less sympathy or emotional support than women do
Men but as women always think they do as they are usually small but with bigger chest. And the rest
As a man, you can be emotionally ruined, and no one will care
when was the last time an accusation was enough to ruin a woman’s entire life?
On average, men. But averages don't mean a damn thing to your personal situation.
women because they are 4 times as likely to commit suicide and be fat
No shit you decided that man had more struggles because 53 men answered and only 20 females that’s not a good ratio.
It seems most men clicked men and most women clicked women. That says something that we all face struggles and challenges
Then maybe have better reasons? I clicked men not because i am one. The points he stated are true and just because more of us agree doesn't invalidate her points.
invalidate His points*
@Keepitanomonous he listed a number of reasons why it’s hard to be a man because he is a man. I did not see a single entry for why a woman struggles. In order to have an unbiassed pole or discussion the topping points must be equal. This was very heavyhanded towards men.
Woman are constantly sexually harassed solely because of their gender.
Woman are very often discredited in the work place. There was a literal story about 2 workers of different genders. The male coworker openly admitted that the female coworker was a better employee and smarter. However when she talked on the phone with Male customers they would disregard her. When the male coworker talk to male customers they listen to him. They decided to swap names. Suddenly the female coworker who is going Andre male name was treated with respect while the male coworker who is going female name was disregarded.
Females are told that that after child birth they must stay at home and no longer peruse any dreams they may have had.
Females are sold into sex trafficking.
In some countries females are not allowed to walk outside without a male counterpart.
Girls are sold of and forced to marry much older men in many countries.
Females are told that they can’t wear certain clothes because it attracts unwanted attention.
There are barely any females in positions of power and it’s not for a lack of trying.
The are constantly at battle over their bodies and their reproductive rights.
Domestic abuse is rampant. Did you know that in England they actually out out posts saying that women should stay away from home during football games. Why? Because of their man’s team loses there is a major possibility they will be beaten because of it.
There are more examples of men cheating then women.
Female mutilation still exists.
As a man you’re most likely to fight in a war - Men enlist so that’s on them.
As a man you’re most likely to be a victim of violent crime - Because men are more likely to commit a violent crime.
As a man you’re most likely to be a homicide victim - same point as before
As a man you’re most likely to end up incarcerated - well don’t kill people.
As a man you’re least likely to get a custody over your kid (if it goes to court) - I agree with this one.
As a man you’re more likely to pay more in divorce cases - that’s an issue but what up about the many times where a man cheats or beats his wife?
As a man you’re going to pay more in child support - due to the fact that many men force their wives to stay at home and not have a career. Do you think money grows on trees?
As a man you’re most likely to get into conflict (fights etc) - I’ve never been in a fight. Why? Because I have the ability to choose whether to fight or just walk away and live a pleasant life.
As a man society expects you to be tough, masculine, not cry or open up and suppress your emotions - society as a whole does not expect that. Just the idiots and shitty women. You have the choice to walk away from those situations. The difference is that most women that try and walk away cannot.
As a man you’re more likely to commit suicide - that’s true and I think a big reason why is because they choose to do all the things above.
I am a man. I accidentally chose woman for my profile. I do agree that men have issues. However the difference here is that men choose to continue to live in a toxic world because they are insecure to be themselves.
Women have been forced for centuries to basically be slaves. You know the saying ball and chain? Men say that about their women however in actuality it’s the men lock their women up.
Not to be rude but what a lot of people call sexual harassment really isn't sexual harassment. If some people think everything is sexual they need to get their heads out of the gutter.
Well, Would u prefer if a man or a woman told a womans problems? Because i feel there are a lot of ways u could misread a man if he explains a womans problems.
Woman are constantly sexually harassed solely because of their gender.
Can say the same about men. It's called gender norms and stuff like that. Besides, Women now are claiming opening doors for them is sexual harrasment. Feminist throw around words like rape and sexual abuse asif its nothing. There is such a broad definition of what is classified as sexual harrasment for females but none for males. Besides, If a woman sucks cuz she sucks not because she's a woman. But its all too easy for her to bemoan "sexual harrasment"
Females are told that after childbirth they must stay at home and no longer pursue any dreams they may have had.
Females are told that they are empowered and independant and can do whatever they want. Abortion is real, So is birth control and even adoption but if u were still unresponslible and had the baby anyway you got to deal with the consequences. You need to be present for your child if you still want to mother him/her. And if that's too much responsibility to handle while trying to pursue your dreams then you should've thought out having kids. My mom is more of a business woman than she is a mom.
Females are sold into sex trafficking.
Agreed, but a more accurate sentence would be that females are predominantly sold into sex trafficking. Your statement makes it seem like they aren't male victims of sex trafficking. Which is the point were trying to make. Men are seen always as a second priority than women. Every disaster scenario women and children are given more chances because they are seen as weaker. Imagine being denied life because ur born a specific gender.
Females are told that they can’t wear certain clothes because it attracts unwanted attention.
Do you want to attract that unwanted attention? Because that statement can be most certainly true. If you trust the people around you. You can sure as hell wear whatever u want or not wear anything if ud prefer, but if ur walking near unfamiliar people you won't know if they are not going to rape you. I'm not victim blaming here but folk should wear clothes that are appropriate for the area that they are in. If u want to wear something scampy then u can visit a beach. If ur going to highlight parts that people are sexually attracted to there's obviously going to be a higher risk of them coming to rape you. Attracting that type of attention is concerning to say the least. Especially if you already have a relationship with someone.
sorry for putting this out of order but here this is.
In some countries females are not allowed to walk outside without a male counterpart.
Girls are sold of and forced to marry much older men in many countries.
Those countries are really stupid. But its up to the women there if they want to conform to tradition or if they want to say something about it. I Live in a country that has historically been known to be really shitty toward women and even this country has reformed. What those people need is better education because its not always just the men spreading stuff like this. The women in those countries as well have been so brainwashed or so complacent to traditions and religion that they too teach their girls the same things.
There are barely any females in positions of power and it’s not for a lack of trying.
According to the Pew Research Center The predominant reason for women to not get into positions of power is many interruptions related to motherhood. Which goes back to my point before, You either choose your child or your goals. That is ofc if ur goals require persistence, and reliability. Things that are also required by your child. If ur able to divide the responsibility u should be able to handle both.
They are constantly at battle over their bodies and their reproductive rights.
You have the rights to abortion, Birth control and even if the baby comes out you are able to send it out for adoption or take money from the father as childcare money. There are women out there with 5 or 6 kids and are solely living off the money from childcare.
Domestic abuse is rampant
Domestic abuse affects men as well but no one believes men when they come out with stories of domestic abuse. Above that its way too easy for a women to accuse a man of domestic abuse or anything else for that matter. No proof is necessary and it's guilty unless proven otherwise for the man. not to mention other accusations u can throw around.
There are more examples of men cheating than women.
Mens cheating is very physical and that's it. They wouldn't care for that woman after the deed is done. Yes male cheating may be more but it has far less emotion in it. Its simply sexual urge that drives the cheating. Female cheating, Although not as often, is much less emotionless. Females tend to form lasting relationships with the ones they are cheating with.
Female mutilation still exists.
Male mutilation still exists.
Men enlist so that’s on them.
You do know that we are required to enlist if we want to do basic things like voting or having a car right? It's a mandatory assignment if you want certain privileges and it only affects men. If the country decides to go to war and have a shortage of soldiers any man who fits the standards could just be picked up and drafted.
Because men are more likely to commit a violent crime.
That's probably because of the massive expectations and complete lack of male mental healthcare. Besides, It's not like they go unpunished. If a man does something wrong he is sentenced accordingly (like it should be) but there are people out there who reduce sentences for women who've committed the same if not worse crimes because of the simple reason that they are a woman. Susan Anderson, A very old feminist who was a big head in the gaining of female rights. Was sentenced to prison for voting (because back then women couldn't vote) but the people decided that she didn't need to go to prison because she was a woman and was pretty much let out with a slap on the wrist. She told them that she wanted to go to prison and serve her sentence because she wanted equality not privilege.
well don’t kill people.
Same point as before, Its not only men who commit crimes but it is only men who get punished adequately.
I agree with this one.
I respect that.
I’ve never been in a fight. Why? Because I have the ability to choose whether to fight or just walk away and live a pleasant life.
Are you implying men can't do the same? Because that's incredibly sexist. And if you do think that we always feel a spontaneous need to fight then give us credit for not always doing it and holding back.
society as a whole does not expect that. Just the idiots and shitty women. You have the choice to walk away from those situations. The difference is that most women that try and walk away cannot.
A. And most men try to walk away from that try but can't. There are multiple shows, Ads and feminists who rightfully spread the word that women have no obligation to live up to societal expectations. But I'm certain you can't think of one such thing for a man right? Are u sure women are the ones who can't walk away from this? At Least most people realise its a problem for women but for men that isn't the case.
That's true and I think a big reason why is because they choose to do all the things above.
A. So they choose to be expected to be tough, Masculine, Not cry or ever open up? They choose to be least likely to get custody of their kid? They choose to have to pay more divorce cases? I usually dont stoop down to derogatory insults and No offence but this reasoning is shit. I used to think that this title was a bit of a exaggeration but this is pretty accurate to how ur behaving. Look up: Problems that society ignore and blame on men
I do agree that men have issues. However the difference here is that men choose to continue to live in a toxic world because they are insecure to be themselves.
A. And the answer is to commit suicide? Why live in a toxic world right? I'm absolutely bamboozled to the fact that you are ur not seeing the problem. Society hates men so much that they are feeling insecure about themselves. And ur gonna blame that on them too?
@Keepitanomonous nobody can ever help anyone just a way to kick someone while they are down.
Probably men. Not to say women don’t face difficulties because they do. So much is expected of men it doesn’t compare in my opinion.
I accidently pushed woman... But yea, man have it much harder. It's obvious. They have to do all the work in relationships and everywhere.
Also, we woman are superior to man. We control society and we rule the world. We are more beautiful, we have tits and ass, and we have pussy. We are more cute, and we can do everything a man can. We don't have to approach, we don't have to pay for dates, we can last in bed as long as we want.
Man should feel lucky when they have a Goddess girlfriend like us.
Life is just a joy for us woman, and we deserve every second of it.
Also, who gives birth to a child. Us woman. I rest my case.
One last thing. We also don't have to worry about our penis size.
You didn't add the girls problems so kinda biased
Reading that. I'd agree... Men do
Lol the gender differences in voting haha
Summed up already quite well...
Bro you started the debate for feminism here.
No surprise here. Women in denial. Womp womp
How do you ladies read that list, shrug your little shoulders, and slam that pink button?
How do you men, read a list which shows only one gender's struggle and nod your giant heads and smash the blue button?
@avery_111 because it's the only list. Lol what do you have on suicide? You'd think that'd be enough but nooo
You know it's not even worth explaining to you so I'll save my time
@avery_111 save your time. You just don't have the time to explain. Clearly you know, there's just no time.
I love being a woman 😩😩
Lmao what a bitter man such a clown
What a P*SSY.
I never seen a guy B! CH so goddam much!
I feel like I got more testosterone than that! 😂
And I ain’t even a guy!
We got a bloody mess of a period, that feels like pure diarrhea pain every single month of our adult lives…
And this guy is talking about un-aliving himself.
Gotta have a pencil-d*ck
Depends on the person not the gender
Its equal in their own way
A debate that will never end sadly
Men have to do everything in the beginning
I have the Most Struggles mee
both have their own type of struggles.
Men.
Men, not even close.
Ugly men.
Boo, Hoo, Poor Men!
You call in to work because of menstruation. B O O H O O.
@Agagagagaga I'd like to see you bleed through your vagina once a month and give birth dude.
Wonder why you're single. You have a problem with men. Would you ever be with a sexist man? I doubt it. So why would any self respecting man be with you? Like... ever?
and if you do have someone I know he sucks and you aren't happy
Boo, Hoo, Poor Women!
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