Can a person be named after they asked to be Left anonymous when calling for an emergency dispute for the police to come to my apartment?

[starfoxxy64]

I had been dealing with my housemate who has been living with my mother and me since 2018 which is hell with him actually slamming my door so hard that the door frame is cracking every time it gets slammed hard. Which I had called the few months ago after my House mate was becoming extremely verbally and mentally abusive towards my mother who is 73 years old and myself ; I had actually requested The dispatcher to be left anonymous which never happened at. all. So the police officers came in and then asked if I was the lady who had called. I was told them yes. But fearfully because HM was standing behind them giving me a evil Cold stare down at me right in my eyes. Because I guess they are allowed to tell the person who called on the 911 dispatcher for police dispatch to the apartment which I don't believe because I asked to be anonymous. Also with my mother and I being 2 females with a male who definitely have the strength to ha us which I pray he does not turn out to be that why even though he had been just very verbally abusive towards me and my mother who had got sick of his ass and told him that he needed to calm down since the police had given him a verbal warning the last time that the neighbor upstairs has been calling on our apartment due to the shouting and arguments between my housemate. And at the last he actually was calm and listening to rock bands on his YouTube account which I guess the neighbor did not enjoy his singing. Yet the police came to the apartment and he was told by 1 of the 4 cops - 3 males and 1 female cops which "If they get any more calls to this apartment they will have to be forced to arrest some one ! " Stated the female officer which my housemate was not having with any of them since he actually was alone at the apartment while he had been singing. Which nonsense because the police are making it way bigger then it since the female police officer has never been sent with her partner to the address at all during any of the issues

[DannyUk2017]

They are usually Named, i know its annoying, but for the sake of the person calling police should keep their "word" but seems its not happening.

[starfoxxy64]

I know because if I had been in more danger then what I am thankful I am not in my ex boyfriend who had been extremely toxic which I was sexual abuse , raped by him during his and our toxic relationship 1 year and I fearful because he had threatened place on my mother and father at the time along with my pet.. which I was too fearful at the time with the bastard ex boyfriend to report him. The ex low life actually never got charged because he had hired a lawyer to help his grandmother who already knew how f***** up her grandson has been. It was it. I just don't know why the police can't keep their word because there are people who actually need help and now don't know if they can trust the police even more than even.

[DannyUk2017]

That is one issue, some of the Cops are corrupt!

[starfoxxy64]

Well I sadly live in IL , US which now is turning backwards in time. Instead of us hoping for any future.

[DannyUk2017]

In Uk is not very "sunshine" situation either... some over use the "power" they get, so yeah! But luckily when u ask for anonimity YOU REMAIN ANNONYM, so when they come and ask question they go with... "we had a report, weheard" so they get straight to the issue without putting the reporting person in "danger"...

[jshm2]

Obviously.

But you're forgetting that it's rare to be called out to deal with a housemate.

You should be looking to evict the housemate, by the way.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

If said housemate isn't on the paperwork for the residence, you can kick them out with no legal work required. Otherwise, get a lawyer.

[starfoxxy64]

Well my own aunt and cousins actually own the apartment building where I live yet this house mate actually only moved in with my mother and I ; as we were going through a huge issue with being homeless in 2018 which thankfully my cousin and aunt had a apartment which yeah had issue with few things yet they are going to get everything fixed now and we are planning to have to be relocating to another apartment which will be fixed in about 4 more months. Yet this housemate is giving my mom and us stress and he has a child and a girlfriend who lives at his own mother's house right now and he claims they had a 10 year restraining order by his mother who was on drugs and had attack the housemate while he was trying to stop his mom from attacking or hurting anyone with a kitchen knife. Yet I guess his mom placed an order against at the time.

[Anonymous]

From what I understand that is correct.