What is your opinion on "kawaii" or "lolita/nymphet" fashion?

[Anonymous]

Some people think it's too childish and grown women wearing these things "sexualizes children". Others think it's absolutely fine and just "overly feminine". What do you think?

• Kawaii definition: "(in the context of Japanese popular culture) cute."
• Lolita definition: "Although the term 'Lolita' has sexual connotations in Western culture due to the book of the same name by Vladimir Nabokov, in Japanese culture it refers to cuteness, elegance and modesty."
• Nymphet definition: "a sexually attractive girl or young woman."

Here is an example of a Japanese Lolita

More of a princess look than childish

Here is an American Lolita/nymphet

And lastly, here is Kawaii

It's too childish but I don't think it's sexualizing anything

It's childish AND it's sexualizing kids

It's not childish it's just very girly

I have a different opinion for each style

[NathanDavis]

not precisely my favorite style but I do appreciate it... it's cute AF

as for the other part of the question, my head is on the right mindset... so of course I don't have any kind of twisted or negative notions about these fashion/style and concepts... whoever sees any of this as wrong and sick and what not, well they just want to see it that way and associate with that creepy shit, lol, that's their choice

to me, it just a, very creative style and it can be great looking fashion, and I am sure that for all the girls that are into it... it must be a lot of fun to try and dress up in any way they do find aesthetically pleasing for them so I don't have any kind of problem with that

[NewsReader]

Reminds me of the movie "Russian Lolita". Now I get it. I'm gonna say that it's just a feminine dress UNTIL or UNLESS you treat it or make it as if it's a sexual thing. In some private schools they have girls wear skirts and knee-high socks. That outfit can look sexual. But it's only sexual if you treat it that way. Otherwise it's just a feminine outfit.

[Whatthefluff]

Not something I see people wearing every day. Kind of like the things people wear on runways. Really not practical or resourceful for everyday activities. But if you like it, you do you ig

[Cottonpinku]

I’m hunting anybody that says it sexualizing minors like, how the he-

[molonski2]

Particularly common in certain parts of Asia , I dont hate it , but its certainly not my favorite , plus generally it takes a lot of work to look like a doll.

Of the pictures , maybe the black socks one , but I dont like the " little kid " element , had a Japanese girl , who always dressed like this and at the time she was mid 30 s.

[AviatorTom]

Look at the girl in the short white skirt with "LOLITA" on the wall. That's pushing the story of an underage girl who gets seduced by an older man to repeatedly have sex with him.

[Asker]

I agree. But maybe manipulated is the right word instead of seduced.

[AviatorTom]

@vendela I can agree with that

[Aerolyn]

I mean, I think it's cute, but nothing much other than that.

[Asker]

Hold up... I know you... your pfp has a chicken in it

[Aerolyn]

@Vendela no, I'm not Donta, why would you think I'm Donta?

That's like, totally outrageous for you to think.

Yeah, it's me, Donta.

[Asker]

🤣🤣🤣 how are you?

[Aerolyn]

I'd prefer to tell you in dm if you don't mind.

[Agent_Elflord]

Not my thing, makes me think of people who are into the whole “Little” DDLG subculture and stuff. I do love vintage fashion and know some models on IG who mix it with “princess-core” fashion which can be pretty cute.

[monkeynutts]

Some of the costumes are very amazing, particularly the top 2 pictures. I don't have a problem with it if my partner thought it was her style. I have dated a girl that are a European version of this.

[Guardian45]

Living in Japan for 3 years, I saw TOO MUCH of dat SH! T! There's WORSE TOO!

So, NO kawaii, Lolita, nymphettes for me, Thank You!

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Those first two are a wee over doing it unless there’s some big event or something

[Sandeeppingping]

Kawaii Leonard? Dude's got an amazing laugh

[Asker]

You're not funny... there was no vagueness about my post, it's very clearly about the fashion style...

[Sandeeppingping]

@vendela😂😂😂😂you're funny though, I genuinely didn't think the answer would get such a response I feel like I killed someone's parents😂😂

[Asker]

Years of being on this site, makes a person quick to get snappy snappy

[Sandeeppingping]

Sorry to hear that my friend, can't blame you though I've seen that complaint throughout the site it's even far worse for you since that you've been here for a century

[Sandeeppingping]

To answer your question though I find it as what it is, cute and could be sexy depending on the outfit, as long as it's not children wearing it that way I don't see any problem with it

[Asker]

Thank you

[AsaKyo]

I like the style

[Dargil]

I disagree with your premise.

[Asker]

"My" premise? I didn't really state my opinion anywhere, these are just things I pulled off of the web and are commonly talked about...

[Dargil]

Your post and pole makes its own statement.

[Asker]

Its just a question bud. You have no idea what my stance is. Nymphet and Lolita fashion is controversial all on it's own. If you don't like it then don't comment

[Jay3344]

Looks bad to me.

[Anonymous]

The black stockings pic is hot.

[Jenny-Marie]

I love it.