Redirecting ad honestly as possible, how attractive is kindness for you in relationships 1-10? (Page 2)

VIVANT · 2022-10-06T20:05:30Z

For me it’s a sheer 10 it will trump pretty much any other trait. I get used to people being abut sh! tty or like wheee they are tying to be kind but it’s a chore. Once in a while you cone across a truly kind person where you can see the joy they get in just being at peace with people & it is so beautiful. Kind of intoxicating. I do not mean weak or ineffectual. Kindness in my opinion different than “being nice” comes with wisdom and strength inherent within & it isn’t arbitrarily doled out in any situation that calls for something more. Anyhow, I think it’s kind of tropes like everyone wants someone kind but very often not what people end up going for - which is curious. And I’m saying after the facade is broken and whomever was pretending to be kind really isn’t. I don’t think that in itself drives everyone away tho logically, it should. Tho I suppose shouldn’t be surprising as there is a general social incoherence regarding what seems good snd preferable with what we gravitate towards, and perhaps this is learnt…Stuff we are chastised as children for going to other children is encouraged once we reach adulthood. 🤷🏻♀️

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High kindness towards me and medium kindness towards others.

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Kindness is a must but there are times to not be

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10/10
The skyscrapper girl is a 10 when it comes to such traits 😌

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None! I like women like Amber Heard.
Strong and independent type.

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About a 7. I value loyalty above it.

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Kindness is always great

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Kindness to me and my allies, yes

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I say top if score range

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I'm a 7. mostly cuz I'm too honest

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hot and kindddd

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10 for me.

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Definitely a 10

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10 yes!!

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