I think a lot of the black community here in The states has a concept of needing to preserve their heritage and so they often try to look within for relationships. That is starting to change more and more and over the last 15-20 years the mixed couples rate has shot through the roof but there are a lot who still expect it. My ex was black and she said that there was a lot of black people that she met who pout these crazy expectations on her because she was one of like 10 black people in her town. It was a small town. But you just got to ignore peoples stupid ideas and live your life!
Whoever is judging you on why you are dating whites, have no life and have nothing else better to do, but to judge and gossip with their most likely low life friends. I personally don't date black women, because A LOT of them (not all, but A LOT) became too corrupt, too uncontrollable, too loud and too in your face. A lot of them are acting like men and I don't need a man with vagina in my life, I need a Woman.
Next time you check your junk mail, notice the configurations of the couple in the pic.
(I mean paper mail, and pizza ads)
It's almost always a black man/white woman. You will see a few black/black.
And a few white/white
But you will never see the white man/black woman. Society just isn't ready for that.
I don’t know. I’m also a black girl and I also have dated 3 white guys and 0 black guys. I’ve dated one black girl though and that was amazing.
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Everyone wants what they can’t have. When you mix color in with that it is a recipe for name calling at the least. You have told them that they could never have you and you have hurt their ego. You have poured salt into the wound of their pride and ego.
Because they think both white women and you black women are their property, so when you black women find love in another man's arms they think you're too rebellious. 😆
They aren't "like that". They probably think you're being abused, trafficked, or fetishized.
It's because of the children you will produce, you can easly mix someone but it's not so easy to unmix them.
Because black men think that black girls belong to them so they see you as a category traitor.
People don’t like to miss out on opportunities. It becomes personal, even if you don’t know them.
They were raised to view women as inferior. They feel that choosing a White degrades them.
Is there something you particularly like about the white guys you've met?
Not a good idea too ask for white peoples opinion on this.
Some people don't like the idea of interracial relationships and think we should all date within our own race..
Dunno what their problem is
because you're attractive and they're jealous.
Coz they are immature and jealous.,
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