Sleepover on a 4th date?

[Anonymous]

this guy asked me on a sleepover, and I just want to watch movies.. and play video games and stuff.. is it weird to go sleepover when you don't want to have sex with him?(especially when it's only 4th date)

[ALWAYSclassy]

Don't even go. It's only the 4th date and he's trying to sleep over? no, sweetie, he's trying to F You C K! He's not just trying to watch movies and play video games with you, don't be naive. If you don't plan on having sex with him don't even put yourself in that situation. Tell him you'd like to do something else. You can tell him "I don't intend on having sex" all you want to, but that's probably going to make him try to convince you to do it even more. Like I said, why even go? Men and women don't have sleepovers just to be friendly.

[Anonymous]

a little weird because he's expecting sex and you're not

[parkmonky]

well if you have no desire to sleep with him why do you keep going on dates with him...? if you don't want to sleep with you you obviously don't want to date him. Stop playing games with the guy...

[Asker]

well I don't want to rush anything and obviously it's too fast! don't you think?

[Anonymous]

no not really. but you have to tell him you don't have any intention of having sex... make sure he knows that so you don't have an uncomfortable situation later...