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+1 yNerd opinion incoming, but…. other than long-term lifestyle choices like eating poorly, driving is the most dangerous thing most of us do everyday. Actually just watched a short video clip showing a car being crashed into a pole at different speeds. 35 mph was the last speed I saw where I was like “this would result in minor injury at worst.” They showed it at 50 mph, and I was like “ok, this is the first speed where it looks like your rib cage and vital organs could be crushed by the steering wheel being smashed into your torso. 80 mph, forget about it, the car was accordion’d.
I see most people driving around like shit is sweet, acting like it can’t happen. Texting, eating, making phone calls, engaged in animated conversation with their passenger, etc. I’m of the mind that when you’re driving, you should be JUST DRIVING. Pay attention at all times, not just to what you’re doing, but to what vehicles around you are doing, too. Don’t get competitive and not allow people to change lanes in front of you, or get in these “no, I’M the one the right of way!” battles. Heard a great quote: “cemeteries are filled with people who had the right of way.” Like when the light turns green, I still look both ways before taking off, just to make sure some other idiot coming the other way isn’t on their phone and unaware of the red light.
When I was like 14, I was going to the mall with my mom, and all these cars had pulled over on the highway overpass. There was a big accident scene on the highway below, and we stopped to see, too. It was towards the end of it, didn’t really look like THAT devastating of an accident, wasn’t like a crumpled up ball of steel, it just looked like a car in the fast lane hit the cement wall in the middle between the northbound and southbound lanes.
The two things I saw next, I’ll never forget. One was the ambulance pulling away, no sirens, no lights, no urgency. Driver was definitely DOA. And right after that, the fire truck hose came out, one of the firemen sprayed the ground by the accident, it went up and off the center wall, and it was blood red, like a shark attack in progress. I knew at that moment that driving was something I would never, EVER fuck around with. The stakes are too high.
Another thing I once read was that past 60 mph, a car accident victim will be assumed to have suffered spinal cord damage by medical personnel. That doesn’t mean it always happens, but you’re in danger of it even at UNDER the speed limit on most highways. Being stuck in a wheelchair, unable to kill myself, is literally my worst nightmare, so you can count on me taking it real slow.
Other thing is police. I live my life with a very deliberate goal of never having to interact with law enforcement personnel. The easiest way to find yourself in one of these interactions is by committing driving infractions. Like it’s literally part of the plan to give an innocent cause to check out people they decide are suspicious. There are a good amount of cops in the recreational hockey scene where I am, and I’ve literally heard conversations about whether or not they’ll enforce this or that, and basically it was said “if they decide they want to pull someone over, they can come up with some reason for a stop.” That is FUCKED, almost makes me not want to drive at all.
So you will find me in the right lane, cruise control set to the exact limit, always. Please miss me with your dirty looks and middle fingers…. the person going the speed limit is never, ever wrong for doing so. Everyone else’s impatience is irrelevant. I pledge to only use the left lane for passing, but if I’m passing the semi truck going 60 and I’m at 65 in the passing lane, I’m still right, because no one is supposed to be OVER 65, period. So I really don’t appreciate when I hop in the lane for literally 5 seconds to pass, and Johnny Ford F-150 is flashing his headlights at me, flying up my ass at 90 mph, like it’s MY bad that he’s speeding. Kindly GTFOH.
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@Staximus love the chirp, actually, that was solid😂
But I don’t know, man, my stupid haircut (or lack thereof) seems to get me more suspicious looks than my previous shorter, slightly-less-stupid did. Like I’m noticing people locking their car door in the parking lot when they see me heading back to my car and we pass on their way into a store. That never used to happen, I would just hear people of color say white folks would do it to them. Maybe some of it is just chance timing, for me or them, but either way, I’m like “oof…I get it now. That kinda hurt my feelings.”, lmfao. I’ll hold the door for cops at a convenience store, they seem less friendly and more stern. I don’t know, the dumb hair comes with a lot of judgement. - +1 y
@Unknown29 I don’t need to get into the overall state of law enforcement, I’m just saying that, for me, personally, I choose to avoid interaction. Like what positive outcome is possible for me in that scenario? I navigate through life seeking positive outcomes and averting negative ones, that’s top priority. I just don’t need any bad vibes in my zone, I simply can’t allow it. The best case scenario is my time gets wasted, and I’m not looking to have that happen. The worst case scenario is they decide my behavior doesn’t align with the standards of someone other than my own and my very freedom is in jeopardy. I choose to eliminate interaction to eliminate that risk.
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1.9K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. Driving the speed limit on the freeway in most places in California will get you killed - you will be holding up the entire flow of cars. But the "normal" speed is about 10 MPH over the limit, or about 75 MPH most places. This is fast, but most people can drive this speed relatively safely.
But over the last 10 years or so, there have increasingly been people who drive like they're playing Grand Theft Auto - weaving through traffic at 130+ MPH, crossing 4 lanes of traffic in 1 second, driving on the shoulder, etc. And unsurprisingly, they often crash, only it's a lot more serious than it is on their game console.
As I said at the top, driving too slow is nearly as dangerous as driving too fast, and probably every other day I have to deal with someone driving in a middle lane of a 4-5 lane freeway doing 55 (10 MPH under the posted limit, and 20 MPH slower than the flow of traffic), and they're causing LOTS of near-misses and sometimes actual crashes (I've seen them happen many times myself).
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648 opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. I'm black. So that should answer it right there.
And for those who don't get it... do you know what a cop sees when they see a black person? target practice. :D
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That’s racist
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@BarryLiverstone How?
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If a cop only pulls over someone based on their skin color it’s racist
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If the driver is breaking the law then it’s not
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@BarryLiverstone Okay cool bud, have a good day :D
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You are well bud
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**as
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@Unknown29 i do. I also got pulled over in AL when i was driving a teammate. They had me get out the car, and ask the white teammate if i kidnapped her.
So yeah we don't get our info from cnn. Stop being a little bitch and lighten up.
I swear people like you so soft and easily offended. You ever get embarrassed being this soft - +1 y
Actually, I’m not being soft. I’m standing up for what I think is right, and everybody should. In that instance and some others you’re right. Police can be racist and I definitely don’t stand for that. But the vast majority of instances I think police are fair and polite. Let me ask you, why were you pulled over? Did you treat them in a way that would make them think you kidnapped your teammate?
If not I agree, they were probably being racist, and I’m definitely against racism.
If I seem racist, you’ve took me wrong.
Also, I don’t appreciate being called a b**** - +1 y
@Unknown29 and it's my question and she is my friend
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@Unknown29 Sooo uuuh... got caught up in traffic for an hour or ran out of ice cream before the movie started? Or is it something worse that got you a little miffed? Ya know, i'm a good listener if you wanna talk
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@Unknown29 Buuut you said you were talking to me. But if that's the case, try to keep that way. Such emotions can send you to your grave early <3
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@sour-rose He is just ridiculous he purposely took this question and tried to start drama with everyone he disagreed with. Ya know i don't allow drama on my questions. Quickest way to get blocked and removed.
You make a joke and he loses all control of his emotions.
He can take that stupidness elsewere. It doesn't make him look tough, it just makes him look soft. Trying to be a big tough guy from his phone, or computer. - +1 y
@sour-rose
My original question was to you.
@msputiton answered and I had a conversation with her.
What emotions are you talking about?
What made you think I got “miffed”?
I’m just trying to defend police from a bad rep they don’t deserve.
I really don’t get your point here.
What got you so mad? You’re very immature.
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I have strong feelings, yes.
But what I think is ridiculous, is saying police use black people for target practice. You obviously didn’t mean it as a joke, because you told me your story of police discriminating you, and either you’re not telling the whole story, or none of it’s true.
And I’m not trying to be big tough guy either, that’s a false statement.
4.5K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. Mostly speed. I only go the speed limit when it’s raining, when I know cops are nearby, or when I’m stuck behind slow asses.
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+1 yThis depends on your situation and where you are driving, in the US in most states they got rid of the cops who enforce traffic, so it will be rare to get a speeding ticket. Though in some states, counties and municipalities they are well funded. I tend to stick to a 5 to 8 in a city. In California they don't enforce anything less than 80MPH CHP only.. Though some counties will catch you over 70.. confusing as hell but you have to know the area. In another state yes, you don't want to 5mph over any speed, and ZERO over in school zones with kids present.
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+1 yIt all depends on where I'm driving, how long the drive is, and who my passengers are at the time.
Any children in the car? No speeding over 5 mph.
Short drive or in town? Nope.
Long drive on the highway? Yep. Zooooom!
Longer drive on the highway? I mash the pedal to the floor.
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+1 yI tend to be a speeder. When you drive car like this it would be a crime not to.

That said I still keep an eye out for others.
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@Sun_Kim-Ai dude my 99 suburban will dust that Hyundai wagon haha
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@TrueConfection a 140000€ worth station wagon lol.
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Yeahhhh... Still not sexy. Sorry!
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@TrueConfection my father thought the same. He had a passion for Porsches.
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I like Porsches too.
+1 yBeing always on foot, in a public transport, and sometimes on bike, I'm not sure to even be able to trespass the speed limits, not as far as I'm aware of, because maybe I walk faster than most people ;0)
30 Replyobey the speed limits but I have been done for speeding once in my life, one of those got to get across this roundabout or be there for ages and a camera was there 38 miles an hour
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yAs you get older hair starts growing in weird places. In your ears, your nose, your back and eyebrows. What I discovered last week after an itchy butthole I was scratching was a hair that had grown up into my anus and I pulled it out and plucked it off, the hair was as long as 2ft.
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+1 yGo with the flow. That means faster than the limit.
40 Reply I'd rather spend my money on fun things than hefty speeding tickets, so if I'm going to speed it's usually only 2-3 miles over the speed limit.
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+1 yI’m a cautious speeder. If I’m the only one on the road, I will do 5 over. Max. If I’m not the only car on the road I will go as fast as the car in the passing lane but in the middle lane 2 mph slower.
30 ReplyI’m a dominant, independent type, but I’m also perfectionist, and have respect for the law, safety and the police, so I definitely obey the law.
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+1 yI am a speeder. I am way too heavy on the peddles…
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+1 yIn traffic! I always drive as the speed limit says. On track! Come and get me :D
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+1 yI obey the limit, but on our high ways the speed limit is pleasing lol
30 Reply 27.2K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. I consider speed limits as more of a suggestion.
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+1 yI be hauling ass but I don't do anything I'm not comfortable doing behind the wheel so I don't take risks, because when you step out of that comfort zone, that's when accidents happen
10 Reply3.2K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. I drive 10% above limit, somehow I'm lucky and never paid a ticket for speeding.
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+1 yI stay within 5 miles of the limit. In residential areas, I drive the limit. On the highway, cruise control at 7 miles over.
30 Reply Mostly obey but sometimes ten over. Typically stay with traffic flow.
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+1 yI stick pretty close to the speed limit. I may do 10 over on the highway but that's about it, I don't go crazy blowing by everyone.
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+1 yGuilty of speeding to a degree. Tend to go speed limit when passing speed traps or where I know cops frequent.
10 Reply 1.1K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. Maybe a little downhill because it feels like a waste to break to reduce speed, if there isn't any danger involved and the foot is of the gas.
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+1 ySpeed, but even when I do I'm getting passed up
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+1 yI usually do whatever speed most if the traffic is doing. Here in SOUTHEAST US, that is usually faster than the speed limit.
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+1 yObey? I thought that shit was for insurance.
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u +1 yUsually +20 km/h, sometimes +40 km/h on certain parts of the highway (empty lane, at night…).
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+1 yI'm careful, you can trust me to drive you home safely. I'm also a turtle as in I stop at the slightest hint of doubt.
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+1 yI drive at a speed that I feel appropriate for the road, sometimes speed limits seem overly cautious. Never had a ticket in over 20yrs of driving
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+1 yI drive like one of those car guys😂so, a speeder forsure
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+1 yI drive safely… sometimes that’s well over the speed limit but never beyond my ability.
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+1 yIn town I stay pretty close, on the highway I see it as more of a suggestion
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+1 yAlways speeding on the highways, but side streets I stay at the limit
30 Reply 2.4K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. Back in 1999 I took my 66 Chevelle down a hill at about 150 miles an hour. It was suicidal going that fast in a car that old. Fucking terrifying
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+1 yI drive at 100 mph very often, What does that tell you
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That you're lucky to have a license & be alive!
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+1 yNot always tbh. If I do go faster than the speed limit it is depending on a few factors. Where I’m going, how bad traffic is, speed limit in that area
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+1 yI do NOW. I almost lost my license from 3 consecutive speeding tickets when I was 25!
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+1 yI follow the speed limit in populated areas. On the open road, I go maybe 5-10 mph over, but rarely.
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+1 yI am when nobody is around. If I am going to be dangerous I will do it by myself to drag nobody with me.
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+1 yI'm usually at the limit or so little above that I won't get in trouble. I don't want points on my licence, totally not worth it.
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+1 yWhy you tryin to make people snitch on themselves, tf?
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+1 yI try to follow the limit just to many cameras where I live lose your license really fast
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+1 yWhen I drove, I did the speed limit every time.
10 ReplyI obey my own speed limit. It's defined by traction.
10 Reply1.7K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. I've never gotten a fine, but speed limits are.. suggestions..
10 ReplyI don't know how to drive, but pretty sure I'd obey the rules if I did :)
20 ReplyEveryone’s a speeder 😂
13 Reply314 opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. I am a good girl at school zones Only 🤣
34 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. I'm totally a "good girl"!
20 ReplyI tend to speed just not excessively 🙂
10 Reply1K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. Yes I do obey speed limits.
10 Reply2.5K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. I’m a speeder.
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+1 ySpeed limit most of the time.
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+1 yI obey the speed limit for the most part
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20 ReplyI’m always in a rush
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+1 ythey are 5 traffic cameras all by me.
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And?
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Do you take a lot of selfies?🤪
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@Guardian45 Na. but people usually ram them with their cars. I seen 2 women do it
1.6K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. Cruise control set 5-7 miles over.
10 Reply11.6K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. Everyone goes 10 over here in SoCal.
10 ReplyI always try to follow the speed rules.
10 Reply18.6K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. I’m white. Of course!
10 Reply4.8K opinions shared on Society & Politics topic. Yes I do and I STILL get pulled over
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