Why do men think they have a say if a woman aborts or not when 95% of the time she's aborting because whoever her man is is a douchebag?

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Yes there's women who use abortion as birth control. I am NOT talking about them.

I am talking in general. Outside of rape or birth defects the most typical reason why a woman aborts a child is because her boyfriend, husband, fiance is a douchebag.

So why should men have any say in if a woman aborts when given that 95% of the time the guy isn't going to contribute anything to the care, upbringing, support, etc of the child unless he's forced to through the courts & child support?

ChillaxingLove · Accepted Answer

Fathers should definitely have a say because they will potentially be the Dad. It’s selfish not to at least consider the fathers feelings about the situation, not doing so is already telling of the type of woman they are and I blame the Father for choosing her to make a baby with. Any woman that doesn’t even have the decency to consider a father who wants the baby is selfish. well that’s my child in your body of which I provided the seed. If we are going do it by what belongs to us, we’ll that’s actually my property in you because it came from me not you.

When you’re making pancakes You have all the ingredients to make the pancake and you’re in the middle of stirring it. The pancake is still a pancake because the end result will be a pancake it sure as heck not ganna be a giraffe. Just because you through it away in the beginning stage doesn’t take away from what it would become.

In the Bible there were people who were sacrificing babies of which God didn’t like. Abortion is very similar except you’re just killing it at a different stage in life. Funny you bring that up, because God definitely detests abortion. He did create the baby after all. You can find it in the Bible, in the examples of how God dislikes the killings of children. Let’s start with Jesus who is God and came into the world as a child and they tried to kill him as a baby. The Christmas story you might know. but such is a common sense issue you don’t even need the Bible to prove it. Im guessing you actually don’t care and was just trying to make a point.

First of all God loves you more than your parents love you and more than you love yourself because he formed you. The Bible says he knows the number of hairs on your head. He knows everything about you and your secrets. If your parents get upset because someone murdered you imagine how God feels who formed the baby himself with personality and all. It’s equivalent to an artist who spent years to make a masterpiece, but in the middle of creating the art someone in one day comes along and rips it to pieces and throws it in the garbage. You ask them Why they did that and their response is: “Because it technically wasn’t an art work yet, it wasn’t finished”.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

False. The vast majority of women who choose abortion do so for other reasons, which are broken out below.

Not ready for a (nother) child/Timing is wrong - 25%
Can’t afford a baby now - 23%
Have completed childbearing/other dependents/children are grown - 19%
Don’t want to be a single mother or am having relationship problems - 8%
Don’t feel mature enough to raise a (nother) child/Feel too young - 7%
Would interfere with education or career plans - 4%
Physical problem with my health - 4%

https://www.umassmed.edu/news/news-archives/2019/05/who-are-the-1-in-4-american-women-who-choose-abortion/

Note that relationship problems represent only 8%, which proves your claim to be false.

Also note that the "my body, my choice" excuse pro-choicers use is also unsupported. In reality it is "my life, my choice", but they don't say that because it doesn't work in their favor, because in reality women choose abortion for exactly the same reasons men would choose not to become a parent, if they could. But men don't have that choice like women do (in most states).

I realize you're going to delete my post, but at least you will do so knowing you're wrong. But you won't want everyone else to know you're wrong, which is the only reason you'll delete it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I got pregnant even though we used birth control (condoms) and my IUD failed. I was a really rare case, and it traumatized me. So I got an abortion because I wasn’t ready (and my health wasn’t good enough to carry a child, that’s another story) but i also got one because I didn’t want to have a child with my ex. He wasn’t a douchebag, but I DEFINITELY deserved better. I think men feel they get a say because it’s also their child, but in the end they aren’t the one who has to carry it or potentially help raise it.

Msputiton · Accepted Answer

I support our rights to make a decision about abortion.

But your flawed on this statement.

Because if they aborting the baby because he is so terrible, she already proved she isn't the best decision maker. Like you chose to sleep with a horrible person, and feel so entitled to go i am too good to even allow your input, but not to good to accept his pp.

End of the day it's our bodies so we can't be forced to have a child, but he has the right to give his side of the story as to why he wants to have the child.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I support abortion. As the movie "Freakonomics" pointed out, abortion reduced the rate of unwanted kids, less mistreated kids equaled less crime, abuse, and so on.

Also, it's part of the long-term plan to destroy the woke. They usually suffer some mental issues, but their worshiping abortion or turning what kids they actually do pop out into a trans alienates them from the gene pool. Given enough time they simply destroy themselves.

This is one of those issues where I wish the religious right would STFU and just let people do what they want. Something is wrong with their thinking meat in my opinion. I mean seriously stop fighting what is taking out your competition, right?

On top of all of that, I agree with wanting to abort a kid because you partner turns out to be a piece of shit. In a perfect world the man could abort the child too. Sort of reminds me of that rapper guy (maybe he was a basket ball player) that put hot sauce in his used condom to kill the sperm... the chick tried to squeeze that condom out inside herself just to get to his money. She got her pooneetie a bit hot'n'spicey and still went for some money by trying to sue him for it. I'm digreesing and need to go take a shit. ... I just don't think that woman would've been a good mom.

Later... time for me to poo.

blissinanarchy1 · Answer

Why do people just pull out random numbers from their ass and call it a statistic. Sounds like a way to push accountability off on men.

Plenty of abortions are for a variety of issues. 95% of men being a douchebag is just you being a bigot.

Reasons can include:

•The mother being incapable of taking care of the baby

•The birth threatens the life of the mother

•The baby has a genetic disorder that’ll cause it’s life to be absolutely miserable.

•The mother is unwilling to take care of the baby.

I’m pro choice but stop blaming everything on men lmao, shut the fuck up about it.

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

There is not women who use abortion as birth control. Do not entertain that idea. It's expensive and it's painful physically, nobody would willingly put themselves through that repeatedly.

Otherwise I agree Ultimately men do not have a say what a woman does with her body even if it is his spawn. Courtesy would be to let him know.

Anonymous · Answer

The question is why doesn't the baby who's life your ending for your own personal convenience get a say?

The fact that your man conspires with you to dehumanize and kill an innocent person doesn't make that right. Murder is murder even thou the murders sees it as advantageous.

TheeTrybrid · Answer

That's terrible if u get an abortion cuz u mad at ur man but men definitely need to keep their opinions on the subject to themselves because they will never know what it's like to bear a child or give birth. Especially since there aren't any laws forcing them to be fathers and they can get up and decide they don't wanna be a parent anymore and only have to pay the mom a little bit of money fr the child.

Clarkkk · Answer

95% of abortions are because she’s mad at her man? That’s got to be one of the most horrific things I’ve read in my life.

spartan55 · Answer

Maybe don't have unprotected sex with douchebags? Na, that would mean taking some responsibility.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Since when did men have a say? They might have SOMETHING to say, but that's about it lol

MountAverage · Answer

Probably because they're douchebags. And no, women do not use abortion as birth control. That's yet another ridiculous myth spread by right-wing assholes.

Agape93 · Answer

They're welcome to a say, but not the final say. That's up to her and her alone.

JohnK123 · Answer

Wrong. Only 1% of all abortions are the result of ra*e or other assault… so “the most typical reason” is wrong which means other things can be wrong too

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

They certainly do if they're in the government. I think it should be treated like any other medical procedure. b

RockyHammock · Answer

Give men the option of not paying child support when the baby comes and I'll support your stance.

Anonymous · Answer

Because legally that was her decision to open her legs otherwise it would be rape. I'm not sorry to tell you that as I'm sure it hurts to hear so take that up with the FBI. I'm just the messenger here.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Maybe she shouldn't have let a douchebag fill her with his seed? Crazy, I know.

Guardian45 · Answer

On behalf of men, we are NOT 95% douchebags!

Anonymous · Answer

And we found the angry man hating feminist.

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