Which is worse, living with transphobic parents or living with racist parents?

[InsecureLivesMatter]

I think living with transphobic parents is worse because at least the stuff that racist parents say, racist parents know the stuff they're saying is dumb. All props to racist parents.

Transphobic parents will immediately ignore or even cut off their kids for even daring to transition, fearing that they will "cut their genitals off". (My family is like this.) That the standard in society is a straight, masculine, Christian man. "Christian"? How Christian is that type of behavior. They create extra trauma and make all of their kids think they're dumb.

living with transphobic parents

living with racist parents

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My problem with transphobic parents (or parents who just are "pro-children") is that they won't learn new tricks. They're always easily influenced by the billionaire-funded media outlets by choice. Like Daily Mail, The Independent, The Sun, Fox News, Newsmax, and CNN. It's funny because I don't even like the progressive liberal side that much.

But racist parents are relatively smart.

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Another thing to point out is racist behaviors aren't as common anymore. So usually I'll tolerate racists to a certain degree. At least I know how to change and correct their behavior. Rarely are they ignorant. They know the stuff they're spewing is bullshit. Transphobes don't realize half of what they're saying is BS.

[Anonymous]

Look at this from their point of view:
They went thou all the trouble to have and raise you so that the family line would go on. Only to have you selfishly throw all that hard work and expense away by castrating yourself.

Honestly you just robed them of decades of hard work and sacrifice for a goal to suite your own personal pressure.

As for racist parents, that's rather diffiuclt to quantify given "everyone is a racist", and indeed at some level the mere act of favoring your own child being your most direct kin can be seen as a form of "Racism".

[ChefPapiChulo]

Lol what

[Opinion Owner]

@ChefPapiChulo People today like to talk like its 'their life' but really it isn't your life is the accumulation of hundred of millions of years of hard work and sacrifice by parents to make it possible.

You may cheapen human life and claim it doesn't matter and you can simply live for yourself. But it does matter, indeed it is latterly everything that matters.

So when a child particularity an only child basically chooses to castrate themselfs and not have children their parents who sacrificed and work so hard to carry on that line as every ancestor before them did, have EVERY right to be sad and betrayed.

They have every right to wonder what might have poisoned your mind to betray your family and most basic of responsibilities to carry the torch of life forward so that the next generation may have their turn.

They have every right to be angry at you and whom every talked you into this position. For you have indeed taken everything from them and every ancestor of theirs.

[ChefPapiChulo]

lmao what

[OddBeMe]

Transphobic and homophobic parents literally kick their kids out before they drive. That’s why there’s charity orphanage for gays.

[LiamJHayden]

I would say racist. It would affect far more people.

[Anonymous]

My father is a racist. I dated black guys just to wind him up. But he was good to me when my ex beat me so badly I ended up in hospital and took my me and my daughter in.

[ChefPapiChulo]

Lol what

[Opinion Owner]

@ChefPapiChulo family is always family

[ChefPapiChulo]

Wtf lmao

[Whatthefluff]

I would say racist parents, because it concerns a much larger population.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Racist. That other shit is stupid and doesn't deserve a phobia. Also I hope the younger over 18 aren't living with their parents unless they need direct care.

[101mzsora]

both