I know one guy who tried to ban me from displaying my artwork, writing about academic topics, writing research based topics, or having personal contact with anybody other than him, and I think it’s because he told lies about my intelligence and he knows I can make him look like a fraud if they have personal exposure to me.
I know a girl who aggressively slanders me and tries to make me look bad with lies in every group zoom session, I think it’s because she uttered malicious lies about me when she first met me, to get me out of her realm of influence, and she doesn’t want her co workers to know what a humongous and biased liar she is, like I mention food cause it’s a topic people can relate to and she will accuse me of being mentally sick and obsessed with food, even if 80% of the discussion was fuelled by people other than me.
She also accused me of wanting to scam money from the government because I said the government does not give free hygiene products cause poor people might sell it online for money, of giving dangerous and life threatening medical advice after I told somebody with brain issues to eat omega 3, and she always shares her negative remarks with many others instead of dealing with it herself. She even goes through the trouble of remembering things I say so she can research it all online and look for flaws in my words.
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Honestly, you have way too many negative people in your life. It might be time for a purge.
Here's the thing though... As long as you are always truthful then any lie about you will always be seen as a lie. The truth always prevails. I don't run into situations like this much myself... Maybe the people around me know better than to mess with me. Although, many years ago I had a girl lie about me trying to break me up with the girl I was seeing at the time. The girl I was seeing asked me if it was true, and I told her no. Then I added “But if you prefer to believe her over me then we don't have a relationship based on trust and we might as well break up”. She decided to believe me. It was only a couple of weeks that the truth came out and I was vindicated. True will always win out. Do worry so much about what others say about you, just be the best you can be.