Why do bigoted closet white supremacists want to say something racist but don't want to be called a racist?

I am not talking about open racists like KKK members and yes or trump. I am talking about closet racists that love saying whatever racist comment they want but get mad if you call them a racist. Yet instead of apologizing for their actions of saying something bigoted and racist, they expect the victim of their receiving racism to just take it and apologize to them for daring to call them a racist. Then if the person is another white person called them a racist, the bigot responses by calling them woke which is the equivalent to race traitor.

Why do bigoted closet white supremacists want to say something racist but don't want to be called a racist?
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