Is a father holding his new born child like this creepy?

Question

Why do women think this a creepy?

JoePro_ · Accepted Answer

I haven't talked to a single nurse or physician who has tried to differentiate "skin-to-skin" contact as meaning "a mother's skin only with the baby's skin". Children need any skin-to-skin contact. Preferably an immediate parent, but anyone will do. The contact isn't about who's nurturing, but about the baby's biochemical need for touch. They require it or else they'll die from form of "failure to thrive". This is one of the reasons I don't go on Twitter/X anymore. I hate seeing people like this.

gorydetails · Accepted Answer

I would say that lunatic finds it creepy…not “women”

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Absolutely not! Skin to skin is encouraged for baby and parents! It helps with bonding. Skin to skin benefits can be had without feeding? I think the girl judging, is misunderstanding what she’s seeing? Maybe she thinks the dad is trying to feed the baby or something but he’s not, he’s just holding baby close for bonding and health of baby (it helps the baby regulate itself).

HelpfulWoman · Accepted Answer

it's called skin to skin and is literally known as a bonding experience. the poster in the photo is an ultimate dumbass who should not breed.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Larisa has rbf, hasn't gotten laid in three years, and eats TV dinners every night. Don't pay any attention to her.

patois · Answer

Dude isn't trying to breastfeed the kid. The hospital likely promoted skin-to-skin care to encourage parental bounding. The wife likely wanted him to be involved in the child's life, and being a proud father he was like sure I love my kid if you think skin-to-skin contact will help I do anything for my child.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

The dumb bitch is just jealous of happy parents, so she lashes out in the most predictable way, „men = creepy“.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

That woman is just toxic AF. She'd be the one complaining when her man doesn't claim her kid as his own. F her opinion.

runitupkai · Answer

just a little.. his smile is not doing any justice rn.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

So fathers can't even hold their kids close them now? Jesus, leave it to a cunt of a woman to ruin the smallest thing for a man.

Xia1994 · Answer

what the heck no it's not creepy do you know how many kids in the world have never even been hugged by their dad? it's beautiful to see a father love their child.

AviatorTom · Answer

Perfectly normal for Dad and Baby to be touching each other. It would be creepy if a Dad didn't want to do this.

EmmaMary · Answer

There's certainly some very pathetic lowlifes roaming the planet. And I do sincerely hope that @helpfulwoman won't mind me fully reiterating her comments.

electromagnetic · Answer

isn’t skin to skin encouraged from both parents?  McGregor might be a complete prick but that doesn’t mean he shouldn’t be allowed to hold his baby.

BCRanger10 · Answer

It's called skin-on-skin contact and it's very important to a child's development. The attempts to diminish and belittle men just keep falling to all sorts of new levels of ignorance and stupid.

Apple1996 · Answer

It's normal for dads to do skin to skin with their babies. My husband did it with our 3rd baby just mintues after he was born because I wasn't able to hold him

Flatmanlewis · Answer

I suspect three things: Larisa has no kids. She has no good men in her life. She has a future involving a lot of cats and long nights in front of a TV.

strateguy632 · Answer

not creepy. also men feed babies by bottle and spoon.

tzdc21 · Answer

Once you get the memo that society expects everything and anything a man does is creepy, it won't hit you as hard.

exitseven · Answer

why is this creepy. i used to hold my kids with no shirt on.

Yannae · Answer

Don't think women think this is creepy. Crazies think this is creepy. That Larisa just happens to be one of the crazies.

sage2021 · Answer

No, it's not creepy but the baby might think it is. ook at it's face

msc545 · Answer

I held my daughter like that when she was a baby. We both liked it.

Dargil · Answer

No, it is not. Skin to skin contact with an infant is good for him or her.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

I did that for both my kids. Fathers are equal parents and have a right to form a bond.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

That has to be one of the stupidest things I’ve heard

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

That woman is an idiot. Small infants can easily slip out of your hand so you have to hold them closely and tightly.

laly520 · Answer

the pic seems lovely to me

Twalli · Answer

Because they don't think a man can show love and nurturing and still be masculine.

AngryCarl · Answer

Dude would be creepy without the fucking baby.

jimmy2 · Answer

Wow there nothing more Sweeter than standing wherever as the woman gives birth and the moment love is turn on at first sight

Agape93 · Answer

Nope. he's happy and holding his kid

Anonymous · Answer

If I had done this with my daughter my ex would have accused me of molesting her.

LazerBean · Answer

Of course not.

Kykiono1 · Answer

Only weirdos think this is creepy

handsomelad70 · Answer

Explain why ANYONE would think it creepy?

12karen · Answer

Nope, it's not

Tstrbrainer · Answer

You believe internet?

4ngelic · Answer

no...

FreyaRed · Answer

Nope.

helva · Answer

Not at all.

Anonymous · Answer

No not at all

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