"Only Girls Can Be Sluts. Guys Are The Slut-Makers." Agree or Disagree?

[Physics-Man]

This is a comment I read on a forum from the man-o-sphere.

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[sage2021]

I do believe that guys are the shutdown makers.
The reason I believe that is because each time a woman goes on a date with a man, we know that at the end of the date, that he's going to want sex. At least he will try to.
When you go on a date, and at the end of the date and you act like a gentleman, and say good night and call her in a couple of days and this continues on this path, it has the makings of beginning a real relationship between the two of you.
If you expect sex at the end of every encounter with her, then she feels obligated to have sex with you, for fear of never hearing from you again.
Why can't men just not try to bring sex into the end of the date, say good night and call her in a few days, treating her like a person instead of a sex object?
That will prove that she's probably girlfriend material, and a good catch, if you just don't turn her into a sexual object just because everyone else does it?
I dated a lot of guys in my lifetime and I would say NO to sex at the end of the date - and either I heard from him again or I didn't.
But I didn't allow myself to be a slut having sex with every guy who wanted sex from me because I have self respect and I am not going to lower myself to become a sex object just to keep a guy. I'd rather feel good about myself than feel like I gave myself away to a guy that I didn't even know.
Most men will try to have sex at the end of the date, but the woman has the choice to say no.
But why do most men always expect sex at the end of their date?
I wasn't going to have sex just because some guy bought me dinner. Ha! I know how to feed myself and not keep putting myself through the little test at the end of each date.
I grew tired of that routine and just wouldn't keep putting myself in the position for it to keep happening as years passed and it was still the same old thing at the end of the date.
When guys always want or try to have sex at the end of the date, do you ever think 🤔 that maybe she gets the same thing with other men she's dating and you're just another dog who chases cars.
How do you know if you could have a great relationship with her if only you could refrain from being what every other guy is to her? A piece of tooshy period.
It's no wonder that people these days can't find someone to love.

[Anonymous]

STD's don't discriminate. I see it equally problematic for a man to sleep around with no standards. Slut is generally a word used for women though. Sounds weird to think of a man of a slut. A large amount of men would fall under the category though if they had opportunity cause they are not very picky and desperate.

[Sebastian100]

I agree 💯

[Anonymous]

A slut is a woman with many sexual partners so definitively no.
Sadly we do not have a equivalent term specifically for males maybe whore or something, manslut would probably suffice.


Hot take on this topic: is men usually have to put in more effort to get and maintain a sexual partner some make it look easier than others. So it would make sense that there would be less derogatory terms for malesluts.
Not saying I agree with general societal norms on this one it’s just stating the norm.

[SeekerOfTruth007]

No. You make your own moral choices. NObody forces you to be a whore or whoremonger, and the sad thing is sexual pleasure lasts like a few minutes, but you ruin your lives seeking it all the time and contracting God alone knows what STDs you fools keep passing to one another.

[OlderAndWiser]

I'm sure than many "alpha males" will agree with you.

[BCRanger10]

"He's a stud, she's a slut" is a garbage idea. I asked a similar question last year. Per those results, guys who sleep around a lot aren't heroes, according to other guys.

[Pohjolan]

Well the guy equivalent is a gigolo or a fuckboy.

Difference is that women always know that they are the mother and they are more prone to mimetic desire thus fucking a lot of women improves a guys reputation among women.

Men however try to avoid divorce and being cucked.

[Summeroflove]

It takes two people to make the decision to sleep with one another. These people will fuck around with one another. Probably marry the first woman they knock up or for women the first man they’re kncoked by and live miserably ever after

[capriVib]

Make sense, if there isn't man, there is no need to be a sluts.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Men are the biggest sluts on planet earth. It’s not even a challenge to make them beg for it

[Sunrising]

My opinion is what is good for the goose is good for the gander too.

Either, both sexes sluts, or neither sex sluts.

[Sunrising]

@Physics-Man I like the photo, except shame you included the guy in the centre of it.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Both sexes sluts if they're randy.

[douride2]

I'm not sure what you would call a male slut.

[Anonymous]

just men do the fucking and women are the ones getting fucked

[shortster]

Guys can be cads; which is the male version of the word slut.

[Jennz6]

Yes but it shouldn’t be that way

[beefcakebradybatson]

He's a lucky lad, not aa sl*t !!!

[noohair]

Maybe it is women are sluts and men are pigs.

[FunkyMonkee]

It's what society wants you to believe.

[Kelley1]

Men don't make sluts. Becoming a slut is a choice.

[4ngelic]

no men can be whores too

[chrissykerdock]

very true

[DrPepper12]

Define slut. Then we'll talk.

[Anonymous]

I think men can be sluts too.