The Pressure to Marry: Where Does It Come From?

Question

Do you think there's an ideal age for marriage, or is it something that should happen only when a person feels ready? 🤔🤔🤔

Also, why do people often view men and women differently if they don't prioritize marriage? I'm not talking about those who never want to get married. I mean people who are open to marriage but don't see it as a necessity or the ultimate milestone in life... They believe they can live a meaningful, fulfilling life whether they marry or not.

Why does society often question or judge that mindset?
Why is there so much pressure to marry by a certain age?
Is it rooted in culture, family expectations, religion, biology, or something else? 🤔

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

It's hard to see when you are younger, ESPECIALLY when the culture highly encourages being selfish and strongly encourages consumer spending, but for the vast majority of people, their biggest and most fulfilling accomplishment in life will be having and raising children - and this is especially true when you are in the final third of your life.

Young people have trouble imagining what it's like to be alone in the world when you are old and when money is tight and your body is beginning to (or is well into the process of) failing you. Having children is not only your legacy, but a huge comfort that you will be taken care of when you are most vulnerable (this assumes that you have raised your children right and given them strong morals and values, of course). The imperative of every species is to survive and to reproduce. That's what the vast majority of people are here for.

Marriage is the foundation of the family. Marriage isn't "happily ever after", it's about having a partner to take on the struggles of the world and to raise children with the right balance of strength and love.

The developed world is experiencing birth rate collapse, because society (for both political and consumerist reasons) has taught everyone to be selfish, but there is going to be a huge cost. Most people today can't conceive what the lack of young workers (particularly men) is going to mean, and when they realize it, it's going to be too late to fix even in their children's lifetime. The most difficult, most dangerous jobs - the ones that build and sustain the infrastructure that everything relies on, are done by men in the 20s,30s, and 40s. Most of these jobs cannot be done by the vast majority of women or by older men. And there are simply not going to be nearly enough of them to maintain the infrastructure, much less advance it.

Worse, it means weakness and vulnerability, which in all of human history has led to wars. Wars that won't be just fought on the other side of the world, but in your own city. Wars that cause masses of people to die of hunger and disease.

The great civilizations in history - the Sumerians, the Mesopotamians, the Egyptians, the Roman Empire - they all ended when people got too comfortable, when women were given political power (and made political decisions based on feelings instead of facts and reason), and when they became selfish and abandoned the morals and values that built the civilization. Birthrates fell, and either their infrastructure collapsed and they starved or they were invaded and conquered. That's the path we are on because we have become selfish and abandoned marriage and children. And it will absolutely cause tremendous suffering and loss of quality of life, and may well cause the entire developed world to collapse back to something approximating the 1600s.

That's why marriage and children are important and why there is pressure.

Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

I think it’s more about eagerness of all parties really.
Just like people want a new phone when it comes out or a new car or a new hand bag.
They don’t wait until the product is old before desiring it.
Marriage itself as a product works the same way.
When someone is eligible, everyone wants a piece: parents want grandkids, single people want companionship etc…

It’s a baseless pressure because in theory nothing happens if it takes a little longer. It only causes problems if it takes too long.

But honestly you should be flattered by the pressure in a way as well.
It’s a sign of a healthy society to seek companionship with the most attractive elements.
And unfortunately you’re blessed with that.

fluffydevilxx · Answer

I don’t think there’s a universally “ideal” age for marriage. I think there’s an ideal combination of maturity, compatibility, shared values, emotional readiness, and practical stability. Some people reach that in their early 20s, others in their 30s or later. Marrying because the calendar says it’s time is rarely a good reason.

Society’s pressure to marry by a certain age comes from several sources. Historically, marriage wasn’t just about love, it was about survival, family alliances, raising children, and economic stability. Those expectations became deeply embedded in cultures and religions and continue to influence families today.

Biology also plays a role, particularly for people who want children. Female fertility generally declines with age, especially after the mid-30s, and pregnancy risks gradually increase. Men don’t experience the same fertility timeline, but age still affects sperm quality and the ability to keep up with the demands of parenting. So for those who want a family, biology creates a practical consideration, not necessarily a deadline for everyone.

The reason men and women are often judged differently is largely because of historical gender roles. Women have traditionally been expected to prioritize marriage and motherhood, while men have often been expected to establish themselves financially before settling down. Although society has changed, many of those expectations still linger.

That said, I don’t think someone who is open to marriage but doesn’t see it as life’s ultimate achievement is “behind” in any way. Marriage is a significant commitment, not a trophy or a box to tick. A meaningful life can be built through loving relationships, family, friendships, purpose, career, service, or personal growth, with or without a marriage certificate.

At the same time, it’s worth recognizing that humans are biologically and psychologically social. Most people eventually desire deep companionship, intimacy, and a sense of belonging. Marriage is one way to meet those needs, but it’s not the only way, and not everyone needs the same path to live a fulfilling life.

Ultimately, I think the healthiest mindset is to be open to marriage if you find the right person, but not so desperate to meet a societal timeline that you marry the wrong one. The right marriage at 35 is far better than the wrong marriage at 25 just to satisfy expectations.

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

Let answer that for you. This going to piss off some readers, but here goes. Garden of Eden, Long , Long Timeago. Our creator tells the dynamic duo. 'You can stay in this garden for ever as long as you are working on a pregnancy. Steady at it. Yeah i know about the tree that needed a chainsaw, Enter "'DA SNAKE" The book of Genesis does not tell us who the embodiment of evil is, But when you scramble The Greek's concept of "Hades", pure mythology into the story. He becomes Satan. Anyhow he starts talking to Eve and generates doubt about God"s love for them. I find that hard to swallow. We don't know the chronology of the happenings. But one day you are walking in the garden (both naked) with the individual who created you. and the next day you don't trust him. The major issue is nudity here. Well anyway they both enjoy a Fruit salad. Adam becomes ashamed of his proud flesh, and they hide. Which gets them an eviction notice. At this point no one has mentioned marriage. Total orgy here. We get led to the Garden Gate. Adam is now responsible for the survival of his family. Eve deals with more pain in childbirth and the final blow, She will always want to be overlorded by a man. Not exactly a clear statement. I have never met a woman who wants a man telling her what to do. How does that help the creator achieve his goal of Copulate to Populate. It does not. So, put on your thinking caps, Boys and Girls How many interpretations can you think of, that will help God achieve His ends. Eves libido button gets cranked up past "patent pending"

The problem is that man is bent on possessions, as in , My wife, My Children, My Car, My House, My Boat, My bank account, and so on ad nauseam. Hebrew are a patriarchal society, women are bought and sold like cattle. Religiously , marriage is a way to Copulate to Populate, that is forgiven. When was it a SIN. The ten Commandments tell us to keep out proud flesh to ourselves or at least our spouses. This becomes the authorized way to have forgiven sex even though it did not need to be forgiven. It is the Masters will. It is kinda like a game of hide and seek. Ole Ole in Free. Enjoy. by the way I have been Married for 54 years and have remained true to my wife.

sage2021 · Answer

Hello 👋🏼

I wish I could print out your question so I could read it again and again instead of trying to memorize what you asked.

I can feel that you are feeling pressure from someone or several people or you wouldn't be asking about it.

I must start by saying that you didn't mention God in your question. I believe in God and I believe that God created us. So, for me, that's where it started.

We need to mention love in this question as well, because that's also where it starts.

I believe that in the olden days, girls were expected to get married at an early age, and if they didn't, they were calling 'an old maid.' So, there was a lot of pressure to get married back then.

But let's start with how it happens. It shouldn't happen by a certain age, but rather when and if you find a special person and the two of you fall in love.
If that does happen for you, then you would want to be with that person and share your lives together. You could get married, or not. But we are talking about love here. And love happens when it happens and age doesn't play a part in it. And some people never find love and they still have a life to live, so they make a life for themselves without love and marriage.

Love and marriage have been with us since the beginning of time. A big part of marriage is to have children and keep the human race going. For some people, this comes naturally when they get married. For others, they prefer not to procreate.

I believe that it all comes from the desire in your heart and not from outside influences at all. It's all a personal decision. Since it's a personal decision and it's your life then there shouldn't be any pressure.

As for me personally, I always wanted to be a Mom since I was about 6 years old. I wanted to fall in love, get married and have a family. That was my dream. And all of that did happen for me, but it came from the desire in my heart, not from outside influences.

I don't know who is pressuring you to feel like you have to be married by a certain age, because you have to find someone special first, which you cannot predict when or if that will ever happen.

Listen to what your heart tells you and not what other people tell you. All of this is a personal decision for your life and not anyone else's life. Just yours.

So, please don't ever feel like you HAVE to do any of what society says, and furthermore, don't allow them to be a problem for you. You are your own person who wants to live their best life.

I hope that I have released you from the pressure cooker you seem to be in.
The best to you in all of your endeavors.🙂

DishLady · Answer

Typically it's just the social expectation that any quasi-normal guy and gal from "good families" with positive experiences and strong family values will find their mate and marry to start the cycle all over again.

The expectation doesn't account for dysfunction properly -- and unfortunately the human race seems to be in a state of communal dysfunction that makes the sanctity of marriage very... flimsy.

To be fair, the original vision for the sanctity of marriage has been disrupted by a variety of normative for-profit social expectations. My dad's sheep as dowry for you to marry me... My dad's land as dowery for you to marry me... My title and stuff... shared assets... etc. etc. Women were also considered exchangeable "property" for several generations... so there's that... Blah blah blah.

If we could scrap all the nonsense and go back to the original "one man for one woman"... "made for each other"... that would be nice.

OneViewpoint · Answer

I'm not sure it's "society" whining about women who won't comply with marriage and kids. I think it's a small subset of society, namely guys who want to get married and dream of a sex slave / house slave and are unequipped to deal with the word "NO" when spoken by a woman, LOL. These guys tend to whine loudly about how women suck and the world is ending. Which does nothing for their chances of meeting the woman of their dreams. These are the losers in the world of men. Man babies who struggle with lack of success in life in general.

Personally as a guy, I've never spent a second thinking about any woman who opted out of marriage and/or kids. Everyone is entitled to make their own life choices. Like being a teacher or a mechanic. Nor have I ever had any male friends who harped on this stuff. It's just not something we ever think about. But my friends tend to be pretty mentally healthy and successful guys who have "normal" well balanced adult relationships with women.

Don't be swayed by the loud butthurt whining from a small minority of losers who make their own problems in life.

Deepinthought345 · Answer

The institution of marriage was according to me, conceived to propagate a lineage. To maintain an heirloom. Women are birth givers and their role was only to provide an heir. The need for an heir or to continue a lineage grew into a community matter. Families with common threads, like people of the same religion felt it necessary to create more within the same community. As usual the burden fell on the women to give society more children. Those who couldn't bear children were seen as someone who was weak and against the cause.

Marriages were also seen as an event or a social formality to have a family- the smallest social unit. It was like owning your own farm or cattle or property. And women were considered property. Having more property meant being more powerful.

This lead to marriages being the social expectation for men and women to "settle down" and contribute to the community/society rather than being "selfish" and thinking only about themselves.

RavVid · Answer

Women need to be aware that the line that they have been given that they can have it all and do marriage and children when they are ready after education and career is a FLAWED narrative.

Women are more into having children than men are and female fertility has a limit of about 35 - so the clock ticks faster. It is obviously more desirable for women to be partnered moms rather than single moms, so fertility does put a time frame on establishing a suitable stable relationship within which to have children, earlier than for men.

Whilst we all have a Disney view of romance in the early 20's, that gets knocked out of us by 30. Especially for men. We have seen what divorce does and have probably experienced break ups in our 20's. So we become once bitten twice shy and are cautious by early 30's. Not so willing to act upon a woman's declining fertility window.

And it does take time to meet & test drive potential partners. At least 5 years to get to the point of giving birth and quite probably considerably longer. A woman leaving it till she is 30 will probably mean it doesn't happen.

Less than 30% of men are unpartnered in their 60s but 60% of women are. Solitude appears to affect women more than it affects men.

Biology isn't and never can be equal. As girl years go by faster than man years then there is more pressure inherently on women biologically. Recognition of this by friends and family, pressure will be applied to women for their own long term good.

RingOfFire · Answer

"Why does society often question or judge that mindset? Why is there so much pressure to marry by a certain age? Is it rooted in culture, family expectations, religion, biology, or something else?" The answer is that it is rooted in millions of years of nature and evolution. Reproduction is the most important function of any species and obviously essential to its survival. It is as true for humans as any other species. So millions of years of evolution designed males and females to get together and mate and have a strong family structure which is the building block of a healthy "society" (which is just a fancy name for a herd). As is the case with many successful species individual members of the herd are programmed to put pressure on those who don't want to contribute to the herd's survival and look at them as threats to the herd's survival. That's explains a lot of why certain kinds of behavior by certain groups of humans are so widely rejected by others who are repulsed by that behavior based on their natural instincts. What is the ideal age to marry? As far as nature is concerned it is in a female's years of peak fertility which is probably late teens to around 30. Nature doesn't care about the fad of the day with regard to what is socially acceptable or not. It cares about survival and making sure that the natural differences in physiology between males and females are used to fulfill their different but complimentary roles in having children and building a strong nuclear family.

HawkPerception · Answer

There's definitely an ideal age range especially if you want to start a family with that person. I'd say anywhere from around 20 to 30 is the "ideal" time to get married. Not many people have their lives completely together and are "ready" to get married. It's one of those things you just do and figure things out along the way.

That being said, obviously marry when you want and who you want. You shouldn't feel pressured by others.

But I'd say the older you are, the less ideal it is to get married. You can still get married at any age though.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I don't really see such social judgment passed as something individual or chosen. I just see people being a vessel used by tradition and conformity enforcement, cynically described as "dead people voices speaking in your head". Traditions are the backbone of any society, but some people are thinking them through, while some people just enforce them mindlessly whenever they have a chance. It's peer pressure, it's a spectrum and while it has an important social function for societies' maintenance, it can also be quite depressing.

Modernity seems to want us to decipher what good and bad there is in traditions. It's a lot of cognitive work to do but I personally enjoy the task I'm presented with lol

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Traditional, religious and societal norms all play a roll in the pressure to be married. So much so that many people will look down on you if you've been with your partner for a long time and haven't tied the knot. Men get it worst of all, I think, as society sees it as him being afraid or unwilling to commit.

There are legal benefits to marriage, but they're not really anything next level.

Myself, I used to be almost opposed to marriage; now I'm open to it, but still not prioritizing it. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years and we're in a great place as it is. We've been living together for 5 years, we both have our careers, we travel frequently, we get along with each other's families, we even game together.

jshm2 · Answer

It comes from understanding value of people and relationships.

Anyone can get a degree, job and awards. But being able to marry and build a successful relationship is something that speaks to the soul of character and family.

Few humans are capable of marriage, even fewer are capable of making a family from it.

Purpleronnie · Answer

The pressure to marry usually comes from a mix of culture, family expectations, religion, tradition, and, to some extent, biology. For most of history, marriage was seen as the standard path to adulthood, stability, and raising children, so those expectations became deeply ingrained.

I don’t think there’s an ideal age that fits everyone. Marriage tends to work best when both people are genuinely ready for the commitment, not when they’re trying to meet a social deadline.

As for the judgment, people often assume that if someone isn’t following the traditional script, they’re missing out or making a mistake. In reality, a meaningful life isn’t defined by marital status. Some people find fulfillment through marriage and family, while others find it through friendships, career, purpose, community, or a combination of many things.

Being open to marriage without seeing it as life’s ultimate milestone is a perfectly reasonable perspective.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Decades of learnings from humanity.

They recognize... for them... there is security in two or more. have you seen the people down and out, on their own, with no support. That is bad... that is often, suffering and death.

Nature. Even our groundhogs pair bond... noone tells them what to do, they figure it out when the hormones kick in. They do it for reproduction and security as part of life

humans are at another level, over think. society has trashed marriage and relationships. Recognize, you are ain a very damaged environment, promoting selfishness, alonenes... for the benefit of economy and profit.

Lesbologist · Answer

It used to be something that was a net positive and just isn't anymore... and the standards seem to be passed down.

Kind of like women that make money now, but they still expect the man to pay for all the shit. A passed down tradition when shit was a lot different.

I say the smartest people will think for themselves and find what works best for them, the greedy though... they're trying to pick and choose from another time the best things and also have the new best things at the same time. I won't knock it because if you get away with it... good for you. But if you end up alone and single just because you can't have your cake and eat it too... ha! Not my problem.

Miristheiss · Answer

Hard wired by God, commanded by God.

He gave is a sex drive. Sex makes BABIES. Babies need families. God established families as the main unit os society.

People married to have sex and have families. People married at 17, 18, 19, 20. Married for life. Natural order of life.

NOW, mankind trumos God. Let us make birth control. Now people just start fucking just to fuck with no babies and families. Let us be degenerates who are 28, single, fucked 50 different people.

Birth rate in freefall, killing babies as an inconvenience, women gave up being feminine, want to be men and prioritize work and put off having babies. They have to be sexually active for 10 years, work, work, work, then after her pairbonding ability is fried, she is bitter from 5-10 breakups and she has missed out on 3 or 4 kids she will try at age 30.

Mark_Est · Answer

Marriage as such is from religion, in its latest form and social pressures.

However, it is also rooted in basic biology. Women offer sexual purity and fertility to men. The older you get the worse you get, with age and poor life choices.

The window is very short for women. Essentially upto 25 years old. That is the price of getting your value upfront, and not having to work for it.

That is why women are told to find a man fast and dont waste your value/life away on crap that doesn't really matter.

Modern feminism/women act like it is a negative pressure. Like it is slavery or etc. While it just ensures you have a good life.

Both genders have their roles/jobs

Anonymous · Answer

As I Muslim as far as I know (need to consult scripture and scholars better):

Marry as soon as you could. It is established in Islam and some people even talk about stories how God (Allah) grants parents the livelihood for every child. Even better livelihood just for marriage. As in how we don't call it pressure.

General requirements is to be ready from all aspects.

I'm not giving any sort of any other detail about requirements or benefits or reasoning why it is encouraged or ordered. Anyone who is interested, go check for yourself. I'm not a specialized person but simply stating that religious reasoning could be one as the asker asked.
And Sunni Islam please.

TonyMetal___1986 · Answer

Actually it's rooted in everything miss Veronika hehe
Marriage is a happy event, in general sooner or later it's the ultimate goal...
Marriage worth nothing if there is no real love and it worth nothing if it ain't a sacred marriage, because it's a double edged sword, it can heaven and it can be hell depending on the couple!

Mayorofbobaville · Answer

I think marriage is more about finding the right person and being ready for that commitment than reaching a certain age. Some people are ready in their 20s, others in their 30s, 40s, or never, and that doesn’t mean they are any less fulfilled.

A lot of the pressure comes from culture, family expectations, and traditions that have been passed down for generations. People often see marriage as a milestone because that’s how they were taught to view success and adulthood. There can also be different expectations placed on men and women because of old ideas about gender roles.

At the end of the day, a meaningful life can look different for everyone. Marriage can be a beautiful part of life, but it shouldn’t be treated as the only path to happiness or fulfillment. The important thing is that people make that choice because they want to, not because they feel pressured by a timeline.

CherryLove007 · Answer

Marriage is a tolerance TEST. Religious pressure is a factor. Multiple factors are at play. For every persons pressure it stems from how they view marriage. Sometimes they want you to have a happy ending right away but that is not how reality works.

AviatorTom · Answer

Mother Nature built into each of us (not just humans, animals and plants too) an innate urge to reproduce and continue the species. Marriage is the most convenient way to do this.

So, if you want to blame someone for the pressure to marry, blame Mother Nature... and your friends who are victims of Nature, just like you.

beenherebefore · Answer

Those who have more traditional beliefs are more likely to pressure you for marriage. The ideal age is when you feel you're mature enough to take on that step and you are 100% sure that you want to spend the rest of your life with your SO and know them fairly well before taking on this big step. Don't let the pressure get in your head. Marriage is a very serious decision and once you're married there's no turning back, unless you believe in divorce.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

It comes from pretty much everywhere. Don’t forget the socioeconomic pressures. Weddings are big business. Divorce is too. Then there’s alimony and child support. There are billions at stake.

firenine909 · Answer

From my understanding, this is something that’s pushed onto girls because a lot of men care for looks and women are deemed less desirable (young and hot) after 30 so the pre-30 years for women has this happen to them. Guys aren’t desired based on looks so there is no pressure for us to marry

dudeinohio · Answer

I never felt pressure. It just seemed the right thing to do. I suppose it all boils down to what your generation expects.

Anonymous · Answer

Veronica

You are 26 and probably very mature

People are putting off until later

I know a guy announced his wife is pregnant first time
He's 39, she's 36

I was similar. I was 38 and I got married and first baby that year.

It's something comes up in your consciousness. You decide for yourself.

It's the most important thing in life.

It's hard to get out perfect
Perfect partner
Perfect home
Perfect job
Enough money

But you have to put a line in the sand and just accept what you have and go for it

You have lots of time

Smileygirl2000 · Answer

This has been pushed on woman and men for centuries. I feel like it started with arranged marriages. a lot of pressure was placed on the woman to fine a well to do man to care for them and pressure on the man to marry a submissive woman who can constantly reproduce expanding his blood line. Prime example are royal families

DonaldDarko · Answer

The pressure comes from the government ultimately. The idea being to breed new tax cattle and soldiers. What rancher doesn't want his cattle to breed?

Likes2drive · Answer

There’s so many answers for this, but it’s probably society itself thinking that’s what’s needed to create a family is a stable marriage with some children and everyone working together and in my opinion, I think the perfect age to get married is 27 for women and 30 for men. I’m sure family background and religion has a lot to do with it making people feel they need to get married, but unfortunately that government contract comes with a lot of negatives especially if they get divorced later on.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

in my area and in my family there is no pressure at all, I'm still surprised how mature my parents opinion is. They know how hard the dating market is nowadays and how corrupted and self entitled women became with social media and how they can destroy a man's life with divorce, wrong accusations etc. and there is no need and logic behind blindly following rigid traditions that pose no advantage or benefit to a man's life

Lottydotty · Answer

Its absolutely a when ready thing. but there is structure to planning out that you'll do your best to be ready by a certain age so you can get the babies pumpin. But look at all the relationships where they started early... like most I see kinda suck. They dont look happy. most look ready to quit eachother when kids are old enough so I say make sure to hop on the best damn father and lover for you that you can find before settling.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know why people like to exaggerate things... but the pressure to marry no longer exists. Marriage and children are at an all time lows. Pressure to marry was more like the 1990s or early 2000s.

But I believe that people staying single and childless is perpetuating a pandemic of loneliness all around the world. When you have no one to come home to, no one who has your back, loneliness is a natural result.

MrChinaski · Answer

I never wanted to marry as such. My partner did and, meh, it was nice reason for a party and the exchange of jewellery. It didn't change our relationship.

waleedv3 · Answer

It's way better to marry at a young age.
You won't see it until you are older bec society keeps telling you the opposite and that you have to establish your career first and marry later etc.

I am 30 and I wish I married in my twenties but I didn't meet the one yet.

It's not really pressure it's nature it's something your body and mind needs for stability. You are more prone to depression and much stuff alone

Kassandra1994 · Answer

When will people understand that we can not obligated marriage? This is crazy I was in love once it was way to painful now I rather be single and considering that In MIL comes included in the packaged hell no.

MasterKS · Answer

Society literally fucked up, marriage is personal choice not necessary. ignore them. people need freedom not husband or wife.

Anonymous · Answer

Because people become more selfish after a certain age where they can't adjust to someone else needs.
Women generally go through that much earlier.
Men go through that after a lot of failure in love.
Once it has passed much difficult to find someone to adjust with., begin to choose there attractive parts more then quality.

genericname85 · Answer

i think it's probably evolutinary. marriage is the institution that facilitates having offspring. so i think marriage isn't the goal. having offspring is and marriage is just the stepping stone to that.

LiamJHayden · Answer

No idea. I have/feel zero pressure to marry.

strateguy632 · Answer

that is natural. a lady gets a monthly reminder that another month passed and was a missed opportunity. we want to continue not go extinct so my parents want grandchildren.

MissSunshine2 · Answer

Chick flicks and children's fairy tales and the media and religion.

Sexiestjohnson · Answer

It is ingrained. We all desire sexual and emotional fulfilment. Even Angels have the same desire. The only evil is how we go about it.

Anonymous · Answer

I thought women and girls don’t want to get married. I mean I’ve seen decent looking guys who’s in shape, have a lot of great qualities, independent, works hard, owns a car and home and still get rejected by females.

JesseP1nk · Answer

I tell you a secret, kid. There is no "right moment" for anything. Thats the horrible thing about life - its self-assignment. You wanna get married, get married. You dont, then dont.

Anonymous · Answer

From idiots and the world is full of them, if we stay just a bit to glance at the world most intelligent scientists didn't even bred or married ever

foxsquirrell · Answer

It comes from the so called society that is to say from people who do not know how to mind their f... business and want everybody to conform to their way of life.

Pretendingtobesweet · Answer

Cockroach meet cockroach and get a cockroach baby simple

Limited_Edition5 · Answer

I think society and the wedding seem fun, and you want that. But what about six months later, and so on?

fishbone77 · Answer

Marriage is an institution which has allowed human beings thrive for tens of thousands of years. "pressure" is because it works.

ThisSiteSux · Answer

The fact that childhood is over badly by 35 and if you aren't married or have kids your life is almost always lonely and pathetic. Suicide rates sore

msc545 · Answer

I think it comes mostly from women who want to have someone to pay their bills and have children with them.

Queen_of_Spades · Answer

I think it’s just the safest route or so the parents perceive it to be. You have a family a person who can be there for you and you get a direction or like a purpose.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

You should never feel pressure to get married. Only get married if you find your soulmate.

canamlusciouslad73 · Answer

Family and society, but this lifelong bachelor wasn't pressured by anyone to wed.

Staximus · Answer

From societies expectations that come from tradition and culture

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

For me it comes from myself. Cause in my family everybody is married all of my siblings and cousins and now its almost my turn to jump the broom

Manuelwe · Answer

The pressure to assure your kids has their father name and money when he dies

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not sure, some kind of tradition probably.

MattyIceBox · Answer

Society and culture creates the pressure, in my opinion.

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